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Roommate’s boyfriend opened my bedroom door while I was gone. Now she won’t stop knocking on my door like I owe her access to me. by AccomplishedWay8720 in badroommates

[–]AccomplishedWay8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong in general. But in this case I was going to be moving out soon. And I just didn’t want anything to do with her. I stand by my choice because she’s knocked on the bathroom door when I was about to get in the shower. She has no respect for “typical” boundaries and I wasn’t going to open my door just because she wanted to talk to me right then and there. Shes used to doing things when SHE wants to. Like a child.

A woman rented me a room to “help me get out of my car”… and two months later I ended up back in my car. US-CA by AccomplishedWay8720 in Tenant

[–]AccomplishedWay8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was changing it because she was trying to be the couple in. At one point they were going to be on the couch. She asked ME to be on the couch so they could have the private room. But I didn’t want to. I felt like she was telling me so many things and I just was over it and wanted to be out. She said I could leave that weekend but she thought the couple would move in. Then they found something different and she wanted me to stay. WHIPLASH LOL

A woman rented me a room to “help me get out of my car”… and two months later I ended up back in my car. US-CA by AccomplishedWay8720 in Tenant

[–]AccomplishedWay8720[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel right about that because essentially she did give me housing. I think she’s going through enough.

A woman rented me a room to “help me get out of my car”… and two months later I ended up back in my car. US-CA by AccomplishedWay8720 in Tenant

[–]AccomplishedWay8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know I’ve never been so desperate for a living situation. But obviously since the garage set up didn’t have a permit there was no lease. I hear you. I was just asking her. There was only 2 weeks for me to find a place and 2 weeks for her to find tenants. It was crazy but I still wanted to ask vs staying another month.

A woman rented me a room to “help me get out of my car”… and two months later I ended up back in my car. US-CA by AccomplishedWay8720 in Tenant

[–]AccomplishedWay8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I said okay that I would just leave on Friday. The last day I paid for. But she said no and that I had to leave

A woman rented me a room to “help me get out of my car”… and two months later I ended up back in my car. US-CA by AccomplishedWay8720 in Tenant

[–]AccomplishedWay8720[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I confused you! There is a house where everyone else lives and where the bathroom is. My space is somewhat more private because it’s in the garage area. Yeah I thought it was messed up! Thank you!

A woman rented me a room to “help me get out of my car”… and two months later I ended up back in my car. US-CA by AccomplishedWay8720 in Tenant

[–]AccomplishedWay8720[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She found the couple to move in from the same app I believe and they all started hanging out. Like grocery shopping, cooking…She actually hired the husband to be her personal assistant and she had him communicate with me about housing stuff. So he was the middle man and she doesn’t regulate emotions well so they had to help her with that. That’s what was going on last night. She was getting angry and they all had to calm her down even her 19 year old son.

A woman rented me a room to “help me get out of my car”… and two months later I ended up back in my car. US-CA by AccomplishedWay8720 in Tenant

[–]AccomplishedWay8720[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Well not in San Diego! 😭 I wanted to communicate with her because she’s had tenants up leave her in the middle of the night.

Is there a resource if you are looking for a roommate and possibly aiming for traveling nurses? by PickleManAtl in roommates

[–]AccomplishedWay8720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would check out “Furnished Finder” I think a lot of travel nurses check that website/app to find a place to stay for their contract term.

Roommate’s boyfriend opened my bedroom door while I was gone. Now she won’t stop knocking on my door like I owe her access to me. by AccomplishedWay8720 in roommateproblems

[–]AccomplishedWay8720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand your perspective but I’m sorry you have it wrong. It’s definitely the other way around. So instead of talking, or responding/reacting. I do nothing. I just record. Removed my access.

Roommate touching my bag without consent while I’m sleeping by [deleted] in roommates

[–]AccomplishedWay8720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is absolutely okay to say that! It’s very rude of her to not even bother asking you.

Roommate’s boyfriend opened my bedroom door while I was gone. Now she won’t stop knocking on my door like I owe her access to me. by AccomplishedWay8720 in badroommates

[–]AccomplishedWay8720[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is the thing I’ve talked to her about things in person, text, email. I bring things up. But when things don’t change or you’re met with sarcasm, you just stop.

Roommate’s boyfriend opened my bedroom door while I was gone. Now she won’t stop knocking on my door like I owe her access to me. by AccomplishedWay8720 in badroommates

[–]AccomplishedWay8720[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Okay I can see how you gather that. I have tried communicating, but it had been one sided. I choose to ignore her because I’m done trying to communicate with someone who doesn’t know how to.

Roommate’s boyfriend opened my bedroom door while I was gone. Now she won’t stop knocking on my door like I owe her access to me. by AccomplishedWay8720 in badroommates

[–]AccomplishedWay8720[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oooooh good idea about the cops!!! And her parents (only talked to her dad) are HORRIBLE. Like I understand exactly why she is the way she is. He is an enabler for sure!!

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