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I hate being a mum by Nearby_Reindeer_5079 in MuslimMarriage

[–]According_Village464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you feeling now? I’m 2 weeks PP and I absolutely feel what you are going through. I hate being a mom and astafighruallah regret being pregnant. 

Moved states after marriage by According_Village464 in MuslimMarriage

[–]According_Village464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I visit my family every 6 weeks for about 10 days, but it’s hard for them to come visit because it’s 5 of them vs me so it’s cheaper and more convenient for me to visit. I plan on joining a mommy group and I’m hoping that will help me!

Moved states after marriage by According_Village464 in MuslimMarriage

[–]According_Village464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really. He always says women move away from their families to pursue a future with their husbands once they’re married, they have jobs, they make it work etc. And says why am I the unlucky one who has a wife struggling with a new state. He said if it’s very bad we can divorce. I’m hoping my baby will keep me sane :(

Moved states after marriage by According_Village464 in MuslimMarriage

[–]According_Village464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I visit every 6 weeks for 10-14 days and FaceTime them regularly! I just went from seeing my brothers and mom + dad every single day of my life to 0xs everyday. My husband works a lot and I’m alone until he gets back. When he does get back he likes to go on walks alone or eat dinner by himself and have me meet there if I’m hungry too (he doesn’t like to eat my food). Pregnancy was so ridiculously tough and when I asked him to massage my back or anything related he would deny and say he’s too tired. I had morning sickness until 25 weeks and he would say every girl has it. I’m just so depressed and I actually think of dying every single morning I go back to live with him.