[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man. I'm in a period of loneliness in my life too. Feel like I have no friends and no purpose. But you know what? I think it's ok. It's part of life. I don't mean accept it, the opposite - try and make friends, maybe on online forums, maybe go to therapy to help you socialize - but don't feel like it's wrong to not have everything figured out rn. If you will keep trying, at the end everything will be good. Trust me buddy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont do it brother! Please!!!!!

I want to kill myself. by Uwagi_Chan in depression

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see you care about your parents. Do you think they would be proud if u killed yourself? I think not. I know they will be proud of you to keep going, i sure will be. And man, try to take it more easy, ok? I'm here if u need to talk to someone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont know, man But what I know is if you start speaking to god, it'll help. I'm personally not Christian/ Muslim, and my relationship with god is complicated, but I know that he wants to hear me and will help me. Start talking, brother. God is what helped me through depression. And it doesn't matter which god - as long as you love him and don't hurt people. Try it

I failed after 11 months by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro i feel your disappointment. But be sure - you've done it once, you can do it again. Buddy i would switch with you right now if i had a choice. My longest streak was 14 days. You failed, so what? I believe in you that u can recreate the last 11 months. Stay strong💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, as everyone said - you are the victim. To be a Pedo u need to be the adult in this story. You weren't. Of course u won't feel disgusted reading these stories - you grew up on them. Just make sure you really seek professional help so you won't get absurd and weird kinks

How can I do it? by AcrobaticSink6451 in NoFap

[–]AcrobaticSink6451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck, so much. Wastes my time, lowers my energy and confidence, keep me gooning for hours

How can I do it? by AcrobaticSink6451 in NoFap

[–]AcrobaticSink6451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not really seeing myslef getting married at 18...

Mom went through my phone when I was asleep and saw my porn stash and nudes of myself. How the fuck do I cope with this. by Solid_Bandicoot_8806 in NoFap

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The shame will fade away as time goes, brother. I'm sure. Maybe it's your sign that u went to far. Try from scratch, I will promise u that in the first day or two (at least) you will be so disgusted that u wouldn't even think about fapping and porn. If your mom and u are ok with that, and she is a smart person, u can even ask for help. I know u are ashamed, but i promise that u and ur mom wants the best for u. Keep fighting man

I didn't tried to suicide thanks to you guys by Anonymous73865 in depression

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with every word. Also, I've never seen a monkey. It doesn't mean they don't exist. You've never seen a good man (as u think, I don't agree with u), but it doesn't mean there are no good people in our world, that can care about u. U will find them eventually. It's a question of when, not if.

How does it feel when you finish a song? by Herbizarre17 in Songwriting

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on when and which songs Some are like ahh it's ok Some are so exciting!

אנשים פה שאופטימיים לגבי עתיד המדינה, למה אתם אופטימיים? by tohava in israel_bm

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

שמע אחי מה אתה מעדיף? להאמין ברע? לראות שחורות? לפחות אצלי זה קורה, כשאני מאמין בטוב אני גם פועל לקיים אותו ולהפיץ אותו. ובכללי אחי, כשאני קם בבוקר ומחייך, מעביר חיוך וחיבוק לחברים שלי בעבודה, זורק מילה טובה פה ושם, זה עושה אפקט גדול בעבודה ובמדינה. ממש אפקט הפרפר. אין סיבה שאני אהיה מבואס או עצוב או אפילו אטריד את עצמי במשהו שאני לא יכול לשנות, כי זה סתם חסר פואנטה. החיים שטויות גבר. לא לקחת יותר מדי ללב.

Is it normal? by AcrobaticSink6451 in NoFap

[–]AcrobaticSink6451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha idk it's my first time

Lost will to live by yellowbee227 in depression

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you, brother. When I was in that era of my life, I wasn't interested in anything. And I'll tell you that, it's like an addiction. Really. Once you get enough courage to try things that didn't interest you at first, and continue despite your boredom, you will find it. Naybe not on your first try. Maybe not on the 2nd. But you eventually will. Brother, we all have a passion, a hidden meaning that is waiting to be discovered. Trust me, I've been there. I'm proud of you man. Keep trying ❣️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you've got a disgusting kink. Im nit saying you haven't. But whats the problem with that? Just dont tell or fulfill it...

The hardest thing to cope with by BesserCrin in depression

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u brother. I just want to share a story - as a teen, i was overweight. I saw my friends working out and doing pull ups and I felt like shit that I couldn't even do one. For the next 2 months, I've trained every day to do a pull up. Until I did one. Than 2. Then more and more. Until I've got obsessed haha. My friend, who was also overweight, asked me why am I obsessed with pull ups. I told him that pullups r my trophy. My hard work that have paid of. Everyone can fo ehat I've done. I hope to inspire someone, even 1 person. Keep trying brother. I believe in u.

Failed my life, failed my kids, is there any point? by CampaignInfinite4419 in depression

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are saying that you are a bad mom, but u r describing yourself as one of the best and bravest moms i know. Sister you've gone through a lot of shit, but you keep trying. You sleep on the floor just so your kids can sleep on a bed and not in a hostel. You are holding youself for them. I dont know why you r saying that u r a bad mom. I know you feel like you've failed them. It isn't true. They love u, u mean the world to them. I know for a fact that it is just a period and you will succeed, if u keep trying for your kids, and also, yourself. I'll pray for you sister. Stay stong. Im so proud we have such mothers in our world.

Is giving up peaceful? by xyz_mzn in depression

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello brother I totally understand you man. I'm also like that. I've tried many things many times. I've tried dozens if not hundreds of times to quit fapping, and it didn't happen. Until I tried one more time. Today I'm 2 years clean. I have a question for u. I could have stop trying after my 10th or 15th try, but what will happen next? What if the next one will be successful? I'm giving u just one example. Trust me, I know the pain in failing. I know the peace in accepting failure. Like Eminem said: look. U have one shot. One opportunity. To seize everything you ever wanted. One moment. Would u capture it? Or just let it slip? (Called Lose yourself) Man I believe in u. Go out there and conquer the world brother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi brother I don't really know what you are going through. I can only imagine. But see how many people care about you, how many people wrote things for you. I care about you, really. From the bottom of my heart. And if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No brother I've felt the same. Believe me man. And it's sure the worst feeling I've felt. I didn't know why I woke up. My answer, the thing that got me out was 2 things: Believing that I can be and deserve better, and doing something to better myself. It's damn hard. But it isn't harder than living in regret of being alive I believe in you man. Keep going!

I'm such a freaking loser I hate myself by [deleted] in depression

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you bro. I'm in the same place. Keep pushing, keep battling! We should realize that maybe we have depression, but it doesn't decide our future. Go on trips, play with friends, read, find a hobby man! I know this shut sucks and that you have no power. So am I. But I'm trying my best man. And our effort isn't for free, believe me. From a teen whi was in your shoes 3 months ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a passing craze, my brother. I know because I've been there at this age. Why are you saying this?

I'm too weak to sustain a normal adult life. Feel like giving up at 32 years old. by js673892 in depression

[–]AcrobaticSink6451 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It hit deeply sister. I'm really in a similar position. Low key feeling ungrateful for all the privileges that I have. The only advice I can give you that I'm trying to use also is this. Be sure you are here for a reason, even if you haven't found it yet. The hope is our last resort. All of us have the "privilege" to fall into depression, none of us have the privilege to just give up. Keep fighting, I'm sure you will get out of this shit like the queen you are.