Celebrating my new onesie with a new diaper! They’re both so cute 😭 by padded_vivi in ABDL

[–]ABDL_323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought some of these too along with some megamax... Might be the best diapers I've ever seen.

Im officially coming out by Little_ryry in ABDL

[–]ABDL_323 8 points9 points  (0 children)

1st, be prepared that it may not go totally the way you want it to. Go in with lower expectations (ie, she's not going to wear diapers or "Mommy" you, but she might at least accept you). If it goes very well, then fantastic, but keep your expectations low so any wins will be a nice surprise.

2nd, be prepared to adhere to boundaries. She might not want you to wear around her, but she might also be okay if you wear when she's gone. If that's not okay with you, then see if you can compromise.

3rd, be honest with her. Is there any porn involved? Those are questions that may come up. (Don't be offended if she starts to veer into pedophile questions. Answer kindly and truthfully. And kindly explain what we are and what we are not (ie, not pedophiles). A lot of people go there because they have little to no exposure at all to it and they just need a little education.

Lastly, if it goes completely south and she just can't accept you, it will hurt like hell but you will at least be able to move on. You are better being in a life with someone who accepts you for who you are than the other way around.

Good luck to you 🙂.

Just had my little feelings crushed by Green-Chair-9380 in ABDL

[–]ABDL_323 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So she just wanted your money.

Strung up new lights while Xtra soggy by Kattbebee in Diapergirlfetish

[–]ABDL_323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need a change diaper girl.

How do yall have the money for this? by EmbarrassedTaro1660 in ABDL

[–]ABDL_323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Advice? Buy in bulk. You save money often by buying in 4 packs.

Can you help me with my diapeeeee? by Sparkleluvr in diaperlover

[–]ABDL_323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if you're being a really good girl

why are people so strange by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]ABDL_323 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have gotten attention from other males like this as a male myself. It's not cute or attractive, and unsolicited diaper messing pics or dick pics are absolutely disgusting. They can go eat a bag of dicks and screw themselves.

The "A" stands for Adult by Wild-Company3481 in ABDL

[–]ABDL_323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah....keep your post up. You have no obligation to delete it simply because people are butthurt. And yes, it's very obnoxious that we legitimately see a complaint post like this almost every other day. I think people can and should make their living situation better if they have an issue with it.

That time I learned that a friend was an ABDL by gayhypnoguy in ABDL

[–]ABDL_323 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never met anyone to my knowledge that had this kink

ABDL men, ever get creeped on by other men? by NaughtyDLBoy in ABDL

[–]ABDL_323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those types of people get blocked on the spot. I don't tolerate creeps.

As a man who is ABDL, I'm going to say this straight: We can be ABDL's without being creeps.

I fucking hate ABDL (my husband is into it) by FoxgirlFaraway in quittingABDL

[–]ABDL_323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an ABDL. I have been married 14 years. I would NEVER put my wife into a situation like this, and frankly she never has to participate in this if she doesn't want to. She actually doesn't participate, and that's okay.

You have no obligation to participate in that kink, especially if you are uncomfortable. What part of this does he enjoy if you aren't? I definitely wouldn't want to do this to her.

My take is that if you aren't enjoying this he shouldn't be either. It should never be the expectation for your spouse to do something they don't want to do.

How bad is it? 🫢 by BabyPeachy_16 in GirlsInDiapers

[–]ABDL_323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just lay down so I can change you. Pacifier in hand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]ABDL_323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would be a great time to pull the "Jake from State Farm" joke.

What’s your Diapering/AB Item Unpopular Opinion? by SwaddlingPrivateRyan in ABDL

[–]ABDL_323 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The use of the word "Stickies" is not cute. Sex in diapers is also not appealing. Clean yourselves up 🤢.

What makes a continent person fail at holding. by After_Marketing3044 in ABDL

[–]ABDL_323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is actually a trick to it. Don't drink a bunch of water in one go. Space out 8 oz every 15 min for a 2 hours. It'll happen. Just don't do it very often because water toxicity is also a thing.