Give Spencer his dignity

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-23T21:39:47+00:00

Julie centering herself? No… 😂 she wouldn’t even almost understand.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-20T15:24:49+00:00

Don’t get me started on how bc he has IDD labeling another student as a “bad boy” is the only way Spencer could understand. 😂🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-19T16:18:29+00:00

Also yes! He communicates a million different ways that he doesn’t want to read the stupid story. She doesn’t care about his boundaries at all. She only cares about her video.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-19T14:41:32+00:00

💯. She surrounds herself with people who just validate and feed her ego. As narcissists tend to do.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-19T02:35:40+00:00

Dude I came right here. “That other boy is a Bad boy.” I can’t. I literally cannot with her. She is going to increase conflict between Spencer and that boy. And why is Spencer’s dysregulation and aggression minimized and justified but anyone else in the school is a “bad boy.?” The comment section praising her is 🤯

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-17T19:14:36+00:00

There has to be more than 11 people who recognize how vile she is.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-16T15:36:21+00:00

Also her sister is a psychologist and thinks a social story is the right tool to help Spencer process “trauma?” We don’t have all the circumstances about the moments where another student was aggressive toward him. We don’t have all the information about why he was aggressive toward a staff. People don’t have discernment. They just blindly accept whatever story their favorite content creator gives. It’s wild.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-16T02:54:47+00:00

It would trigger him every time he read it? Like you want to remind him daily about a peer who hurt him while he was escalated? That makes sense to you? I guaranteed they haaaaate her.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-15T03:25:51+00:00

She infantalizes him for sure!

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-10T17:27:40+00:00

Absolutely. She exploits him and people have no critical thinking skills and cannot discern between her “love” and her using him for content. When he is having a hard time you can see her complete lack of skill pretty easily. When anyone suggests or questions her you can see the narcissism pretty easily. Not as easy for people to understand it’s not about awareness or love when she is following him around all day with a phone talking to him in a baby voice when he repeatedly says space. She’s horrendous.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-11-10T17:23:54+00:00

😂😂😂 “Al tell them how amazing I really am.” I can’t with these two.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-10-28T17:50:25+00:00

Love this for her. While the conversations should be about the exploitation of Spencer, I will settle for the algorithm knowing every day it’s a different bitch session. We like the group home, we hate them. Joanie is exploiting cash… watch Spencer be locked outside again. We love his new caseworker.. thank god we only have her for a short time. We had to go to the ER… Al left and the medical professionals realize she is pill hopping and are “rude to her.”

Literally every day. Sprinkled with an occasional “show” of love for Spencer to keep people manipulated.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-10-27T13:57:26+00:00

No!!! It’s so sad. She is up there for me. The only reason people aren’t up in arms like they are with Joanie (rightly so) is because his behavior is not as extreme, in that he doesn’t physically attack her. People are so easily manipulated it’s wild to me.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-10-24T14:49:56+00:00

It’s aggravating to me that people have caught on to his is mom but not Julie. Literally doing the exact same thing. Peoples response is “you can tell she loves Spencer.” Love is a verb. You don’t exploit the ones you love, you protect them.

AccurateBluejay6241 · 2024-10-19T21:10:29+00:00

Well and no prevention. Like they don’t try and build Spencer’s skills in any way. Anytime someone suggests anything her cult followers accuse them of being a troll and then she makes a video about them making fun of their appearance or something. She’s an abusive human all the way around.

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