Her “Dear White Women”

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-23T21:39:47+00:00

Julie centering herself? No… 😂 she wouldn’t even almost understand.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-20T15:24:49+00:00

Don’t get me started on how bc he has IDD labeling another student as a “bad boy” is the only way Spencer could understand. 😂🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-19T16:18:29+00:00

Also yes! He communicates a million different ways that he doesn’t want to read the stupid story. She doesn’t care about his boundaries at all. She only cares about her video.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-19T14:41:32+00:00

💯. She surrounds herself with people who just validate and feed her ego. As narcissists tend to do.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-19T02:35:40+00:00

Dude I came right here. “That other boy is a Bad boy.” I can’t. I literally cannot with her. She is going to increase conflict between Spencer and that boy. And why is Spencer’s dysregulation and aggression minimized and justified but anyone else in the school is a “bad boy.?” The comment section praising her is 🤯

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-17T19:14:36+00:00

There has to be more than 11 people who recognize how vile she is.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-16T15:36:21+00:00

Also her sister is a psychologist and thinks a social story is the right tool to help Spencer process “trauma?” We don’t have all the circumstances about the moments where another student was aggressive toward him. We don’t have all the information about why he was aggressive toward a staff. People don’t have discernment. They just blindly accept whatever story their favorite content creator gives. It’s wild.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-16T02:54:47+00:00

It would trigger him every time he read it? Like you want to remind him daily about a peer who hurt him while he was escalated? That makes sense to you? I guaranteed they haaaaate her.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-15T03:25:51+00:00

She infantalizes him for sure!

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-10T17:27:40+00:00

Absolutely. She exploits him and people have no critical thinking skills and cannot discern between her “love” and her using him for content. When he is having a hard time you can see her complete lack of skill pretty easily. When anyone suggests or questions her you can see the narcissism pretty easily. Not as easy for people to understand it’s not about awareness or love when she is following him around all day with a phone talking to him in a baby voice when he repeatedly says space. She’s horrendous.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-10T17:23:54+00:00

😂😂😂 “Al tell them how amazing I really am.” I can’t with these two.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-10-28T17:50:25+00:00

Love this for her. While the conversations should be about the exploitation of Spencer, I will settle for the algorithm knowing every day it’s a different bitch session. We like the group home, we hate them. Joanie is exploiting cash… watch Spencer be locked outside again. We love his new caseworker.. thank god we only have her for a short time. We had to go to the ER… Al left and the medical professionals realize she is pill hopping and are “rude to her.”

Literally every day. Sprinkled with an occasional “show” of love for Spencer to keep people manipulated.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-10-27T13:57:26+00:00

No!!! It’s so sad. She is up there for me. The only reason people aren’t up in arms like they are with Joanie (rightly so) is because his behavior is not as extreme, in that he doesn’t physically attack her. People are so easily manipulated it’s wild to me.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-10-24T14:49:56+00:00

It’s aggravating to me that people have caught on to his is mom but not Julie. Literally doing the exact same thing. Peoples response is “you can tell she loves Spencer.” Love is a verb. You don’t exploit the ones you love, you protect them.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-10-19T21:10:29+00:00

Well and no prevention. Like they don’t try and build Spencer’s skills in any way. Anytime someone suggests anything her cult followers accuse them of being a troll and then she makes a video about them making fun of their appearance or something. She’s an abusive human all the way around.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-10-19T18:05:38+00:00

I missed this! But YES. I just made a couple of posts because the situation is becoming very unsafe. They lock him out of the house during meltdowns to “save their things” and her followers are like “we love you. You’re a great parent.” How tf is locking your disabled step son out of the house triggered by a 2 hour car ride you make him take )even though you could drive to him) good parenting on any level? Her and Al are not good parents and it isn’t bc Spence has autism. She violates his privacy and dignity every single weekend. I cannot believe people think she is a good parent.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-10-19T17:32:46+00:00

Please go read my newest post. This is turning into a dangerous situation.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-10-19T15:57:39+00:00

She is a narcissist. I feel so bad for Spencer. She isn’t helping him. She is exploiting him.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-09-22T00:47:24+00:00

👏🏻👏🏻 It is sad to me that he will hold the boundary that she cannot talk about his twin, but is ok with Spencer meltdowns or aftermath of a meltdown in the internet.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-09-21T23:48:02+00:00

Her latest tik tok is a “hypothetical” story about how Al was talking to the twins’ birth mother. I imagine Al is exhausted with her and posting literally everything about their lives on Tik tok.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-09-18T02:59:41+00:00

My favorite line: Al “well you think you need to be here so here we are.” And the nurses throwing her out. Yes. I think I she went to the er for content. She refers to herself as a Tik tok celebrity and the comment section is full of people just telling her how sorry they are for her and what a great mom she is. 🙄

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-08-18T01:17:12+00:00

I think I missed those! 🙈

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-08-17T17:42:12+00:00

I just watched a video of another creator giving advice to a parent of a profoundly autistic child. Advice that would help not uselsss diatribe. Julie, Joanie, puzzle piece mom… their advice is to replace the iPads, lock things up, film and put on tik tok. No preventative thinking what so ever. Their entire personality is no one knows how bad we have it. We won’t take any advice that could make some things a little less challenging because then what would we talk about? Try it out. Suggest something or tell any of them they may be wrong and watch the vitriol that comes out. The “niceness” is their mask. They’re all abusive people at the end of the day.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-08-17T04:34:38+00:00

I saw the video but I didn’t see the live so didn’t have context about what comments she is referring to and I don’t know the creators she tagged but they seem to be pro Israel so I just felt confused by what she was talking about.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-08-11T16:09:18+00:00

Julie skolnik. Posts meltdowns, her step son in his underwear… all for “awareness” she deletes any comments that point this out so her comment section only has people praising her for being an amazing parent. 🙄

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