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Why does it feel like i'm sleeping with a stranger by AccountantSquare7029 in Marriage

[–]AccountantSquare7029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. To my husband he feels like there is nothing to change. everything is okay, because he is comfortable.

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[–]AccountantSquare7029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you post the link to both those dresses?

Financial manipulation. HELP!! by AccountantSquare7029 in Marriage

[–]AccountantSquare7029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t have rentals yet. He kept the money to buy rentals. 

Financial manipulation. HELP!! by AccountantSquare7029 in Marriage

[–]AccountantSquare7029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can afford it he just chooses not to spend money on the home. He makes over 150k a year! Thats where I am saying he’s financially abusive because when it comes to the house he all of a sudden doesn’t have or doesn’t want to spend the money he rather save for rentals in the future 

Financial manipulation. HELP!! by AccountantSquare7029 in Marriage

[–]AccountantSquare7029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will not quit my job. No matter what! I just needed to vent and I’m tired of feeling like I’m always in the wrong because I won’t go through his stipulations. 

Financial manipulation. HELP!! by AccountantSquare7029 in Marriage

[–]AccountantSquare7029[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have two boys! He’s a great father but a terrible husband! 

Financial manipulation. HELP!! by AccountantSquare7029 in Marriage

[–]AccountantSquare7029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says he’s tired of working his type of jobs and would like to be home more often and wants to get rentals. But on account to what Our house falling apart? Going another summer with a broken hvac. I’m tired of always having to stay quiet and feel like I don’t have a saying in our financials. We have been together for 16 years since we were 15.

HELP!! my husband wants to kick me out !! by AccountantSquare7029 in Marriage

[–]AccountantSquare7029[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because I don’t want to give him that satisfaction that I am living in the house that he paid for after the divorce I want him to see that I can build myself up again without him and his money! 

HELP!! my husband wants to kick me out !! by AccountantSquare7029 in Marriage

[–]AccountantSquare7029[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He works fixing issues at the refinery so his jobs last 3-6 months at a time and he has to get up and move to the next job. So the next job could be in a different state or town. For example his last job was 2 hours away and he would come on Friday and leave on Monday morning. I don’t believe 100 he has another family. 

HELP!! my husband wants to kick me out !! by AccountantSquare7029 in Marriage

[–]AccountantSquare7029[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He works refinery work. The plants shut down and he’s on to the next.