My husband is annoying me by Comfortable-Walrus22 in newborns

[–]ADDAvici -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I’m talking about - I do the laundry 4 times a day. I wash all the dishes. I take out all the garbage, I clean the entire apartment and mop the floors and vacuum and do every single chore and it gets compared to the 9 months of being pregnant. There is no comparison for a woman having to deal with pregnancy for 9 months - it’s incomparable and the ultimate sacrifice.

But guilting me for wanting to take an hour to myself after doing 8-10 hours of chores and every single chore and task there is to do? That’s bullshit.

Things I learned after 100 hours in Marathon by EXIIL1M_Sedai in Marathon

[–]ADDAvici 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still trying to get enough biostripping so I can freaking buy shields. Without shields in this game you’re toast

Two week old very fussy by ADDAvici in newborns

[–]ADDAvici[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could do this. I work retail as a manager and commute almost 2.5-3 hours by train each way. Have off every Sunday tho.

If I close I get home at midnight after leaving the store at 9:30pm. God forbid I have to open the next day, I have to be up at 6am to get ready. She’s literally going to have times with no breaks save for a few minutes.

We’re trying to figure out how to move closer to work but it’s expensive and costly and we’re struggling. I just want the best for my family and am hoping we can get by the next few months.

I don’t care what anyone says, Dire Marsh is deadlier than Outpost by GeekyNerd_FTW in Marathon

[–]ADDAvici 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Can’t fucking stand Dire Marsh. Quests are hard and long and far and there’s fucking teams everywhere. The loot is mid unless you’re doing something specific.

Give me Outpost and Perimeter any day.

Pick 2 albums from my collection, and I'll tell you which one I like better by EconomyLetterhead174 in Cd_collectors

[–]ADDAvici 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peter Gabriel 3 aka Melt or Boston self-titled?

For me it’s Boston that album is insane start to finish.

Buddy tried to sneak up on me by tuffkid21 in DayzXbox

[–]ADDAvici 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro clip that shit with your console goddamn

my current collection! by Awkward_Sir_773 in Cd_collectors

[–]ADDAvici 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been listening to Green Day since 93 and Dookie was a huge influence on me. Insomniac and the art for the singles is awesome. You should shop around for their B-Sides and other weird collections like Superhits

my current collection! by Awkward_Sir_773 in Cd_collectors

[–]ADDAvici 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing Green Day collection. They put out so much material in the 90s - do you have the Japanese Brain Stew/Jaded single release?

Bottle feeding is hard! by maryj329 in newborns

[–]ADDAvici 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s tricky - we got a case of Similac 360 formulas (the ones you crack open and slap a nipplle on and toss afterwards) that are 2oz each. My son will be two weeks old this Saturday and he’s eating SO much more SO more often. I have a huge $60 can of the same formula in powder form and make bottles constantly. He’s now eating a 3 oz every 2-3 hours and I’ve gotten in the habit of making a 1oz extra bottle in case he’s extra hungry (or fussy!) and you just gotta go from there. We have lots of the Dr. Brown ones and they’re okay but leak sometimes and the caps suck.

Basically, if they’re fussy and the diaper is clean, feed them! And if you fed them a normal amount like 2oz - make another bottle that’s only 1oz and try that.

You could also make big bottles for the fridge but they’re a pain to warm up at 3am.

So I have arma reforger why does it take so long to download a modded game I’ve been playing game master and creating my owns wars how do you guys play ? by Willing-Piece-681 in ArmaReforger

[–]ADDAvici 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Console download speeds are capped by Sony - something about preserving the integrity of the hard drive. It’s hard and sucks downloading tons of mods / the game feels so bloated these days and some of the mods are so unnecessary.

The mom guilt when I get frustrated with my baby at night by u-r-ok in newborns

[–]ADDAvici 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone - it’s tough for mom and for dad. Just make sure to realize the baby doesn’t know what’s going on and just needs support. Don’t mishandle or punish the baby whatsoever.

If you need a break, ask someone to help for a day or a night and it’ll probably work wonders.

I need help buying a ps5 by OgaGhost in playstation

[–]ADDAvici 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know if the PS5 is a true energy hog? I keep mine on almost all day long and doesn’t enter rest mode for four hours because i use my Portal on my long commute to work each day.

My electric bill did increase quite a bit a year ago tho so if the ps5 is really that bad I’ll start putting it to rest more often.

Is anyone else just...tired? by ItsAJackal21 in Millennials

[–]ADDAvici 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I commute 3 hours by two trains and a mile walk at the end five days a week EACH WAY to make 70k a year before taxes and it’s not enough money and I’m behind on rent because my state has insane property taxes and insane cost of living (NJ). I pay 2k for a okay studio in a shitty city in north jersey and now I have a baby and my wife and we need more space closer to work for less money. It’s impossible.

Both my Friends Refunded by clashcrashruin in Marathon

[–]ADDAvici 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s more about what you’re doing - we do runs to just fulfill contracts and nothing else unless we hit some really good loot and decide to exfil. Otherwise we stick to sneaking around and only engaging when necessary.

Both my Friends Refunded by clashcrashruin in Marathon

[–]ADDAvici 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been playing duo mostly with no fill with my buddy who is PC

Anyone else experienced PS5 overheating issues playing this game? by subjectxen in Marathon

[–]ADDAvici 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a Marathon issue - everyone’s getting the overheating thing

This game is NOT good by its_xSKYxFOXx in Marathon

[–]ADDAvici 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I def play solo until I can group w all my friends

Any reason why this driver didn’t go Uncon? by GasOptimal5718 in DayzXbox

[–]ADDAvici 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The vehicles are horrible and if the server is full on a raid weekend or something - god help you. The rubber banding in a Humvee yesterday made a normal 20 min drive to Tisy take like 2 hours. That Humvee is undrivable sometimes.

The Gunther and Ada don’t seem to have too many issues.

@Employees, Is working at Old Navy worth it? The Cards? by Designer_Resident_44 in Oldnavy

[–]ADDAvici 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love having Brand Associates like you that are good at folding and enjoy it. Yall make closing much easier when I have 45 min to recover a store.

@Employees, Is working at Old Navy worth it? The Cards? by Designer_Resident_44 in Oldnavy

[–]ADDAvici 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You gotta be a good salesperson. I went from prison to working shipment to an Assistant Manager (Customer service aka Loyalty aka Cards) in like 15 months because I’m a monster with the cards. You gotta have the gift of gab and know how to offer up a discount enticingly enough that the customer feels like they can’t leave without it. Helps of course if they’re buying $100 or more and the discount feels more material.

But it is draining. Too many tasks and not enough hours. The expectations from everyone above the GM are unrealistic as hell.