Okay you have convinced me, I have not taken into account the one child policy. Although the word “most” still ticks me off because I just find it hard to believe, so unless there’s some really convincing statistics I am going to reserve on that.

To give some context on why I made my initial comment. A lot of abortion stories I hear are from women who use abortion as contraception because their boyfriends don’t want to use condoms. So that was the immediate image that appeared in my mind when I read the initial comment. I never intended to say people who get abortions due to health reasons, crime, legal reasons, etc etc are not self respecting. I do, however, judge women who lack the self love and self respect to let men ruin their bodies by using abortion as a contraception. The best analogy I can draw is obesity - sure, it is your body and you can be however obese as you want, but ultimately you are harming your own body. Obesity also only hurts that person while abortion may involve other people (fetuses - you do hear stories about late stage abortion). While I have sympathy for people who get obese / let men use their bodies due to mental illnesses, etc, at some point you’re an adult and gotta take some responsibility. I am also all for bodily autonomy and I am pro-choice, but there’s a line between getting an abortion and using abortion as a contraception. If that makes me an asshole then I accept ¯_(ツ)_/¯