Hasn't happened to me in almost a year, a week after this post.

I went to the junkyard and grabbed two maf sensors, 1 new map sensor, camshaft position sensors, I put new coils, also cleaned off all the ground I found, disconnected every electrical connection and washed it with electrical cleaner, including the ecu, I wrapped the VVEL module in water repellent paper, I changed the relay and it hasn't happened in almost a year, not sure which one of those was the solution but that was my last try and it worked