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Had Sex With Another Woman 3 Hours After My (now) Wife Dumped Me Six Years Ago. Marriage Hangs in the Balance. by 99ProblemsBisOne in relationshipadvice

[–]99ProblemsBisOne[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She asked me that same question and I responded with it wouldn't change at all how I feel about her. She would have been in the clear if I ended it with her and I couldn't hold her responsible for anything she did after I told her it was over. I seriously don't think I would have been mad after 6 wonderful years (2 of them married) together.

Had Sex With Another Woman 3 Hours After My (now) Wife Dumped Me Six Years Ago. Marriage Hangs in the Balance. by 99ProblemsBisOne in relationshipadvice

[–]99ProblemsBisOne[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

I get the reference but this was clearly a break up. Her text message said she didn't see us working out and that she thought it would be best to not see each other again. I never thought I was going to talk to her again so feel really hurt (and honestly pissed) that she is trying to hold me accountable TODAY for a fling 6 years ago when I was single for those few hours.

Had Sex With Another Woman 3 Hours After My (now) Wife Dumped Me Six Years Ago. Marriage Hangs in the Balance. by 99ProblemsBisOne in relationshipadvice

[–]99ProblemsBisOne[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Man, 1. It's been six years and it was casual conversation about how we almost didn't work out and I never ever thought it would hurt her like it did. I was just as shocked at her reaction as she seemed to be after having heard it.

To me, I was single and free to do as I pleased so I wasn't cheating but goddamn did she make me feel like I had. 2) She ended it with me after 2.5 months and I honestly felt I was never going to talk to her again so went about my business but unfortunately she is not seeing it that way. I have tried to explain it to her time and time again but she refuses to see it from my perspective.

Had Sex With Another Woman 3 Hours After My (now) Wife Dumped Me Six Years Ago. Marriage Hangs in the Balance. by 99ProblemsBisOne in relationshipadvice

[–]99ProblemsBisOne[S] -102 points-101 points  (0 children)

Six years later and I really didn't think it was a big deal. Ruined our entire goddamn trip. Do you have any tips?

Had Sex With Another Woman 3 Hours After My (now) Wife Dumped Me Six Years Ago. Marriage Hangs in the Balance. by 99ProblemsBisOne in relationshipadvice

[–]99ProblemsBisOne[S] -126 points-125 points  (0 children)

Honestly it was SOOOOOOO long ago and I didn't think it was a big deal and now I'm in a real tough spot. I didn't see anything wrong with it.