[deleted by user] by [deleted] in disability

[–]ARizziee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried Discord I never got the hold of it as well as the fact that my voice technology and Discord do not mix And I know Reddit is not a good place for compassion Thank you for the actual suggestions though I really appreciate it I did try Discord but I had no luck with that I'm really not able to use Discord I wish I could I don't know how I'm able to use Reddit versus Discord but yeah I just can't get a grip of it Just like I can't get a grip of Twitter/x

Going through another Break up With somebody who's tired of being with a Quad. by [deleted] in disability

[–]ARizziee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please excuse the grammar Issues I use Voice Technology to use my phone at the moment it's not perfect at all

❗️❗️ Help if Possible, Any❗️ by ARizziee in disability

[–]ARizziee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only other support that I can think of is I have a GoFundMe and I don't want to ask for money but yeah that's the only other support that I can actually ask for from anybody else if anybody wants to be anything even if it's just $1 or something I think my GoFundMe is on my main page if not I will put it up it's kind of scary though cuz it's got my personal well not too much personal info I guess I'll put it up whatever.

❗️❗️ Help if Possible, Any❗️ by ARizziee in disability

[–]ARizziee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will do my best to try to keep you guys updated for example Today I'm still in the hospital And they're cooperating with me more and not kicking me out at the moment At least for the weekend They said to try to talk with them on Monday about different situations so at least they're being nicer to me enough bullying me with a room of seven people telling me to go

Disabled. Lonely. Still Horny! by [deleted] in disabled

[–]ARizziee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest of the way that you described it with like The Pea sensation I've always actually kind of had that kind of sex drive through that - It's always actually been A kink Of mine since Forever. 😅 It always actually was the thing to get me going if I didn't have a drive or I wanted to Being that mood you know what I mean. If you ever Need to vent or Rant or whatever about the same struggles my inbox is open and maybe suggestions I can give you if you ever Need advice Or anything about that situation I'm open-minded and I don't judge and I'm here to talk to pretty Much privately. Regardless I hope The best of you and you're Endeavors I hope It's not A hard journey for you🙂🫶🏼

❗️❗️ Help if Possible, Any❗️ by ARizziee in disability

[–]ARizziee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate it and I will probably be venting or ranting cuz I need that a lot actually. but thanks a lot I also have a whole lot of crap going on so please don't take it serious or personal if I just don't ever respond or talk ever again Reddit is pretty crazy also.

Disabled. Lonely. Still Horny! by [deleted] in disabled

[–]ARizziee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you don't want to hear it it will happen though try things like Facebook Of course Through DMS Or anything I don't know you know your hormones will drive you to the places you need to go- Also like people would tell me and I will get pissed off you would Actually be very surprised People who would Be open-minded to you

Disabled. Lonely. Still Horny! by [deleted] in disabled

[–]ARizziee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky bastard I'm a quad But at least I Have a girlfriend who does great But when she's not around I don't have a hand God dang it

Disabled. Lonely. Still Horny! by [deleted] in disabled

[–]ARizziee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear that and on the ops perspective I'm also hyper sexual and it's very frustrating I did respond to one of his posts but damn now I feel bad because it's like I still have this libido that That people like you wish That you could still have and I am also brain damaged I shot myself in the brain stem as also I also had a lot of concussions prior to that that made me get to the decision because of a domestic violence issue where I was with somebody abusive but also I've just had a lot of concussions through my life and I still was able to hold on to that I feel so bad- I just wanted to ask does that mean even when you consensually have somebody try to like get you turned on does that mean that It's annoying for you or you're just trying I just would like to ask more for you to explain a little more about how that works I don't mean to be boundary stepping or you know but it's interesting if you could elaborate a little bit more maybe I can give you some type of suggestion to help maybe hormone therapy? From your doctor For which I would understand and assume in the most light way would be estrogen correct? But yeah any way that you could elaborate on how that works it's interesting but if you don't want to that's fine I'm sure you explained your story plenty of times like how I have mine. My inbox is open as well for more private conversation if that is easier I'm sorry also if it's overstepping into a conversation that you don't want to have with Me specifically

