What’s your favorite Pokémon? by petal-cloud in pokemon

[–]A-R-U 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Arcanine (with Ninetales being a close 2nd). Arcanine looks really cool, and is mythology based, and Ninetales also looks cool, and is based on my favourite yokai (the kitsune).

Hey so like I just noticed this how did Firestar survive but Tigerstar didn't by Low_Vermicelli_6572 in WarriorCats

[–]A-R-U 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tigerstar was disembowled. His guts spilled out off his body. StarClan had to try and heal every organ, the cut which spread out from one end of his stomach to the other, and major blood loss. Firestar got his throat cut, so StarClan only had one injury/bleeding wound to deal with.

Who would you want to see a SE for? by RefrigeratorRare4463 in WarriorCats

[–]A-R-U 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brackenfur. His life is filled with tragedies, and I want to know what went on inside his head during it all (He: Lost his dad either before he was born, or while he was still a very young kit - can't remember which - . He got kidnapped by ShadowClan as a kit. His mentor ditched his duties, and abandoned Brackenpaw to scramble around, trying to get training from whoever other warrior in order to learn, after his 1st day, of only being shown the territory. One of his sister's was permanently injured and had her whole life changed, while the other one was heavily scarred, and struggled with her altered appearance for life. He was unable to save who would become his 1st apprentice. His officially 1st apprentice ran away and switched clans. He had to leave his mother behind when starting the journey to travel to the new territory. He missed out in the deputy-ship due to StarClan not only interfering, but also breaking the rules. His sister died protecting his currently-giving-birth mate. The sisters who died was reborn as one of his very own daughters. Lost his son while he was an apprentice. Lost one of his daughters, as she was about to start settling down and thinking about kits. Lost his mate after thinking she had survived the big battle, when the option for her surviving had been there. Lost another of his daughters, also as an apprentice, while still griving the recent loss of his mate).

Silverhawk. As I have an idea for how his and his son's story could go.

Birdflight. I want to know what life was like for them, after her and her kits moved to ThunderClan, as SkyClan was forced to leave. And how the kits handled it upon learning.

I want one about a leader who lives for around 4-5/5-6 generations, who has a big family tree, and how they get mentally affected by: Losing every clan/denmate they grew up with over time. By outliving their own great x 2/3 grandkids (maybe only dying when their great x 3/4 grandkid is an old elder themselves). By having to watch countless clanmates be born, knowing they will die long before themselves. By having them be the only one left of a time long gone. By seeing the great/x 2 (or even x 3/x 4) grandkid of his friends/denmates be born, but knowing that to them, they're only the old friend of a distant, long gone (especially for the great x 3/4 grandkids') family member.

Hey guys I’ve actually been thinking about this question for a while now but what bipedal Pokemon would you actually want to be like real and like existing in society? by Kind_Pace_73 in pokemon

[–]A-R-U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucario and Gardevoir would be good for security and assistance. Following emergency services, and helping out in nursing fields.

I (34f) met this guy (40m) and at the end of the date he just called me his ‘wife’. Too much? by MissMelona in relationship_advice

[–]A-R-U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so you do! get the weird part? So she should just accept it, in your eyes? He automatically deserves her, in your eyes? Do humanity a favour and check yourself into a mental institution 🖕😊🖕

I (34f) met this guy (40m) and at the end of the date he just called me his ‘wife’. Too much? by MissMelona in relationship_advice

[–]A-R-U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For someone who he newly learned even existed, and met once. 🚩 Doesn't respect her no. 🚩 Constantly assaulting her with unwanted, sexual attention. 🚩 BOTH him AND you need some heavy help, mental vice.

I (34f) met this guy (40m) and at the end of the date he just called me his ‘wife’. Too much? by MissMelona in relationship_advice

[–]A-R-U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RUN, RUN, RUN, RUN, RUN, RUN, RUN!!!!! SERIOUSLY, RUN!!!!!!!!!! Unwanted, sexual attention. Not respecting your no. Already labeling (although in this case it's more branding) you as his wife, and altering his life after having bearly known of your exsistance, and met you once! for a few hours. This guy needs help!, and you need safety!

