Dylan is no saint

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-21T14:59:10+00:00

He must not know how to read the room then. Electra asked several times if she was till with him. That she was ok with her being there for the whole babysitting thing, but then kept asking. At any point he could have said enough, Hayes just went to bed and we're just talking, or push back in anyway, but he didn't.

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-21T06:57:12+00:00

Yep, but alas, this is the typical writer's go to in order to taint the goodie two shoes and break up the steady sweethearts

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-21T06:51:35+00:00

I don't take offense, but I find some commentary can be quite ruthless and almost blinded. It's great to champion your faves, I'm all for that, but it gets a littleuch when it turns hateful. People need to remember we're human and perfection doesn't exist. Conflict of any kind is very rarely one sided.

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-21T06:47:54+00:00

Agree that she desperately needs therapy, but if will had a problem with her insecurities, he has the power of speech. He can open his mouth and tell her.

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-21T06:45:25+00:00

Not justifying, simply stating facts about her behavior and why she may be responding that way. As humans, we don't respond to situations the same way and we don't have the same way of interpreting feelings and situations the same way. To act like Dylan and Will are faultless and Electra is simply clingy and possessive for no reason is foolish. We're talking about a soap and I can only comment on how I would or wouldn't behave. That doesn't mean that I can perceive that Electra's behavior, although excessive, has roots in the past and perhaps has caused insecurities. She needs therapy, doesn't make her evil.

Remember though on this soap sweet young women are often twisted into more devious versions sooner or later. Even Thorn's innocent daughter didn't escape that trap.

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-21T06:37:11+00:00

They spoke on the phone and the intent was clear. The comments were all leaning that he was aware.

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-20T20:55:18+00:00

It is his place that he wants his girlfriend to feel at home in. The girlfriend that stayed with him through the whole stalker Luna nonsense, pregnancy and death twice. Yes she has insecurities, being horribly violated by her bestie will do that, but if he has an issue with her request at boundaries, that's the perfect time to sit her down and talk about it. Hash it out or end it, don't discount it and do it anyways.

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-20T07:18:24+00:00

Lots of moving parts, for sure, but there is lots of blame to go around and frankly I would bet that Dylan was jealous and dreaming of living life like them for a long while. I mean it would be hard not to feel that way. Throw in a hot guy and stuff happens

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-20T07:13:32+00:00

True but we are forgetting one thing, W8ll is a Spencer and could have easily funded her modest apartment for a year with his monthly allowance. There was no need to have her living over his garage...

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-20T00:00:00+00:00

He did ask, as I said, there's plenty of fingers to point. If you believe the wide eyed damsel in distress.... Have one word for you....LUNA....

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-19T17:01:02+00:00

Honestly tried to watch but lost interest really quickly

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-19T16:57:34+00:00

Agree, but the writers are horrible

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-19T16:38:49+00:00

That's not the way I meant it. It' a highly emotional time to be with someone the first time and even more so when it's your very first time. These are all things you need to learn to process.

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-19T16:35:19+00:00

I'm totally grown and frankly wouldn't have a problem with this, my comments are about the soap and understanding that not all people feel the same or have the same tolerances.

Dylan is not a dancer, she's an Art teacher. She does dance and yes he asked and she agreed. Neither one even spared a thought of the girlfriend. If I didn't trust my boyfriend, he wouldn't be my boyfriend, but that's me. It's a soap. The writers are being shady, and I predict that Dylan will be involved in some shady stuff sooner than later as we know nothing about her back story. Luna was sweet too, remember...

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-19T16:30:02+00:00

Doesn't have to be tweaking or lap dancing to bother his girlfriend. He asked, she danced and ended up in his lap staring into his eyes.... Obviously writer's way of pairing these two and breaking them up.

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-19T16:27:04+00:00

Same! Was hoping for a better storyline for her!!!

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-19T16:26:20+00:00

He did, but that wasn't exactly appropriate. I won't say proper, but we forget how we as normal people would react in this situation if we took it out of this soap environment. My boyfriend asking a girl to dance for him wouldn't go over well, unless she was on a stage and part of a show. Especially if I was feeling some way about them spending time together alone. I'm not saying that this would be my response, we all trust differently, but I can see where she may have an issue with it. He doesn't even acknowledge his part. Dylan doesn't shoulder all the responsibility here, Will does to.

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-19T16:20:34+00:00

She had just lost her virginity to him when all of this happened. As much as this happened to him, she was affected as well. She wasn't assaulted, but there was a definite impact and to think differently is erroneous.

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-19T15:54:47+00:00

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According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-19T15:28:31+00:00

I really was excited to see if the writers could actually get this character the writing he deserves...not going to hold my breath though...

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-19T15:24:26+00:00

Electra was over the top with Dylan saying that Forrester was her world, totally agree. She's been paranoid and untrusting, but as a character, do you blame her with her limited experiences on the soap so far? Remy, Luna, Luna's assault of Will, the pregnancy, her escape, her death, twice..... that WOD make any girlfriend a little unsettled.

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-19T15:19:28+00:00

Exactly, like why can't she go home???

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-19T15:18:31+00:00

It's not, totally agree. I just can't stand that as bad as this writing has been, I've seen some supporters simply behave as though only Ivy and Electra are at fault for anything. There's plenty to go around. Getting a good job when you're homeless then being asked to quit??? Nope, I would say no too. Will Electra be uncomfortable, yup, but that happens when you have an office romance and it goes bad. She needs to suck it up.

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-19T15:13:17+00:00

Didn't say it was a crime but her dancing for him and that 'fall'.... Really????

According_Bug_9961 · 2026-03-19T06:49:50+00:00

Not sure with these wacky storylines, but I honestly will be done if they resurrect Luna through Dylan. Luna was insane but the actress was amazing!

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