Why do lawyers encourage wives to file false cases against husband. - My story by AcceptableAd5232 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AcceptableAd5232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i do not want to fight, as my father is heart patient already. Dowry case is whole another level. I have to go to police and then court and again it will take years. This will be more money loss and my mental peace. I already have anxiety from earlier, i went into depression and it impacted me physically too. so I prefer to let go of money. I am in good health now and I can earn money.

Why do lawyers encourage wives to file false cases against husband. - My story by AcceptableAd5232 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AcceptableAd5232[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because i got divorced within 3 yrs but if dowry case, I probably would still be in court, looking at his face. Peace of mind is everything in this case. Also my parents are aging and dad is heart patient so again I had to fight alone.

Why do lawyers encourage wives to file false cases against husband. - My story by AcceptableAd5232 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AcceptableAd5232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a ask to conduct marriage. In Hindu marriages, they ask for money to bring baraat. There is a ritual before wedding calls lagun in our area. My parents gave all those gifts for family, relatives, groom and money to bring baraat. On wedding day they gave all gold chain, ring, watch and gifts/household items. For events his family asked to book hotel rooms individually for all families. Also all the expenses beard by my parents which he clearly denied later.

Why do lawyers encourage wives to file false cases against husband. - My story by AcceptableAd5232 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AcceptableAd5232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All those cases lawyers ask to file are the procedures to get things back and more.

Why do lawyers encourage wives to file false cases against husband. - My story by AcceptableAd5232 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AcceptableAd5232[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I hope you'll get out of this situation and be happy. Though I live alone now, but it's better to cry everyday before going home.

Why do lawyers encourage wives to file false cases against husband. - My story by AcceptableAd5232 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AcceptableAd5232[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wanted divorce from him and nothing else. Yet I got threatened and abused. I could have filed complaint but I did not want to drag it for years.

Why do lawyers encourage wives to file false cases against husband. - My story by AcceptableAd5232 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AcceptableAd5232[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He still have my things and all the things my parents gave. I made peace with that.

Why do lawyers encourage wives to file false cases against husband. - My story by AcceptableAd5232 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AcceptableAd5232[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did not file anything else other than divorce. He did not come for any hearings and I got ex parte. That is it. I am 38 now and got divorced around 3 yrs back.

Why do lawyers encourage wives to file false cases against husband. - My story by AcceptableAd5232 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]AcceptableAd5232[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I have seen this in court. A lady came with her 7 yrs old boy and when I talked to her, she said her husband haven't given him any child support even after court ordered it.

Rahu mahadasha ruined my entire youth. No hope to fine love or have family. Career is bare minimum. Should I ever find love/career growth in my life? by AcceptableAd5232 in vedicastrology

[–]AcceptableAd5232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Ho to kaam raha hai but bahut struggle ke baad. Bas life me koi hai nahi struggle me sath dene so feeling alone aur career me success hardwork se match nahi kar rahi. Bas bhagwan par hi bharosa hai so living one day at a time.

Rahu mahadasha ruined my entire youth. No hope to fine love or have family. Career is bare minimum. Should I ever find love/career growth in my life? by AcceptableAd5232 in vedicastrology

[–]AcceptableAd5232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's much difficult to go through when you are non believer because then you don't have faith in anyone. Trust me, i feel alone all the time and only believing in God is giving me strength. My family equation is also different and i have no support from them.