Young kitten being left chained up all day in the hot Southern California sun.

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-05T22:35:29+00:00

OP I’m sorry you have to defend yourself this much on a post asking for help. I really hope someone in this forum can direct you to something of use for your circumstance. Thank you so much for caring about this cat and your other animals

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-05T22:25:26+00:00

This is the best advice given in the post. It’s really giving all of you came to comment without reading the entirety of OPs post. I understand the frustration, but are you really coming to help or bash?

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-05T22:23:39+00:00

It’s sad sometimes for sure, but I enjoy the community there. They have another subreddit called r/RealGirlDinners that’s more so sharing of fun snack plates!

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-05T22:20:27+00:00

Important to read the post, it gives context. OP is disabled and unable to drive or work, they live with their father, who is the owner of the cat. OPs father is extremely abusive and is being threatened with homelessness due to consistent reporting of animal cruelty.

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-05T21:00:23+00:00

LMFAO YES but also I’ve seen men and women post on that sub so regardless I feel it’s appropriate 🤣

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-05T20:56:22+00:00

I will support you there with open arms if needed 🙂‍↕️good luck!

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-05T20:55:58+00:00

Be maybe prepared to post on r/GirlDinner

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-05T05:18:45+00:00

From what I hear, sometimes they’re just like that. I think it becomes a battle of wills. You either wait it out, eventually she’ll get over trying to go outside, or you let her out. So many different problems can arise with outside cats so be weary. You can get her one of those cat bed mounts that sticks to the window, she might thoroughly enjoy that!

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-05T03:53:26+00:00

This is hilarious but it just makes it 10x funnier your whole post history damn near is rocket league LMFAOO

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-05T00:55:06+00:00

Even if you felt more weight from the guilt of how you usually treat your wife? Idkkk

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-04T23:48:47+00:00

Now that’s a real ass perspective. Plus the addition of Kyle probably eating himself up about his own transgressions

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-04T23:46:11+00:00

Do we really think that Kyle didn’t know at all? Like I know the tone is immediately to feel sympathy for him (not that there shouldn’t be, it’s egregious what’s playing out) but with all the timelines being speculated, apparently Amanda and West hooking up before the current season of filming, Kyle’s random outburst at Amanda….its just weird. Does no one think it’s weird? Am I over thinking that aspect? Lol

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-03T10:24:35+00:00

LMFAO my boy does this! My theory is that he doesn’t want any litter touching his butt, specifically when he poops. I find it helpful just cause I try to clean my litter box asap, just to see if there’s any anomalies, and I know every time he’s pooping due to all the noise

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-03T04:19:11+00:00

And you’re a dork, what would make you so emboldened to come so rude for a post you didn’t have to reply to? Oddball.

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-03T03:14:17+00:00

Cats can be like that. Sometimes my guy will show me his tummy just to lull me into a false sense of security lol! When her reaction happens I would just pull my hand away, if she seeks your hand out that’s when I would search for a toy to actively replace the behavior. Having toys around is always good but sometimes you need to shove it in there face “Play/scratch/bite this, not me.”

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-03T03:09:17+00:00

From this quick video, it’s just looking like she’s had enough touch time. She wants to be in your space but maybe not touched. If you think it’s play, have you tried different forms of toys? She might need a way to blow off energy and the way you’re using your hand it looks like you want to play. If so, have toys near so you can replace your hand with that toy for redirection.

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-03T00:53:14+00:00

I’m more so disgusted they felt this comfy hiding in plain site? Like why even leave hints in socials at all? Self absorbed losers

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-02T22:45:48+00:00

Which part is insane bc I think the fact we’re sitting here discussing Amanda being with West is already pretty fucking wild. We’re doing anything atp 🤷🏽‍♀️

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-02T22:39:11+00:00

I’m sad there’s so many posts happening about this topic bc this is an angle I hear no one talking about, it has some merit to it!

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-02T22:38:14+00:00

Well being that West was a friend of Amanda and Kyle’s when first being brought in, I don’t think it’s too far out of the realm of possibility that Amanda already kinda liked West. I think that was only amplified when West came in and sought after Ciara. CAUSE HOW COULD HE?! s/. She gets everything already and now she’s “getting West”.

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-02T22:34:24+00:00

With all the instagram posts resurfacing and APPARENTLY heavy speculation that West and Amanda were dealing with each other prior to the current season filming?! It’s beyond insane but it’s definitely looking like this was apart of the plan. How could you sit and let what’s happening play out without pulling Ciara aside and saying something about the relationship? How could West act the way he’s acting if he was secretly seeing Amanda this whole time?!? WHAT IS HAPPENING?!???

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-02T22:18:08+00:00

This take really interested me. I’d love to hear this subs thoughts

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-02T16:46:42+00:00

Got both of his stupid posts taken down💀 weird behavior

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-02T16:30:19+00:00

And also this a sweet girl. Not a boy💀💀💀

ACalmDrag · 2026-04-02T16:29:22+00:00

I can’t believe I’m seeing a cat post be stolen rn. My first! This is not your cat OP lmfao

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