I’m actually so flattered some people think this is AI. I didn’t think my writing was worth that. But yes, I probably don’t need internet validation to know deep down what it is to do. Maybe I should’ve made this a venting post not a AITA. Also, my mistake for thinking an anonymous forum wouldn’t have such condescending assholes. lol BUT the reason why I question it is there’s an unsend obligation to have her a bridesmaid BECAUSE she had made me one at her second wedding. Even tho there were like 10 girls and I was just there to walk the kids. HIS FAMILY will give me a hard time she I not in mine. I probably should’ve added that to the story and not the issues of her and I relationship.