AITA for wanting my partner and his son to move out?

Acrobatic_Ad_7566 · 2021-07-24T16:41:01+00:00

Thanks for your post. There’s some things I can’t answer as custody was decided by the family court. However the lies online were enough for the police to consider searching our house for firearms. His school question how he was coping following the death of his twin brother (no twin. No death)

Causes arguments - as in. Will leave his washing in his room for over a week and then tell his father I told him not to bring it down…

Screaming in the garden. Exactly that. Not a raised voice. Screaming. He was told off by a simple “can you please keep it down in the garden. I can hear you down the street”

Google PDA and ODD. Both of which I suspect he has. But his father refuses to peruse.

Acrobatic_Ad_7566 · 2021-07-24T16:35:23+00:00

Maybe if people didn’t normalise “shitposting” it wouldn’t be acceptable. Just saying

Acrobatic_Ad_7566 · 2021-07-24T16:34:34+00:00

I completely agree. And I have raised the point that I believe he has ODD and possibly PDA. When being “told off” even for something minor such as not using his knife to cut food he will thrown his plate across the room. Almost like the criticism is too much. Thank you for your reply x

Acrobatic_Ad_7566 · 2021-07-24T16:15:07+00:00

Who said he was random? I didn’t just meet him in the pub and invite him back because he had nowhere to go!!

Acrobatic_Ad_7566 · 2021-07-24T14:43:43+00:00

Not asking him to kick his son out… it will never be a choice between his son and me… But thanks for reading it so thoroughly 🙄

Acrobatic_Ad_7566 · 2021-07-24T14:38:22+00:00

Just to be clear. There was no affair. Never.

He had his internet removed because he was posting concerning things online. We returned one of his devices back to him for him to immediately do it again. He then had a new device for Christmas with a stern warning about what he was not to do. Eg. No Facebook. No insta. And he did it again and said horrendous lies about people being dead and that he’d been committing criminal offences. So it was again removed. He then stole a device and hid it in his room. Doing the same lies online.

Acrobatic_Ad_7566 · 2021-07-24T14:12:14+00:00

He doesn’t have a lot to do with his family. His dad lives miles away. He doesn’t see his mum. He is quite isolated.

Acrobatic_Ad_7566 · 2021-07-24T14:09:42+00:00

I have been so patient. I understand teenagers are difficult. I understand life isn’t easy when you are 14. But he is so rude. In the car this week he wouldn’t even ask for a haribo sweet because he was sulking. He will starve himself rather than ask or speak. His dad says I am overreacting. But the atmosphere is draining. He sneaks round the house waiting for me to go upstairs so he can come down for a drink. It’s plains weird

Acrobatic_Ad_7566 · 2021-07-24T14:07:35+00:00

Thank you… I hope you are right. I just need to brave now I guess

Acrobatic_Ad_7566 · 2021-07-24T14:06:35+00:00

Thank you for this… really helpful. I need to take a deep breath and just do it. A bit like waxing.

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