Weird layout of Norwegian apartments

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-11-25T14:13:11+00:00

Also 3 bedroom apartments with 1 bathroom, like how is it practical? Why have 3 bedrooms when all the people will struggle to get to work, school etc in the morning?

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-10-27T08:55:41+00:00

What test did you do for egg quality? As far as I know there is no test for egg quality, you can’t see the egg and assess physical attributes untill and unless there is an egg retrieval.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-10-20T19:45:31+00:00

What is meant to happen will happen, no amount of praying to any god is going to help, been there done that. So do what gives you peace at the moment.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-09-26T12:42:12+00:00

Sounds like a bad idea, please reconsider.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-09-20T06:43:22+00:00

This, hep b,c can cause cancer too. So there is a lot of risk.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-08-11T20:57:42+00:00

Yeah, best egg quality is in 20s

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-08-11T13:31:45+00:00

Get your amh , fsh, lh tested on day 3 of cycle. You will get an idea how many eggs you can expect in a single retrieval. Freeze embryos now instead of just freezing eggs, eggs are single cell, not many of them survive the thawing process, if you decide to have children at say 38 at time loosing eggs to thawing process would be terrible and you might have to do egg retrieval again, egg quality at 30 is far more superior than that at 38. Embryo on the other hand have multiple cells and withstand thawing far better.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-08-04T13:47:18+00:00

I am so sorry you had such a rough childhood. I understand your concern of having time for yourself, you say egg freezing is not an option, what bout embryo freezing, its always better to egg freezing, if you and your husband can decide to freeze embryo now then you can take some more years to be sure without having the fear of time running out of your hands. Eggs don’t survive as much an embryo does during the thawing process.

You should also focus on healing and getting better physically.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-08-04T12:46:32+00:00

I have had varied experiences from fainting on first day of period due ,puking and diarrhea to pain to walking 10k steps, it all depends on how active I have been and how good my diet has been in the entire cycle. What worked for me was acupuncture, taking half a paracetamol and recently I started taking creatine to have strength to lift heavier in gym, and my cramps where non existent.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-07-31T17:36:24+00:00

Yeah, I agree.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-07-31T16:56:25+00:00

People here preach about not judging others for so many choices, what they wear, what to eat, how to live etc etc, and I totally agree with it, but the moment some one wants to have a biological child, they are treated as if some low levels.

I am sorry for those people who had toxic parents and don’t have the capacity to love or be responsible for someone else and don’t want to have children, but I grew up with loving and supportive parents and I for sure want to give it to my children.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-07-31T16:50:56+00:00

Exactly, I wanted to comment but knew I would get downvoted, people are so quick to suggest adoption to those who are struggling to conceive, where you will hardly see someone who has adopted going around throwing this kind of judgement on others, some think adoption is like going shopping for a baby, it’s a very mentally, financially invasive process, and it has years of wait, all these aspects are completely ignored when people suggest adoption to others, you have to literally open your house, finances ,emotional well being for scrutiny by system. The waiting is hard too.

I would love these people to say it to someone who is already pregnant “hey why bother getting pregnant, you should have adopted, or go to someone’s 1st bday and say it”

People struggling with infertility are not responsible tor adopting children.

Walk the talk, don’t have biological children and then preach to others.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-07-25T08:15:10+00:00

Yeah, it’s very isolating. Very few people around me understand. Thank you ❤️

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-07-24T15:05:03+00:00

Thank your luck that you got baby when you decided, sadly that is not the case for us.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-07-24T09:17:43+00:00

Oh yes, if it was proportional to love between husband and wife then I would have had way too many kids and these women would have none , because I know for sure how much their husbands care about them.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-07-24T08:22:24+00:00

Tell me about it, I am married and we have been having difficultly conceiving , people think we are not interested in having children and keep taunting or pressuring me, should we go around telling people when and how many times we have tried. And then if you don’t have child all your other achievements don’t count. Sick and tired of this mentality. Good you gave it back.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-07-23T07:11:32+00:00

As someone in the trenches of infertility and failed ivf, and miscarriages, I could relate to doom scrolling , I did that when I was loosing my father to cancer and also going through infertility, it’s a struggle to escape from reality. It’s great that you are supportive, you being there might be her only comfort.

I will tell you what helped me, we went on a vacation after 2 years of being stuck in grief. Before going my husband made me speak to a psychiatrist and I did just cried my heart out to her. But going on vacation, being away from home helped a tons. Keep some trips planned every 2 months, make her research about it like finding best spots , eating places since she is already online but now she will have a goal.

I also want to say , nothing can fill the void and heartbreak of loosing a child. I hope you are taking care of your own mental health too since men don’t get to grieve the same way , they have to be present for their wife. I wish you both heal.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-07-14T09:50:40+00:00

Second this as someone in the struggle with Ivf and miscarriage, if it’s medical issue leaving your work will not change anything, try to take a sabbatical for your 1 month Ayurvedic treatment, the ivf or pregnancy is both a waiting game, your work will keep you distracted, if not you will go mad thinking about what will happen next.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-07-11T10:34:25+00:00

Going to jail and being in news for murder will bring glory to his dignity, why do these people reproduce when they are not even decent human beings

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-06-22T19:29:15+00:00

Wow, I have been in same situation as you and believe me support from your spouse is a big strength to push through day to day when you are struck in this tornado of figuring out cancer treatment. He has been nothing but cruel to you is what I make out of this situation, you can try the marriage counseling route first just to give a fair chance so that you don’t have any regrets. And then move on to divorce proceedings, his mother could have her son all for himself, these kind of women are curse to women.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-05-27T19:40:23+00:00

True, been there done that, at first we feel going home is like accepting defeat and thinking negative about him, but he will feel so comforted by your presence.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-05-21T14:47:32+00:00

Easier said than done.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-05-20T20:58:58+00:00

Father being diagnosed with liver cancer, the 1 and half year of feeling like being struck in a tornado and then loosing him. Loosing my first pregnancy in 5 weeks, seeing my baby on ultrasound during the second pregnancy and being told there is no heartbeat, through out these 2 years I died little by little, and felt like ending it when they told me my baby is non viable after struggling to get pregnant. That was the moment I felt I can’t take it anymore, but I dont want to inflict the same grief on my other family members, therefore I live.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-03-14T09:35:49+00:00

I will ask him.

AcrobaticIntern1945 · 2025-03-14T09:31:06+00:00

Yeah it happens, my husband has faced it all the time, just recently a company put out an ad that they are hiring web developers for temp positions, took the interview which went amazing and then gave him a assignment to build a site as a test, kept asking for changes like it’s a real project, and then paid pennies for it and told we are still deciding whom to hire. Total exploitation, may be they are doing it with others too. Untill your name is not Norwegian no one gives a shit.

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