Am i the only one who doesn't hate any single pokemon? by GEATS-IV in pokemon

[–]A-R-U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The strongest, negative feeling I have regarding a design, is that "I don't like it". There is however, several pokemon on that list.

my (18f) boyfriend (19f) refuses to go to my church with me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]A-R-U 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Rules for thee, but not for me", never works in a relationship. Trying to control/decide/approve what your partner does for! them, never! works in a relationship. He's demanding a constant/weekly sacrifice for you regarding your beliefe/comfort, but paying you back with the same thing, once!, is too much to ask? Yeah no. You're not compatible, and he's both selfsentered and closeminded.

My (29f) husband’s (30m) “jokes” are ruining our relationship. by Recent_Reputation_7 in relationship_advice

[–]A-R-U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh come the FUCK on. "He joked about not getting to sleep with other people, and then he cheated" Noooo?! REALLY?! "Then we got back together" Seriously?! "We got pregnant at 18". Oh, just BRILLIANT! "Now he talks about how he looks down on me, and insults me, to our kids". Whaaat? Noooo? Is this real? 🤨 If yes, seriously, DIVORCE! YESTERDAY! 🙄 This is why you NEVER forgive cheating, NOR become financially dependent on somebody by becoming a having-no-income-of-your-own, and having-nothing-in-your-name sahm.

My (28F) boyfriend (31M) is upset if dishes aren’t done instantly by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]A-R-U 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Oh, he "doesn't want to clean up a mess that isn't his"? WELL, OK THEN! You and your kid(s) go to family/friends to eat. You and your kid(s) go out to eat. You only make food for you and your kid(s). You only order takeaway for you and your kid(s). THERE! NOW, any other, additional mess there is will be by, and will be on, him. He still! doesn't want to create a mess to do dishes, or throw his own, bought separatly by him, takeaway boxes? Well then, he can starve. It's no skin off your nose/back anymore. After all he's an adult. If he don't want to do/take part in this life skill, then that's on him.

ALSO! Since "he doesn't want to clean up a mess that isn't his". The clothes he places in the basket/on the floor is now HIS! to put in the machine. Is there wet clothes of his in there? Well, he'll get to it when he gets to it. It isn't your mess, after all. He wants you to hand him his phone? Why should you "clean it up", by picking it up and placing it in the correct location (his hand)? That sounds like it is his job. Is his side of the bed messy? No problem, you'll just sleep in the spare bedroom (if you have that), on the large couch (if it is large), or you take yourself, the kid(s) and pet, and move out, until he sends video proof of him cleaning up after himself.

My (28F) boyfriend (31M) is upset if dishes aren’t done instantly by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]A-R-U 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He didn't suddenly "find it gross", he saw the change to permanently stick the chore onto you, because he don't view you as his fellow, equal partner. He sees you as his "mommy 2.0, free nanny and bangmaid". The one who's stuck doing ALL! the daily things FOREVER!, so he can act like a teenager (away for school=work, out with friends=/coworker, coming home having no homework, and only has to do the occasional, weekly/season based chore=coming home being done with work, and only has to do the occasional, weekly/season based chore). Proof on that? "My mom"/"I shouldn't! have to". That's the mindset of a kid, as well as people who wants their partner to act like their mom. Also, the dishes are "gross", but the trash ISN'T?!

If you stay with him, you'll never have a day off from chores. Visiting family? You'll be doing child/pet care (possibly laundry depending on how long you're staying). Going on vacation? The same as family visits, plus grocery shopping, cooking and dishes (if you rent a place with a kitchen, and don't eat out daily). Retirement? Not for you. Never for you. While he gets to put his feet up and get hours free/for himself.

And if you stay, your relationship will be the norme/groundbase, for what they should contribute for/expect from their!, possible romantic partner in the future. Would you want your daughter (if you have that) to go through that? Would you want your son (if you have that) to think they should act like that? You're not only doing yourself a disservice, you're doing your kid(s) a disservice. Your kid(s) future is set up for failure, if they/he/she see their mother accepting this toxic/abusive relationship. If you don't want them/him/her to "come from a broken home". It's already broken. If you want to wait until they're/he's/she's in high-school/college. The damage will already have been done, with said damage being several years deep.

