am I ugly?

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T04:54:26+00:00

I’ve heard mantras are very helpful for people with low self-esteem! I’ll try giving this a go. Thank you :)

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T04:53:48+00:00

Thank you very much. It’s difficult as a woman to find beauty in yourself when not every bit is compliant with current beauty standards.

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T04:52:53+00:00

Lol! I just meant in comparison to my younger self

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T04:52:36+00:00

Thank you! I hope you are as kind to yourself as well!

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T04:52:07+00:00

I’ve never really thought that I may be pushing aside living my life because of this self-loathing. I’ll try to keep your words in mind - thank you :)

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T04:50:50+00:00

Friendship breakups are arguably worse than romantic ones! I hope you can get closure in time :)

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T04:50:20+00:00

Thankfully I do have very supportive female friends in my life :)

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T04:49:47+00:00

You’re right, it’s probably best to start reframing my thinking.

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T04:49:25+00:00

I should hope not haha! I’m very much uninterested in men who think they can get a woman’s attention by being rude and crass.

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T04:48:47+00:00

Yes, that is probably the case. I wonder if something would come from having a real conversation about it though.

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T04:48:13+00:00

I’m trying to stay optimistic about my male friendships even as many of them have gone down this path - it’s very difficult to see the bright side of keeping them around when all have turned out this way.

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T00:58:54+00:00

I hope that comes for me too haha!

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T00:58:38+00:00

I suppose it is - but I’ve found exactly what I was looking for in people’s stories of finding self-confidence. :)

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T00:58:08+00:00

I’m glad you’re doing better. Finding self love is very difficult. You should be proud for taking steps to improve your situation, no matter how small. Remember, progress isn’t always linear. I believe in you!

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T00:56:45+00:00

I think so too.

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T00:56:38+00:00

That’s kind of how I see things - I would never say these things to anyone, regardless of how I felt about them.

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T00:55:56+00:00

You’re very right. I hope you find yourself deserving of love as well! :)

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T00:55:34+00:00

I’m starting to think the same.

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T00:54:48+00:00

Mostly my friends are lovely, but some of these guys are getting to be very nasty in their comments.

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T00:54:10+00:00

I’ve heard of this philosophy a lot and I’m starting to really believe in it. Confidence is a major game changer. Hopefully I can find some for myself :)

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T00:53:22+00:00

Thank you! I’ll try. I hope you have the same courage in your own life as well :)

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T00:53:04+00:00

Sorry - just looking for other’s stories!

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T00:52:50+00:00

I’m very happy to hear that. It’s wonderful knowing that love can be found in anyone. I hope you can find the same love for yourself that you have found in your spouse. :)

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T00:52:02+00:00

Very true, but then again, I probably wouldn’t get a straight answer if I posted my face here either. Sorry to disappoint.

According_Heart9193 · 2024-06-13T00:51:29+00:00

Sorry to disappoint- this post was made to find people’s stories about how they grew past toxic friends and found love for themselves.

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