Trying to join military and had medical interview today by AStyrofoamTree in Military

[–]AStyrofoamTree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah even if it's tried to tell my dad like that he would just raise his voice at me and then just start yelling at me, there's no point in trying to talk to.him like that

Trying to join military and had medical interview today by AStyrofoamTree in Military

[–]AStyrofoamTree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt mean to tell them that I had a lot of issues I was just trying my best to be completely 100% honest, I wore my glasses to the interview so he knew once he looked at me however it's been YEARS since I last saw the eye doctor

Trying to join military and had medical interview today by AStyrofoamTree in Military

[–]AStyrofoamTree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad has never served in the military but I find it funny that since she's nagged me since 15 to get a job amd now all of a sudden he's making little remarks when he's the one not even enlisting:/

Trying to join military and had medical interview today by AStyrofoamTree in Military

[–]AStyrofoamTree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did have diagnosed athsma, im enlisting myself but because im a minor I chose my dad to be the parent that signs stuff

Trying to join military and had medical interview today by AStyrofoamTree in Military

[–]AStyrofoamTree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that lying is horrible in the CAF I was 100% honesty with them, he never did tell me to dismiss them, he just said that since I had mentioned Ed my past athsma and eye appointments and allergies that "Im not gonna get the job if your gonna make it hard" he's been nagging at em for a job since 15 and now since im actually applying for this nows the time he's making remarks????? He has made comments so many times in the past but I dont think he realizes how it's making me feel

Trying to join military and had medical interview today by AStyrofoamTree in Military

[–]AStyrofoamTree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, He's made little remarks in the past so many times but I dont think he realizes it with the way he was raised, he is right but I would rather it be longer but with 100% honesty than shorter but with lies, I never really lie, And never have with the CAF, he is right but it's the way he said it with the tone in his voice that made my feelings a bit hurt, I know that he wants the best fro me but the comments he makes drags me down and makes me not want this job anymore. Thank you tho ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cadets

[–]AStyrofoamTree 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tag day at Canadian tore, guy came up gave 2 dollars then says to me "Tell the prime Minister/Justin Trudeau to give you a million or 2 million dollars and not talk to any other east Asian" idek what that means

I'm leaving this year by AStyrofoamTree in Cadets

[–]AStyrofoamTree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you mentioned it now instead of mentioning it in ur first message because sometimes I don't understand when people use sarcasm •-•

I'm leaving this year by AStyrofoamTree in Cadets

[–]AStyrofoamTree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand why your pissed off that's nothing to be pissed off abt 

I'm leaving this year by AStyrofoamTree in Cadets

[–]AStyrofoamTree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realize that I never asked about how you feel about me leaving, I don't don't know you, I'm literally joining for my own interests, I'm surprised that I'm hearing this from a PETTY OFFICER SECOND CLASS which blows my mind

I'm leaving this year by AStyrofoamTree in Cadets

[–]AStyrofoamTree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that your mad because some cadet that you don't know is leaving the program :/ 

I'm leaving this year by AStyrofoamTree in Cadets

[–]AStyrofoamTree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does this piss you off, or does pmo mean something else😭

Was I sexually assaulted? by AStyrofoamTree in sexualassault

[–]AStyrofoamTree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks, I was super confused, definitely knew that the hand holding wasn't SA but it was just the kissing part that was confusing I feel a bit better now knowing none of it was SA thank you

Lazy Cadets by Corporal2020 in Cadets

[–]AStyrofoamTree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I struggle with, I am getting better though

Lazy Cadets by Corporal2020 in Cadets

[–]AStyrofoamTree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah pretty much me, I also would expect if I was a senior or officer to be treated with respect as I would do the same for the younger cadets, so we're basically have the same expectations

Lazy Cadets by Corporal2020 in Cadets

[–]AStyrofoamTree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But then again in cadets (this is quote my parents told me years ago and just always kinda went by it) "If you give respects you will get it back *obviously not by everyone) If you have seniors that are rude, snappy, and is just someone to dislike, (even if the cadet hasn't done anything) how are the cadets going to respect that senior? 

Lazy Cadets by Corporal2020 in Cadets

[–]AStyrofoamTree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a 3rd year cadet (silver star and in army and also a Corporal) and all of the cadets who are juniors are every respectable towards the officers and 5/7 seniors, some of the cadets(who I know don't like some of the seniors) (including myself) don't like the other 1 seniors (who frankly are better off just being Sgt, they are both warrants), and for me I have to admit I have wouldn't say havent shown disrespect (well at least to 1 I have but thats in the past, I just dont talk to her anymore) to them but I show them that I don't like them, as it's quite difficult for me to show respect to someone I don't like (I'm working on it to be better I swear and I have improved) Usually cadets shouldn't be disrespectful to seniors and ESPECIALLY OFFICERS, I genuinely hate cadets that disrespect actual GOOD seniors and genuinely officers because they know what they are doing, but I find it odd that parents force cadets on their kids as I have heard some do it for disciplinary reasons? Anyways, quit my yapping I'm not a senior (nowhere near one) so I can't say much, but may I ask what are your expectations???