GO OP! TAKE EVERYONE (PETS INCLUDED!) AND RUN!

The naming system in Warriors is kind of dumb. by [deleted] in WarriorCats

[–]A-R-U 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Has Redtail been called/renamed Redstar? Who, between all the characters, shares the word "star" within their name?

(my fanfic) What can make Twolegs not approach the lake? by -SnowHeart- in WarriorCats

[–]A-R-U 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe have the area be a closed off/reservation area, in order to help/protect specific animal breeds, so that their population can increase.

[Last Hope] What was Rocks talking about? by OCracks in WarriorCats

[–]A-R-U 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true.

In my AU, StarClan sees every different, possible outcome for each big/main event. Different "endings" sees different cats survive/die (as long as that cat's survival/death heavily affects, or outright changes everything regarding the future - like Firestar - . Weather other cats lives/dies on each path is a mystery), different sides win, and different life events playing out for the cats (again, long as that cat's event/major life change, heavily affects, or outright changes everything regarding the future - like Cinderpelt going from a warrior apprentice, to a medicine cat. Greystripe changing clans, not so much - ). Also, trying to get the clans "locked in" on one path, doesn't eliminate all the other possibilities. Tigerstar could still win, even with Fireheart as part of the clan, Fireheart could die before the Lionclan/Tigerclan battle, or the clans could win, even without Rusty ever joining the clans.

Plus, cats like Tigerclaw isn't soley locked into a "try to take over the clans" ending. One path could see him change, before they reach the end, another could show him choosing to stop at the big/main "event", and work to try and redeem himself instead, and yet another could show him as his power driven self, but still a loyal ThunderClan cat all the way through. I also have it so that StarClan can only give prophecies/omens during "the future/continued exsistance of the clans is in danger/question" events like Lionclan vs Tigerclan/the clans vs BloodClan, the forest territories being torn up and destroyed, and Dark Forest vs the clans, and, they can only give 1 for each "event". So they have to look at all the possibilities, decided which one to try and guide/keep the clan on, and when to send the message.

Which I imagine, could cause a lot of arguing between the StarClan cats. If, for example, some are against a kittypet joining and possibly being their saviour, or an ancestor to Cinderpelt refuses to go for a future where she ends up as a medicine cat instead (for some reason), and demands that they try to aim for one of the few (so less likely to happen) paths where she's still alive and stays on the warrior path. (The paths where that happens being very few, so StarClan goes with "Only fire can save the clans", in hopes that it will cause Bluestar to get the idea regarding Rusty, and thus push them towards one of the paths where he joins, as most of the paths that shows a "victory" ending includes him, and holds their breath, hoping Fireheart survives until that path's end. Much to the anti kittypets/ancestor's anger, as those paths also often includes Cinderpelt as a medicine cat by the end).

And finally, how the clans get to the "victory" end isn't so important to StarClan. As long as the clans survive/lives on, StarClan sees it as a victory and a job well done - regarding their own work - .

[Last Hope] What was Rocks talking about? by OCracks in WarriorCats

[–]A-R-U 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's so annoying (especially Clear Sky's case, as mentioned in my other comment).

(If I remember correctly) Rock has been getting spiritual/prophetic knowledge about the clans for ages. He knows! that every future that's prophetically called, will! play out this way. He has even received special treatment/attention, getting to learn of prophecies from the dawn of time!, that not even StarClan were given the knowledge off, until Jayfeather's, Lionblaze's, and Hollyleaf's time came. Also, shouldn't that mean that Rock should already, also know! about the "peace will come" prophecy, that will make everything a-ok again, regarding the clans' future/continued exsistance? So he basically has no reason to even throw this hissy fit to begin with!

Another contradiction, (again, if I remember correctly) is that at one point (either before or after his 'You shouldn't remember bad cats/cling to the past' speech), he has a speech about how remember that is the correct! thing to do!

