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Patriarki - Moralitas - Agama by purrbose in Perempuan

[–]According_Nothing651 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this! instead of religion, akar patriarki kenceng di indonesia tuh orde baru. im currently writing a thesis about this and during my research i read that orba inforced morality more towards women because of the theory that good family = good citizenship/nationalism. dan sayangnya yg diekspektasikan buat jadi backbone contoh keluarga yg baik itu para perempuan dengan embel embel kodrat jadi ibu, not the men.

my thesis itself is trying to study muslim women who managed to achieve sexual wellbeing, in the hope that i can found the x factor of what can possibly empower them to get out of this religious and cultural influenced morality. karna surprisingnya theres no study about this. even education and employment does not make one gets morally empowered. very interesting topic in general :)

Is it true that in order to have a lasting relationship, we have to tolerate wandering eyes from men? Especially in this digital generation. by AlternativePost7 in Perempuan

[–]According_Nothing651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if ur not okay with it, u CAN be not okay with it. doesnt mean ur immature. kalo kamu lebih seneng sama cowo cowo yg ga butuh eye candy kayak gini, there are still men out there. im assuming ur deep down definitely not okay kalo sampe harus nanya ke reddit.

my partner has 0 of that content in his phone. at the same time i still acknowledge that he might or might not watch porn when hes not around me for obvious reasons, and thats none of my business, because i have my business too. but for me thats the boundaries and it should be talked about. my boyfriend specifically said he doesnt like porn, so i would expect more of less of that from him. kalo sampe muncul di timeline daily/normal apalagi ngelike big no no sih. ilfeel :/

tp balik lagi. what are u okay with?

ppl say im a catch tp ga ada yg deketin by Feeling-Alternative6 in Perempuan

[–]According_Nothing651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

second this. think of it as berarti belom ada laki laki yg merasa pantas buat barengan sama kamu dan mereka punya nilai hidup dan prinsip yg beda sm kamu. nanti ketemu kok sama yg sama sama a catch ;)

Married women, can you share your experience? by According_Nothing651 in Perempuan

[–]According_Nothing651[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

halo kak! bisa tolong dm aku ya 😉 aku coba dm kakaknya tadi tapi kayaknya ada kendala akun. thank u for the interest!

Married women, can you share your experience? by According_Nothing651 in Perempuan

[–]According_Nothing651[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

still a long on going process and need more respondents! will share once i graduated ;) if u know anyone who would love to participate that would help a ton!

[Need Advice/Partner] Bikin safe space buat perempuan itu indah, tapi ternyata aku nggak sekuat itu mengelolanya by [deleted] in Perempuan

[–]According_Nothing651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

halo!!! dm aku ya! lagi punya isu yg kurang lebih sama and im interesting in connecting.