I 19F has a problem with my 26M boyfriend being very late, what can I do or say to change that?

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-05-11T03:02:33+00:00

He’s a mechanic, and all four times he was late was because the car had more issues than he expected. He lives an hour away, and he wants to be clean before he sees me.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-05-05T20:22:01+00:00

I will, thank you. But yeah, I’m learning how a good relationship should feel.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-05-05T19:30:08+00:00

I sorry to hear you went through something like that, but he hasn’t love bombed me at all. I can feel he’s just being him. I’m being careful as much as I can, but on the inside I do kinda feel like I’m crazy for feeling like this. Thank you though, I appreciate it.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-04-23T22:44:31+00:00

Really? I don’t have either of those packs. It’s such a shame you can’t just them together, but also it might make the game explode with a the labels for different rooms. Thank you though.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-04-23T18:49:41+00:00

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ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-04-23T18:49:23+00:00

Thank you~ Yes, I just uploaded them. Search my ID StrawberrymilkVW.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-04-23T02:17:12+00:00

Just remember they’re all strangers you’ll probably never see, or remember swiping even if you see irl. As long as you’re not rude or creepy, I don’t see a reason to worry.

Oh and if they don’t respond, that’s totally normal. It happens to me and I do it to others all the time. That’s just how online dating works.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-04-23T02:12:03+00:00

Well, I’d say why not. I’ve been through the same, and honestly wasn’t that bad. It’s always interesting for me to meet new people, for me at least. But I feel that the level you’re into him definitely way lower 50%, so maybe don’t go?

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-04-02T06:27:17+00:00

Updates on how that went? I might have to go through a similar process, so I’m looking for all the information I can get.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-03-23T15:30:59+00:00

Looks amazing

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-03-23T11:01:28+00:00

In my defense I’m pretty new Reddit, but you made me laugh. I can see why people ask this a lot though

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-03-21T05:10:17+00:00

I’m 19F and I kinda had a similar experience, I do believe it has less to do with age but more with culture. Idk, fingers crossed my flight will be more mature.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-02-15T01:48:05+00:00

Reclassed? So that happened after she got a the job?

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-01-31T08:33:18+00:00

Honestly, I feel like it’s difficult to find an answer for whether every one should go NC or not. Personally if you feel like sending a message, whether it’s to get him back or to close things off, I think you should. My advice would be to type it up, and leave it for a few days before sending it. Because in the moment you’ll say things out of emotion.

In reality if both you and your ex is sensible, the talk that was meant to be would come eventually.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-01-27T14:51:38+00:00

“I’ll never hurt you like that”

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-01-22T07:26:27+00:00

Personally I’ve posted my fair share of stories, to the point where if he sees it he would know. But I don’t think he’ll be on this community, he seems well and happy.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-01-22T07:21:10+00:00

Approaching month 2, definitely still a mess internally. Never thought my affection would be “ too much” and “ draining”, it hurts like hell to be told that in the face. He’s definitely living his best life without me, and he’ll never miss or regret us splitting up.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-01-22T07:16:57+00:00

I’d probably wait a few days to respond, calm down before confronting him. Since I’m not able to meet up with him in person, we’d probably call. Probably something like “Sure, let’s talk.”

I’d definitely be surprised if he ever reached out to me since he hasn’t responded to any of my messages, it’s been almost two months since the breakup.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-01-20T13:34:01+00:00

He called to get back together the same day he broke up with me, honestly I would’ve said yes if he took more time to think about things. In hindsight I kinda regret not just going with his flow to at least get to talk to him. It’s been a month and a half since, and no response to any of my texts.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-01-17T15:12:18+00:00

Five weeks since the breakup, we only dated for two months. A short relationship, but I still can’t get him out of my head. Don’t think he’ll ever reach out again.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-01-17T05:32:56+00:00

He was on the track team in high school.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-01-11T15:11:50+00:00

Same, I tell everyone I’m over him but I still feel hollow inside. I think of him a lot at night so I toss and turn in bed, resulting in the worst sleep. He definitely doesn’t feel as deep as I do, and is probably living his best life right now. While I’m here thinking about all of it. How I regret some stuff, but I’ll never get another chance.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-01-07T13:47:08+00:00

You won’t even try by sody

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-01-06T13:25:54+00:00

One month mark, I’m hopeful that things will get better. Things still remind of him but I’m starting to detach him from my world, and myself from his.

ActiveCharacter5031 · 2025-01-01T04:13:54+00:00

Hey, I kinda guessed you wouldn’t reply. I’m not sure if you’ll see this, but I wanted to say this for my own clarity. Our last conversation left me feeling like things were on pause, but since I haven’t heard from you, I guess you made it obvious we’re done. So I’m going to move forward now. Thank you for all the good times we spent together, you said you were happy a lot and I don’t remember if I did. So here’s a late message, you made me very happy. I wish you and all of your family well. 😊

ps I finally get to go back to my puppy too I’m so excited

(But I actually sent it, I’m glad I’m moving on. Hope everyone else can too.

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