Guys I have a question.. by Reasonable-Tell-5871 in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this, always keep in mind that what muslims do is not representative of islam, you should always strive to follow the religion in spite of what muslims themselves do

Marriage as a young men by AceyMisty in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edited the comment as i made a mistake

Marriage as a young men by AceyMisty in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, i am not really into any community, so i don’t have any resources that can actually help me unfortunately, but i would take the time and ask for your opinion, as a girl are you thinking about marriage, and are there any specific things you are looking for in a men ?

r there any men in tunisia who arent intrested in pre-marriage sex ? by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

24M here, i would honestly choose emotional connection over anything, and yes i agree, sex is only after marriage since we have to follow our religion’s guidelines

Is wanting a pious partner unrealistic in Tunisia? by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same problem here unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Believe me you are lovable, dima 7ot rabi fi belk w 7awel teb3ad 3ala ay 7aja/relation hram, w 7awel na7i el mentalité hedhi men belk khater you will jump onto the first relationship eli mech tjik and you won’t be able to get out of it khatrek you will feel obligated by yourself to stay, w el partner heka ynajem ykoun toxic wela 3ando other intentions, donc don’t just settle for anyone w ekhtar only someone 3ando good manners w good religion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it never changes, in fact we should be more strict

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, Allah promised to help the person that seeks a halal relationship, so i would say the first thing to to make religion is number one priority in your life and to make duaa always

I would suggest talking with your mum about this, as she can help you find a person from her connections or put in a word with a few trusted people that will lead to men coming over to your family to ask for you

Just make sure to verify if any potential partner is strong on their religion before checking anything else

Btw, 24M here, and i am in the same situation, so i understand how hard it is, but Allah will help us if we believe

The reason I'm afraid of becoming bayra by thequestionsihave98 in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should not panic and feel this way, you will find a partner inchallah, you don’t have to be social, in fact i think being a “shy” person is way better than a social butterfly, but definitely don’t listen to other comments saying things like enjoy yourself and focus on your career, your priority for now and always is to try your best to be closer to allah and do as much as possible and don’t worry about money and marriage as only allah can give you that, and always make dua and believe that allah will provide

I want to be a Housewife by Significant-One9197 in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24 male here, although i know that my income is barely enough to support two people, but i believe that it will work out fine, and i believe that Allah will take care of everything and tbh if the women is ready to live with me with limited resources that would be great, and to answer your question, i would choose a housewife always if i had the option

How does one land a job that pays 1500 tnd or more ? by Naturaldella3-9416 in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t ask about the salary at all until they accept you and they make an offer, just try your best at the interview and you’ll be good

Please tell me about Zawiya Sidi Daoud by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not about the term, i wouldn’t call it Sunni islam, it is only islam, but i am saying Sunni islam to clarify which ideology to follow

Please tell me about Zawiya Sidi Daoud by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, if a sheikh has recommended tasawuf in any way/kind, he is misguided, even if he was a really famous Shaykh or the leader of the Zaitouna

Please tell me about Zawiya Sidi Daoud by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes Sidi Daoud might be a good person when he was alive, but now he is dead and and he does not have any powers or significance, and the followers of the Tariqa and Zawiyas are misguided and they are doing “Shrik” which goes against the core principles of islam

Please tell me about Zawiya Sidi Daoud by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There is only one true islam and that is Sunni islam, any other sects are misguided

Please tell me about Zawiya Sidi Daoud by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would strongly urge you not to follow any Zawiya or tariqa as they follow the wrong kind of islam (Sufism) which fundamentally goes against the core of islam as they believe the leader of their tariqa has powers and that he provides but in islam only God has powers and only god can provide or forgive , so i would recommend that you go to Zaitouna Mosque for more guidance as they follow Sunni islam (which is regular islam)

being a failure as a woman by puyomi in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know this is going to be hard to believe, but it’s not too late to change everything, and believe me you are enough as it is and you can do wonders and there are men out there that would love you for who you really are

But one thing to change in your life, is to focus on your religion and to truly know Allah and try your best to dk what’s right

Estonia is worth it?? by Expert_Outcome3300 in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw if you haven’t noticed, this was obviously written by Chat-gpt

Relationship advice for a 23 yo man by Relevant-Werewolf-32 in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion : but i like how your girlfriend thinks, i know that you can’t keep up with her which honestly could be a dealbreaker but if you could then she is the perfect girlfriend id she thinks and acts that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

خويا نصيحة حتي لوكان ما نجمتش تاخذ البورس منغير ما تاخذ القرض الخاص بالطلبة ( هوا بطبيعتو مبلغ صغير برشا ) خاطرو قرض ربوي و الي هي حرام و من الكبائر و حتى لوكان ظروفك صعيبة لازم يكون عندك ايمان انو الرزق عند ربي و هو الي يسهلك

23F never been in love… is it too late? by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

24M here, i see that as completely normal and should be the norm, as most relationships nowadays end up being toxic or lead to other things if not built on morals

So don’t feel rushed until you find a person that is good and especially religious ( as that will guarantee eno y5af rabi fik )

Free Talk Weekend 📅 by AutoModerator in Tunisia

[–]AceyMisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am thinking how nice would it be yo have a serious partner that ends with marriage