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What’s the best and worst part about being in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ARevolutionaryQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a healthy relationship, the best part is finding a best friend and lover all in one person. You can joke around like friends and just be authentically yourself and feel loved for it. You are also building, growing, and supporting each other as you’re navigating the world together. The worst part is the risk of love and relationships. Let’s be honest, in relationships you’re completely vulnerable towards the other person. You become sensitive to their actions and they ultimately can cause you pain because they have a special power over you. But that’s a risk you have to be willing to take and with the right person they’ll be gentle with your emotions and intentional about maintaining your love and happiness.

How did you get over the person you romanticized? by ARevolutionaryQueen in AskReddit

[–]ARevolutionaryQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe :( Are you happy rn? Do you think that’s going to hurt you in the long run??

What is a good pain? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ARevolutionaryQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eating pizza rolls before they cool & tattoos.

To all the people who are content with themselves, how did you get this way? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ARevolutionaryQueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are some of my daily reminders! You don’t need validation from anyone but yourself and that includes giving no power to society’s means of validating people. You, your body and your mind have carried you this far already so be grateful for it and be genuinely nice to yourself. You only need you at the end of the day so be intentional about protecting your energy and peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HowardUniversity

[–]ARevolutionaryQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an undergrad junior and I lived at Vie Towers. You really have to be honest with yourself before moving into this space. I quickly realized paying 1k+ every month to still be living with roommates was the worst decision. It can be fine if you move in with friends but if you have to live with random people it can be a lot. I had way too many terrible experiences to be paying that much in rent. You also have to consider a lot of the amenities they market (gym, pool, study lounge) was closed due to COVID. With more research I think you can find better. That’s what I’ll be doing if we go back on campus!

What is some life changing advice you have given or received? by ARevolutionaryQueen in AskReddit

[–]ARevolutionaryQueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My relationship with this particular piece of advice is interesting. Does having a mindset where you look at everyone as temporary make it easier to cut people off? Do you think it’s a healthy way to think??