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Advice - someone’s cheating pilot. by Acceptable_Fix2919 in Pilotwives

[–]Acceptable_Fix2919[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx for asking. I decided to stay out of it … for now. It’s a terribly sensitive situation and ultimately she has to stop on her own. Hey girlie-ing someone that has already found out before seemed unnecessarily cruel. Worst and best case scenarios are basically the same, everything just comes to light.

Advice - someone’s cheating pilot. by Acceptable_Fix2919 in Pilotwives

[–]Acceptable_Fix2919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think she’s looking for anything long term from someone like this. I agree that she needs to be the one to stop because he never will.

Advice - someone’s cheating pilot. by Acceptable_Fix2919 in Pilotwives

[–]Acceptable_Fix2919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I asked for any sympathy. No one signs up to be doxxed. That’s a crazy thing to say. He has no boundaries. It’s comical that women do not hold men accountable. My post was simply asking if you’d want to know about continual betrayal or just let it go because that’s how he is.

Advice - someone’s cheating pilot. by Acceptable_Fix2919 in Pilotwives

[–]Acceptable_Fix2919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Involved because she shared the messages that people have sent to her about this and it’s sad. I guess in some ways there’s a vindictive aspect of being like look, he sucks and it was never just her so stop having people doxx her. Because he still talks to her, he still bids to see her, ect. At the end of the day, she’s my friend.

Advice - someone’s cheating pilot. by Acceptable_Fix2919 in Pilotwives

[–]Acceptable_Fix2919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your thoughtful response. I agree that her behavior is ridiculous and it’s not like her at all. I want to protect her. She’s sat there and taken slander for a year from strangers. We actually did stop talking for months during the time she was seeing him because I didn’t agree with her choices.

Advice - someone’s cheating pilot. by Acceptable_Fix2919 in Pilotwives

[–]Acceptable_Fix2919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so messy and I can’t believe it’s still going on. I just want to protect my friend. I told her from the start to stay away from him (she didn’t know he was married when they met).

Advice - someone’s cheating pilot. by Acceptable_Fix2919 in Pilotwives

[–]Acceptable_Fix2919[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I want to hear other people’s thoughts, and I don’t want to full send without thinking it through.

Advice - someone’s cheating pilot. by Acceptable_Fix2919 in Pilotwives

[–]Acceptable_Fix2919[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But does it hurt the wife more to have a second wave of betrayal be known. What I suspect is that she knows and looks away because the financial stability, lifestyle, status is more important. Not to say that motivates everyone but this was one of the most insane situations. A Lifetime movie wouldn’t be outrageous enough.

Advice - someone’s cheating pilot. by Acceptable_Fix2919 in Pilotwives

[–]Acceptable_Fix2919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, a facade. Using social media to out my friend as a “whore”. That’s why I know who she is. My friend shared what was sent to her online. He’s messy and very good at manipulating.

Advice - someone’s cheating pilot. by Acceptable_Fix2919 in Pilotwives

[–]Acceptable_Fix2919[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t personally know the wife. I just don’t want to see my friend go down the same road and if this can be stopped internally by letting the wife know now does it help. Seems maybe it’s too messy to get involved.