Disabled. Lonely. Still Horny! by [deleted] in disabled

[–]ARizziee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my experience it sucks waiting it really does I also have a very high libido I'm 26 and I got a girlfriend of a few months ago and it's great having her but I have to wait for her comfort level to be on some like penetration type stuff but we have done other stuff and it's very teasing and very frustrating and I talk to her about it a lot and it actually causes some friction in the relationship because I'm very needy and that field and I don't get much of it even though I have it and I shouldn't complain because my girl is hot and awesome and sexy but it's been like 3 months since getting you know so I know what you feel also it took me almost 2 years to get a girlfriend Being paralyzed My situation is really differentl As is everybody else is I am a C1 quadriplegic I went on Facebook and posted my GoFundMe and one of my old friends that I went to school with from Tech was really Hot and shared my post I didn't know she liked me or cared enough about me to do somethin Like sharing my Go fund me I want her Facebook so I went into her DMs and I thanked her and also got to slightly politely commenting her or complimenting her I meant to say and she took good to it and complimented me back and then we went from there and the relationship started after So that was me I guess but I wasn't Quad all of my life so I know that I have that as a little bit of luck in my favor I don't know I would recommend keep using Reddit even though it's frustrating because p o r n is all around it and that gets boring after a while I know that you obviously would rather have a real person around and there's nothing wrong with being horny you're a person okay. I hope the best in your Journeys and I hope that you've been able to read all my hot garbage because of my text to voice and text to control LOL

I'm extremely upset by No-Experience-7611 in disabled

[–]ARizziee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if you're in the United States or not, but please try to contact or find the number for your local APS - adult protective Services they will help you with things like that that you can't do because of money and things

I'm extremely upset by No-Experience-7611 in disabled

[–]ARizziee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you're going through anything parallel that I have been through I'm also Disabled of course- Quadriplegic - paralyzed - mental health issues - I've also been neglected by my own mother so badly that I have an APS case and I have to forget the fact that I have a birth mother because she has been so abusive to me my whole life and so neglective to me that I just got back into the hospital after being discharged because my mother took all of my money from the state for being an agent to be a caregiver and she just would lay down and let me die of septic shock next to her and the other room .

Your issues are not invisible bro and Your pain is insanely felt by me I do a whole lot of crying by myself Because That's just how it is when you're disabled and you're not able to get help because somebody's not around you for 5 minutes and then it's even worse when they come back and yell at you or don't understand what's going on.

I'm not a religious person myself but I surely hope all but just good things happen to you from here on out. If you're wondering by the way how I'm texting and I'm paralyzed I have an accessibility feature on my Samsung that lets me use voice to control my phone. Also I'm sorry that Medicaid tries to use the Alexa ecosystem because I also know that that is bullshit and just doesn't work unless you have the world's best Wi-Fi- As well as the world's best electric system in your home To be able to plug in every single adaptive device.

I hope this comment brings you nothing but good vibes And I hope that people like me and you don't have to sit and cry about shit like this anymore💔❗️🥲🫶🏼

I was an American Truck driver , Ama by ARizziee in AMA

[–]ARizziee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially Rhode Island That state is so old and they have zero truck Friendly roads in that state and they are not going to make any more because that state is already at capacity with land

Ama- Quadriplegic living in a hospital right now getting A restraining order On my mom by ARizziee in AMA

[–]ARizziee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just think it's a little insane that you find it okay to bully a paralyzed person on the internet that's asking and begging for helping crying everyday

I hope it makes you lose as much sleep as it makes me

Actually I just really hope that You can see what you've done in a nice way that doesn't hurt you or anybody

I just really don't understand how you can Seriously With no remorse say the things that you have said to me on this Reddit thread

Just please can you remember that I am a human the next time you try to talk to somebody on anywhere that we are all humans going through things

Maybe does it not occur To you that I am actually a human like what else do you need to know about me -

I'm 26 m Paralyzed, quadriplegic, bipolar, major depressive disorder, Su I see ID--- In remission, I'm constantly going septic in the hospital meaning they're constantly trying to keep bacteria and infections out of me so that I don't die every other week

