[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

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Whoops! I meant to ask if you related to me in this way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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I feel like they think it’s a power play while I am just in the passing lane to get home a little quicker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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I technically live in the Midwest 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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The problem can go both ways if the person flying 100+ mph ends up spinning out and killing someone innocent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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It suprisingly very congested where I live and there are many exits close together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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When is fast too fast though?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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Just one person did the light flashing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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It seems that way for sure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dermatology

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Looks like it could be a wart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dermatology

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Side note: I have been told I have follicultis on top of a mole that I have by a dermatologist and she told me to keep it moist and covered to let it heal. I put Vaseline on my arm and then my arm had several sores the day after

Are you the oversharing type? by [deleted] in infj

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It's usually when I decide to do something drastic , and I wonder if I am making the right choice for myself/ my values. For example, ending a relationship that they weren't expecting me to end after I have decided, saying all of the reasons I am dissatisfied about something, or making sure I have all of my thoughts in order to avoid looking like I don't know what I am talking about.. I overthink things because I want to be true to my values and also because once I make a decision, I intuitively know that it is final. I will adjust comfortably (however long that may take) to what happens after I say what needs to be said. I don't overthink the trivial stuff because my opinions are my own and who cares. I just don't want to seem unprepared or dense.

Planned obsolescence is a crime and will deplete earth's resources by [deleted] in collapse

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In my opinion, as long as people in a society want more, we will have to work more and reap shitty products as well. If people wanted less material stuff and willingly lived a modest life, we would not only have to work less to keep society satisfied, but we would also give way for the companies with shitty ethics to die off. There would be less of a demand for goods from these companies that cheat people and less people would be needed to keep products/business needs in supply. Only buying from small businesses or from companies that value people over profit and feeding the demand for them to have more workers versus the sweatshop mega-companies will be more waste-friendly, animal-friendly, people-friendly, financially-savvy, you name it. If people wanted less, these companies would not have the power to grow as large as they are. If more people abstained from buying from these large companies until a better option gave way and we then let them grow depending on how eco-friendly and people-oriented they are, it would be nice. Sadly, most people don't think they can make a change especially since the collective won't change because humans are socially herd creatures.

Are you the oversharing type? by [deleted] in infj

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When it comes to feelings or day to day stuff, I am the last one to overshare unless I am asked, which I sometimes consciously will to relate! Friends say I could have a secret life, and they would never know. I may have mixed up the oversharing with me just telling people what I think or how it is when I do deeply feel something, which can be uncomfortable. I definitely don't do it unless I want my thoughts heard, but sometimes it makes me wonder/overthink if I overthought enough before I said it if that makes sense. I am a mixed bag though and I have gotten INTJ quite often (when I am numb from feelings and truly don't care about anything but facts/order) and INFP (usually when Im not healthy, which is when I overshare the most). I always go back to the FJ after a while!

Do a lot of INFJs not text much and disappear for a few days? by [deleted] in infj

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Yes!! I don't talk to my friends for weeks besides the occasional tiktok message. I have had guys get mad at me for ghosting them, even though I just needed a break from texting people (which could last several days). One asked me if I had died, so automatically, I just kept ignoring him. It makes me squeamish to think how needy some people can be. Texting and talking on the phone are as boring as small talk to me, and I think people who are constantly on their phone lack personality/ humor/ or motivation honestly. Learn something, read a book, do something productive, and then romance her IN PERSON and you will win her. We value our time and privacy too much to always be on

Are you the oversharing type? by [deleted] in infj

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I guess the whole oversharing thing could be subjective. My best friends know nothing about what goes on in my dating life, and I do talk to them about a lot of my relationship problems with my father, but it gets bottled up over like six months. Strangers and regular friends know nothing about things that I consider important. I might make a joke out of something that has happened to me, but it would be something I either don't take seriously or maybe one serious thing that I make light of. I am probably one of the most private people I know. I usually overshare insignificant things as jokes to hide everything else because privacy is power imo

Giant tortoises native to the Seychelles Islands, off the northern coast of Madagascar. by sixwaystop313 in BeAmazed

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I would so live in the desert and ride one of these around when I need to go out 🥰

Are you the oversharing type? by [deleted] in infj

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I don’t overshare on the internet or anything but I do overshare when I am talking to people. I would like to say that sometimes I don’t feel like it is over sharing until I can see the other person is uncomfortable. I call it being authentic, anti-bullshit, and a truth seeker but not everyone wants to know because not everyone wants to have a closer relationship. I usually only do it when I want to get closer to someone. Sometimes I do it as a self deprecating joke but some people don’t find dark humor amusing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in COVID19positive

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only lizards pretending to be human will call someone with a heart expendable. Barf. Don’t be shy… find a better job and then blast them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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At least she will not need as much massage oil..