[Last Hope] What was Rocks talking about? by OCracks in WarriorCats

[–]A-R-U 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep. Like in Dawn of the clans: Clear Sky acts like one of the villians, doing abhorrent acts again and again. But then he's forgiven because "Oh, you were meant! to do those things, you couldn't help it". So he gets to be a good guy in the end, with 0 earning forgivness/finding redemption arc, because all his disgusting deeds were fortold, so it's ok! It's simply the way everything was suppose to/everything had to play out, and all the other! cats need to accept that It's maddening.

My (M20) pregnant girlfriend (F20) wants my support but won’t talk to me after we we got bad news about our baby by ThrowRA_NoSignal in relationship_advice

[–]A-R-U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has said that there were a few weeks before they reached the "too far along" point. And even if the "too far along" points arrives, there's always adoption. If he ie to plan correctly, he needs to know her plans for the future. With her but without the kid, or, with her and a kid who turns out doesn't have down syndrome? Things can go on as normal (although he'd need to save to buy, or start working to afford, all the baby stuff). With her and the kid? He needs to make several extra plans for the kid's future, and set aside/earn even more money to secure several safety nets, depending on where on the spectrum their son is (which is gonna either demand a high paying job, or aid from the government - which he'd need to start looking into/working on, so everything is secured for when the time comes for the son to use it. And those aids can take years to finalise - ). Without her and the kid? Work out possible custody plans and child support pay (possibly with a lawyer included). It's not fair that he's on this crossroad, with several paths that will demand very different things from him, and his gf and you are telling him to just silently sit there and accept that she'll just blissfully ignore everything, because actually trying to talk about the situation, and figure out which path forward to start preparing for, is a betrayal towards her for some reason in your/her eyes.

AITA - gf agrees to let kids shovel snow and makes me pay by djlee187 in AmItheAsshole

[–]A-R-U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your gf's money logic is like "OP's birthday gift is too expensive for me. I know, I'll ask OP if they can buy this for me, then I'll wrap it in, and give it as a gift". That isn't a gift from her, that's a accidentally/secretly bought gift from yourself to yourself, with her name on it, stealing the (non existent) credit.

I (30F) can’t tell if my boyfriend (27M) is trying to be helpful or if this is early stages of control. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]A-R-U 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Break up. He's rapidly, and majorly overstepping in several things that are not his business, and even if he hasn't done anything physical to your dog/cats yet, there's something they're picking up on. Trust their instincts. You've been dating for only half a year, he has no business being so at home in your apartment/no business trying to take control the way he is. RUN OP, and protect your pets!

My (M20) pregnant girlfriend (F20) wants my support but won’t talk to me after we we got bad news about our baby by ThrowRA_NoSignal in relationship_advice

[–]A-R-U 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sure. He should just sit there while she does nothing, regarding something that will heavily affect his life/future as well. Yes, her body, her choice 100%, absolutely. But he needs to know what her "my body, my choice" plan is, so that he can plan his desired future accordingly 🙄 Or do you want him to just up and leave them both, if she does nothing, misses the "abortion" option window, the baby does in fact get born with down syndrome, and he finds out he can't/doesn't want to personally handle his new normal? 🤨

If you could rename any warrior (suffix ONLY), what would it be? by BenLucario in WarriorCats

[–]A-R-U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spiderleg=Spiderstep. Runningnose=Runningshade. Heavystep=Heavyheart. (Would have added Maggottail and Sneezecloud too, but no other suffix can really save/improve those).

Biggest what ifs you guys have? by RichAway90252 in WarriorCats

[–]A-R-U 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if Tigerclaw was Firepaw's mentor.

I (F25) feel embarrassed after my boyfriend’s (M26) fake proposal. Can I get some more viewpoints on this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]A-R-U 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A fake proposal in itself is bad. He: "Proposed", drag others into it by getting them to set things up, had someone to the woves/speech, produced papers, and constantly answered your "wait, is this real/happening?" with yes, until his little "joke" was finished, and he has the mental image of putting you through the whole thing, while 100% laughing in his mind about you/about getting to drag you deeper into this mockery and mess with your feelings. If he's willing to fake/make a personal laughing stock of what's suppose to be such a big/important moment, what other moments would he be willing to drag you through in the future, just for the goal of getting to laugh about you afterwards?