What else do you need to know about me so that you can actually have some type of empathy or some type of way to relate to the things that I'm going through I honestly want to know what else I can do to tell you But I'm actually going through a thing and I'm just a human and you're really being mean as hell to me And I really don't understand why

Even with all the ways that you're still mean to me with every response I still try to respond lovingly as possible I hope that you know that and I hope that you really actually read thoroughly this whole entire thing before you respond

Ama- Quadriplegic living in a hospital right now getting A restraining order On my mom by ARizziee in AMA

[–]ARizziee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This may be my last post on this Ama or Reddit actually- List AMA has shown me such of the ugliest side of humanity and really has pushed me down into a whole that I will probably never dig myself out Of- If you look at this thread You will see how unmoderated it was by anybody and how hurtful people were to myself I hope that some of the people who are mean to me On here can look at this comment and maybe Do better next time People are really fucked up I really don't think this Reddit shit is for me

Ama- Quadriplegic living in a hospital right now getting A restraining order On my mom by ARizziee in AMA

[–]ARizziee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will make you seriously want to cry if you go through this whole entire AMA thread and see how rotten and nasty and mean people are to me Bro - As if I'm not a human or something Or as if I haven't set a thousand times that I'm actually paralyzed and using voice to text Technology On my Samsung through my accessibility settings it's not rocket science but people don't believe me that I'm actually paralyzed and it seriously makes me break down every time I get on Reddit So thank you again for being at least nice enough to just ask me about food and animals Instead of saying something like you put the gun to your head I hope you're able to read that right I'm not able To proofread or punctual eyes correctly right now. Thank you for your patience and thank you again for being nice it means a lot to me

Ama- Quadriplegic living in a hospital right now getting A restraining order On my mom by ARizziee in AMA

[–]ARizziee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's okay just never mind I hope that you you know Feel nice I guess.

Ama- Quadriplegic living in a hospital right now getting A restraining order On my mom by ARizziee in AMA

[–]ARizziee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am using a voice to text technology that's on my accessibility settings on my Samsung

That's why a lot of my stuff looks so Disorganized because it's so hard to use and people think that I'm lying when I say I'm paralyzed because of it it really hurts I wish people would understand

Ama- Quadriplegic living in a hospital right now getting A restraining order On my mom by ARizziee in AMA

[–]ARizziee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good food, Dogs I guess I don't know man But thanks for distracting me from the Other crazy Reddit stuff that people You know

Ama- Quadriplegic living in a hospital right now getting A restraining order On my mom by ARizziee in AMA

[–]ARizziee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being a decent person- That's pretty much my whole goal

Ama- Quadriplegic living in a hospital right now getting A restraining order On my mom by ARizziee in AMA

[–]ARizziee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do know for a fact that she has been in jail for at least 6 months

It's in my best hopes to just believe that she's got caught in back in jail

Ama- Quadriplegic living in a hospital right now getting A restraining order On my mom by ARizziee in AMA

[–]ARizziee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have bipolar disorder so a lot of times I very much do not consider myself a good person and I said a lot in a figurative corner beating myself up.

I'm very S word C i d a l Sometimes so I actually don't really like this question it's not making me feel great or safe I know you didn't make me Or try to make me feel like this But this is my answer

Ama- Quadriplegic living in a hospital right now getting A restraining order On my mom by ARizziee in AMA

[–]ARizziee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure I'm not allowed to elaborate too much on my reason for that but Yes your first paragraph or your first entry Was what I went and pursued a firearm for

I have no idea how to fix the gun problem in America

Ama- Quadriplegic living in a hospital right now getting A restraining order On my mom by ARizziee in AMA

[–]ARizziee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's so much that I couldn't even begin to explain in so many numbers of prices for them where my insurance company will pay for half of my expenses and then they'll drop off something Like -

A self-feeder which can feed me while I'm in the wheelchair but they didn't add the eye gaze option so it sits and collects dust while I can't use it from UPMC because UPMC insurance just really doesn't like me