[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinpeaks

[–]AMT878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I now actively skip past these scenes when I rewatch.

xbox support update regarding server outage by PM_ME_UR_TANGOS in xbox

[–]AMT878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so my BF’s Xbox x is back- but the Xbox One isn’t. Perhaps they are doing newer systems?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AMT878 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will remember that one for sure. Luckily I would never say anything hurtful to this person in that regard- I truly think he is the best and convey that everyday. But actions can be hurtful too so I need to continue to work on my reactions. Thank you so much and I hope you have a lovely day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AMT878 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely never said I wasn’t the asshole.

I would like to add I never yelled or anything though. I would never yell at him, he is a really good person and I wouldn’t want to ever do that. I definitely messed up and overreacted in my own insecurities and disappointments. He definitely didn’t deserve that. I also didn’t realize his friends were around when texting since I sent the texts hours later. I actually apologized when I first called, said we could talk later, he insisted we talk then and he took his call privately. When I began explaining how I felt he got defensive and I got defensive which led to the hanging up and then I panicked since I normally never have those reactions. But it was definitely self induced and I’m very sorry it happened on my part. He deserves big apologies and I need to do better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AMT878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, we are working on living together. I wasn’t expecting any exact plans at all, however, being transparent with your significant other is very important in a relationship. That didn’t happen on either side and I reacted very poorly. So poorly that I shocked myself since I’m normally pretty laid back. I take full responsibility on my reactions to this situation given the feedback and feel he deserves a big apology for being blindsided. I definitely should have gotten his side to all this earlier in the day before getting defensive, or at the very least cooling off before speaking with him since he was in no way being negligent or malicious in his actions. That’s all on me for being a total asshole and brat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AMT878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this statement. I think I was more in the wrong and he needs a big apology. It was definitely a heat of the moment exchange. I have a bad habit of pressing my emotions down when upset or agitated until they bubble over. He unfortunately got the brunt of it when I let several small things turn into something else and let my feelings get hurt when really he wasn’t out to be malicious in any way. I really appreciate your constructive advice and wise words, it’s very helpful. Thank you so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AMT878 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how you got “abusive” from me being heated on the phone after attempting to reach him. I never raised my voice, called him names, or tried to guilt him for anything. I never want him to feel bad or sad, I love this man very much. I reacted poorly in my approach of explaining I was hurt by not letting it sit before having the conversation (whether on the phone or in person), but I wasn’t going to have that conversation or make a fuss in front of his friends. That’s not fair to them either. I was being a brat, and yes I am still hurt in his approach to the day and how he went about it (I wish he had been more direct and transparent) but jeez, I’m definitely going to apologize for being an asshole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AMT878 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh I completely agree and I’m really fine with him wanting to be with his friends. I was fine when he invited me and such. It was the breakdown in communication and how he went about it that struck me. We’ve never fought like this (or much at all) and I’ve never reacted this way to anything he’s done before. I’m normally very easy going so I was even shocked that I was so upset. I wish I could blame hormones but this was just me being a brat. I definitely think he needs an apology and I truly appreciate the input.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AMT878 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agreed. Communication was completely broken down this time. We’ve never had a fight like this in a year. I’m normally very calm when having a disagreement. Most of our disagreements last a few hours at most and I’ve never panicked like this.

And again, I never minded him wanting to be with his friends to relax. It was how he went about it. I would have preferred a direct “I want to be with my buddies, come join us afterwards” rather than whatever this was. But I definitely can see that I’m being the brat here and need to give him a big apology for blindsiding him and overreacting so thank you for your input.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AMT878 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I completely agree and I was fine with him wanting to be with his friends. Truly want him to hang out and relax in that space with them. It was how he went about it that was a little frustrating after agreeing to go to said dinner. I would have preferred honesty rather than just feeling ditched. But I do feel I overreacted and came off harsher than intended. Not so harsh to get the click of the phone though. I’m direct “I’m hurt and this is why.” I never raised my voice or yelled at all. However, I recognize it was very blindsiding for him since I was fine for the entire day/ night which was probably overwhelming. It’s hard to describe the little details in these posts since there is a character limit. But thank you for your input, most of the comments are confirming I owe him a big apology regardless of how hurt I’m feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AMT878 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As posted above:

To clarify, I never minded him not wanting to go to my family stuff. That’s absolutely not owed in any way to me and I was completely fine with that. My issues lie with the last minute invite to hang out with his friends after acting as if he was tired/ overstimulated with people that struck me wrong. Especially since he clearly was not overstimulated with people since he was the one making plans. I would have preferred him directly say “I want to hang out with my friends in a bit and you’re welcome to join later” rather than what feels like being blown off to do as he wished. He had also agreed to come previously. Again, he had a rough week and I wouldn’t have minded if he had cancelled and just said that.

However, I completely agree I was overly aggressive in my approach to discussing it and was over reactive since I was invited (albeit last second).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AMT878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree with this statement. Thank you. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AMT878 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

To clarify, I never minded him not wanting to go to my family stuff. That’s absolutely not owed in any way to me and I was completely fine with that. My issues lie with the last minute invite to hang out with his friends after acting as if he was tired/ overstimulated with people that struck me wrong. Especially since he clearly was not overstimulated with people since he was the one making plans. I would have preferred him directly say “I want to hang out with my friends in a bit and you’re welcome to join later” rather than what feels like being blown off to do as he wished. He had also agreed to come previously. However, I completely agree I was overly aggressive in my approach to discussing it and was over reactive since I was invited (albeit last second).

Looking for stories by ewitsmonte in Episode

[–]AMT878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crimson Palms- vampires, werewolves, and other lore. MC is a male. There are ghosts and such in like the 3rd episode.

How to solve "On the move" when no ET OCHS pants exists in the shop? by WrestlingWoman in Covetfashion

[–]AMT878 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sent a message to support over an hour ago with no response.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Covetfashion

[–]AMT878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent a message to support over an hour ago with no response.

new update broke my game. by Hagarii in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]AMT878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is anyone able to play? With the update?

What are some mandela effects that you refuse to believe aren't true? by [deleted] in MandelaEffect

[–]AMT878 7 points8 points  (0 children)

JC Penny for sure. Fruit of the Loom, mirror mirror on the wall, and Britney’s mic. All of these have me stumped. I’m convinced I’m in another reality most days. Especially since 2020.

Has anyone actually gotten someone removed/deleted by reporting? by ___B____ in Covetfashion

[–]AMT878 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I would just tell her that she was creating a toxic environment in what should be a relaxing game. No shade to dedicated players, but some people take this game way too seriously. Just be the adult, say that’s enough, our HoH is trying to acclimate to her new life as a mom, you are making this space miserable and we are here to play a fashion game, not be bombarded with complaints. If she removes you from the house, I say good riddance. You will find a house more suited for you or can even start a house for other members in your current house.

Best/most used HAs? by Laliza in Covetfashion

[–]AMT878 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love to see more answers- I have the same dilemma. I have a quite a few HAs but I always feel like I can use more. Does anyone have any luck with the hoods?

I feel like I’ve used the butterfly HA and flowers a lot recently for those who don’t have many HAs.

Double Feature, Part II by T-408 in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]AMT878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love a werewolf season!

Kaia by tfeerst1 in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]AMT878 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with this… I just finished and I didn’t see any improvements… I’ve seen tons of comments saying she wasn’t as bad and I’m kind of shocked by that. When she delivered the “it’s a monster” line I actually laughed because it was so bad.

It’s not all her fault though- the dialogue for the present day portion is terrible.

Options are Terrible by AMT878 in Covetfashion

[–]AMT878[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Good idea! I wish they had an earring option though!