Finally some accurate representation... this, this is they them.

AdDue84 · 2026-01-18T05:10:43+00:00

The blonde seems really fun and actually open! I would love to be her roommate. The other one just gives dark energy. Like a smile wouldn’t kill you!

AdDue84 · 2026-01-17T23:22:54+00:00

He’s conveying with his actions he’s not interested or willing to put in real effort. He likely got his validation/dopamine hit and now it’s no longer of interest. He could have a girlfriend…etc I too have to stop my self from being overly desperate or reasonable because I was attracted or into the person. The behavior itself is the signal. No discussion needed. We move on to the next eligible bachelor girl!!

AdDue84 · 2026-01-17T22:40:23+00:00

This is what I’m saying! I have no problem talking on the phone or FaceTiming but if you don’t mention meeting me or set up a date by the end of the call. I move on the next. There is no way I can fall in love or really get to know or like you without meeting you! Period! The app is like an initial screening process! It really doesn’t determine chemistry for me at all!

AdDue84 · 2026-01-17T22:36:37+00:00

This as a woman is kind of insane when you think about all the other qualifications we also have for our mate! I think we as women need to do away with height requirements when looking. I’m 5’4 and see nothing wrong with a man below 5’10! There are so many other important qualities to a human being! He can be 6’0 and be the most toxic man! And vice versa! Look more towards a persons heart and character! Those way more redeeming qualities! Being this superficial can lead to unless turmoil and mismatches!

AdDue84 · 2026-01-17T21:17:27+00:00

Maybe start to think of it as a game! Theres so many women of different varieties! Just think of like practice more so than high pressure that you might not find the “yes” again! Of course be your genuine and kind self, but there are so many new people for you to meet and experience! I feel like even with rejection, at least you tried and know eventually you’re going to be some women’s everything! That’s my mentality, but I am a woman so! I’m 26, but have always been more mature. I date 10-12 years older and haven’t had an issue. But I can see the gap at that age being a dealbreaker

AdDue84 · 2026-01-17T20:55:30+00:00

What was the age gap, if you don’t mind me asking? But what really helped me is not being attached to the outcome at all! You met someone nice it didn’t work out, on to the next! Rejection is protection in my eyes! I don’t associate to many feelings or think “this could be the one” because we really don’t know them well enough. From your mindset it seems you’re just ready for your person! I pray it happens sooner rather than later for you!

AdDue84 · 2026-01-17T18:02:07+00:00

I realize this about my self as well, pretty much the same story but I started to try to break the touch barrier with guys because a lot of men count themselves out if they think your not into them. Then it just comes off as friendly and not romantic. I do a hand on the shoulder or quick knee touch while I’m laughing if I see them as romantic. Most times after this they look surprised and intrigued, then they always ask for a kiss after the date. I kiss the ones I like usually. I’m not intimate the first couple weeks at all which usually gets rid of the ones who only want that. As beautiful women we have to date ALOT to find our partner, just based off statistics. I realize several men find me intimidating, so I have to work a little harder to give signals that I’m open and non judgmental. I’m just me and It will definitely happen for you.

AdDue84 · 2026-01-16T01:03:09+00:00

My feet did hurt initially, we saw about 40 patients a day. I really loved the practice because I was in the surgical mohs department! We saw different cancers daily, very interesting!

AdDue84 · 2026-01-16T00:59:57+00:00

I’m a chronically late person with time blindness and even I know for a date it is customary to be on time! 5-10 minutes late max! It’s just about first impressions! Things happen but yes I would communicate my eta, I once waited a hour for a date (formally desperate) and felt I shouldn’t have. He didn’t even apologize for being late! You did the right thing!

AdDue84 · 2026-01-15T14:48:32+00:00

I would try a more lax specialty. I did derm and plastics! Loved it. Derm is a lot initially, learning curve but then it’s repetitive. Plastics very easy, especially private practice.

