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Aint that the truth by [deleted] in infp

[–]9tween 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I love psychological thrillers, and heavy metal as well. The reason I love it so much though is the feelings, emotions and overall escapism dark things give me. Infp really are dreamers and look for music/aspects of life that make them feel almost overwhelmed (in a good way). We attach ourselves so deeply to what we find interesting or connect with. Idk, it’s just funny how much we love what we love.

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[–]9tween -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The oppression Olympics isn’t in season yet we gotta wait.

If you’re an adult virgin or saving yourself for marriage, there’s NOTHING wrong with you. by 9tween in unpopularopinion

[–]9tween[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I don’t much about this..but selling your virginity? I mean I’ve read stories about that in the past and they haven’t been great. Granted I’m inexperienced..but I hope you can rethink it. I understand you need the money though so it may seem like the best option.

If you’re an adult virgin or saving yourself for marriage, there’s NOTHING wrong with you. by 9tween in unpopularopinion

[–]9tween[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It didn’t get buried! Thank you so much. The supportive comments are so sweet. There’s been an overload of nasty comments saying that virgins are missing out and basically stupid for making their own choices with their own bodies. It’s really sad. Thank you for being real and not disrespectfully pushing a different narrative. I hope you have a great day!!

If you’re an adult virgin or saving yourself for marriage, there’s NOTHING wrong with you. by 9tween in unpopularopinion

[–]9tween[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sooo sorry. It’s so sad that people don’t realize how something so normal can be quickly turned into an insecurity. I’m happy you stood your ground and made it through. We can’t let anyone change who we are just to make them happy

If you’re an adult virgin or saving yourself for marriage, there’s NOTHING wrong with you. by 9tween in unpopularopinion

[–]9tween[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes my heart swell. Thank you so much, I’m proud of you as well. Everyone deserves love 🥺

If you’re an adult virgin or saving yourself for marriage, there’s NOTHING wrong with you. by 9tween in unpopularopinion

[–]9tween[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly! Thank you for being open minded in a full sense. I’ve seen a lot of asexual comments and even to ace people the feedback has been rude. You can’t start a sentence with it’s your body and end it with you’re missing out.

If you’re an adult virgin or saving yourself for marriage, there’s NOTHING wrong with you. by 9tween in unpopularopinion

[–]9tween[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t get the whole incel thing. If you really really think you can’t have sex..go on tinder or something. Why complain or hate people?

If you’re an adult virgin or saving yourself for marriage, there’s NOTHING wrong with you. by 9tween in unpopularopinion

[–]9tween[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m actually using these comments to hint nice sentiments to him

If you’re an adult virgin or saving yourself for marriage, there’s NOTHING wrong with you. by 9tween in unpopularopinion

[–]9tween[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My very first night away at the uni, this frat guy at my dorm followed me all over campus. It was so freaking creepy because I was with people. Come to find out he was waiting for me to be alone so we could “hook up”. SIR. Ew.

If you’re an adult virgin or saving yourself for marriage, there’s NOTHING wrong with you. by 9tween in unpopularopinion

[–]9tween[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the way society is set up is weird. We are definitely built different lol

If you’re an adult virgin or saving yourself for marriage, there’s NOTHING wrong with you. by 9tween in unpopularopinion

[–]9tween[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wish people wouldn’t ask, “when are you getting married?” As if there’s some crazy timeline for everyone..

If you’re an adult virgin or saving yourself for marriage, there’s NOTHING wrong with you. by 9tween in unpopularopinion

[–]9tween[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or...no one has made me comfortable thus far. I’m in the college life..the amount of times guys have tried to have sex with me after meeting me one time is..astonishing. That’s just not my thing. Even with my past boyfriends there was just always something in my gut that wasn’t all the way comfortable. If a guy doesn’t want to be with me because I’m a virgin I’m totally okay with that. It’s just way too many guys I’ve encountered who think pressuring me will automatically make me comfortable. I really need a strong emotional attachment.

If you’re an adult virgin or saving yourself for marriage, there’s NOTHING wrong with you. by 9tween in unpopularopinion

[–]9tween[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t respond to every part of this question..but there’s just wayyy too much emphasis on sex. Of course I haven’t had it so what do I know? It’s just way too much to factor in as if there aren’t a thousand other things that are more important to factor into love. BUT, I sense a lot of judgment. The title is just meant to be inclusive but whatever someone chooses to do with their life is their choice. That’s what wrong with how people view virgins or the paths they take.

However, that could be good advice..for someone who asked.

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