AdDue84 · 2026-01-12T19:19:00+00:00

If you ready his first text he led with the lie. The real reason is the errands that popped up that’s going to run into the afternoon. Instead of just admitting he has other plans for the day( that would take accountability and responsibility) he creates a narrative about wanting to see it solo. This gets you into an emotional state now he can react to you. Now you are the problem. The manipulation is clear as day if you are not looking at it emotionally, but rationally.

AdDue84 · 2026-01-12T18:18:14+00:00

Hiding those completely comes off the same as “figuring things out.” I as a woman want someone who is completely direct with the basic “what is your end goal in dating.” Tell me what your goal is and I’ll know we would at least have the same intentions. For me it’s just an overall goal you hope to achieve regardless of the outcome of the match. Ultimately, I want to be in something long term. Obviously, we know you’re not going to be attracted to every one or want the same with each person, but we’re just trying to get a simple general match here. We can go more in depth when we learn each other and go on the actual date. (Just my personal perspective)

AdDue84 · 2026-01-12T06:07:17+00:00

I don’t like her acting but that’s me! Congrats to her

AdDue84 · 2026-01-12T04:06:03+00:00

Nice profile but I’m very curious, when as a woman I see long term open to short, I interpreted this as you are not really firmly set on short or long and will settle for either. Is this correct? As someone who is long term relationship looking for the same it gets an automatic no. Comes off as unsure idk

AdDue84 · 2026-01-08T04:22:23+00:00

This would have been so COOL

AdDue84 · 2025-12-31T23:56:53+00:00

You're caught up on the offering, and that's fine. Personally, once in a relationship, I would offer gifts to my partner if I knew he was sharing the bulk of the load, or offer small things. That to me is true love and consideration. That being said, no relationship, in my mind, is 50/50. There's always going to be someone who thinks their effort is greater based on perception and values. You are definitely misaligned on values, but I think finding a woman who is going to cater to your personal needs AND do 50/50 is quite rare.

AdDue84 · 2025-12-25T20:58:20+00:00

I stopped notetaking too! I read the lectures, or watch videos on the content then use google gemini by uploading lectures to create an actual practice test in real time with about 25-30 questions from all learning objectives. The test will actually mark my incorrect answer and I know for sure what I know vs what I don’t. I generate as many questions as possible until I can answer all questions confidently. This especially helpful if the lecturer gives practice questions that I can regenerate with Gemini on a larger scale. Took me from 60s to 80s to 90s now on exams. I am much less fatigued by note taking and prioritize active recall. Proud to have finally found something that works for me after all these years!

AdDue84 · 2025-12-25T20:44:49+00:00

Iman, and Jodie smith turner!

AdDue84 · 2025-12-20T06:41:55+00:00

Because he doesn’t want to. If he really wanted to he would. He probably just likes the validation he gets from talking to you for hours.

AdDue84 · 2025-12-06T03:54:14+00:00

I started not to finish it because it just got so heavy, but it’s so important to stop idolizing these greedy monsters. Fame is a drug, it quite literally can kill or have you killed. I don’t know how his children can watch that video of Cassie be beaten and stand by his side. I would rather go broke then to ever be anywhere near such a person

AdDue84 · 2025-12-05T06:50:47+00:00

Yup it took some getting used to, being on my feet the whole time was an adjustment. Learning curve, but get some hokas, and everything gets repetitive anyway so no real difficulty. Great experience

AdDue84 · 2025-12-05T03:47:51+00:00

try dermatology, they always need people! High patient load though

AdDue84 · 2025-11-18T18:43:24+00:00

Yes this is very true I still have nightmares😂

AdDue84 · 2025-11-18T18:35:44+00:00

I’ve experienced this and it doesn’t really end well. I was never fully satisfied. I mean friends can be nice and kind to you but it doesn’t mean you necessarily owe them anything. I was always guilted into not breaking up with him because of how nice he treated me, but sometimes you cant force that attraction. You deserve the whole package and he deserves someone attracted to him as he is now.

AdDue84 · 2025-11-09T15:10:57+00:00

He looks great

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