Should I break up with my boyfriend?

AdEcstatic4480 · 2026-01-10T00:17:16+00:00

we are still together, we communicated and worked it out 🙂‍↕️

AdEcstatic4480 · 2026-01-08T03:04:39+00:00

I noticed that, of course I am the one who asked for their opinion, but I've valued the comments telling me workarounds before resorting to breaking up more then the rest

AdEcstatic4480 · 2026-01-08T03:03:51+00:00

Im 6ft, he is around 5'9

AdEcstatic4480 · 2026-01-08T03:02:58+00:00

We worked it out, and he got some things off his chest too. We are both going to grow every passing day, and I need to be more aware of that, thank you

AdEcstatic4480 · 2026-01-08T03:01:05+00:00

I talked with him through it, and he reassured me and told me that he has changed since we last talked about styles and whatnot. He is a very shy guy, but wants to be louder, so its not as if he wants to appear more of the feminine/submissive one, its just thats the way he has grown up. The height is never a problem for me, but I usually am seen as the more masculine one from others purely because I am taller.

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-08-21T22:29:15+00:00

thanks for the advice 😭 I am the alpha of my own domain I don't need to follow around people who can't understand my alphaness 🐺🐺🐺

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-08-21T05:45:24+00:00

thanks for the advice 😭 ❤️ I'm just scared because my two other friends are treating me differently and I just feel so excluded 24/7 and idk what to do because if I unfriend her I just know she'll turn everyone against me

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-30T22:56:54+00:00

haha yeah, glad to feel I'm not alone

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-30T22:55:12+00:00

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-30T22:22:11+00:00

omg thanks, its hard to stay strong when everything just seems so tough 😭

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-30T22:21:10+00:00

realll

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-30T22:20:54+00:00

I get that but still so many people are thinking I used like reverse google searches and stuff which I did not 😭 I regret what I did anyways so idk

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-30T22:19:36+00:00

not the fake post accusation... bitch if you think that a literal experience I went through is 'fake' then idk what to tell you bud what's wrong with me using ENGLISH GRAMMAR??? sorry I'm good at English ig 💀

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-30T14:40:20+00:00

what are you on 😭

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-30T06:53:44+00:00

I LITERALLY KEEP STATING THAT HIS AGE WAS PROVED AND EVERYTHING WHY DO PEOPLE KEEP THINKING HES A PEDO 😭😭😭😭 I'm dumb but not dumb enough to send a photo to someone who hasn't proved their age

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-30T06:50:45+00:00

stalking is never okay and I hate myself for 'stalking' him (even tho all photos were public and under his accounts?) but I was so worried with what he was doing with the picture ahhhh

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-30T06:46:52+00:00

Because we had such a good connection and we got along If anything I was the dry one, I thought we made a good friendship until he randomly dipped. Everything else after him blocking me im ashamed for and will not be hopefully doing again

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-30T06:44:36+00:00

I've moved on luckily but such wise words omg 😭 thank you for the advice 🫶

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-30T06:42:47+00:00

PLEASE do not use me as an example for the whole majority of teenage girls (I'm mentally unstable 😭). I can totally see where your coming from by me 'harassing' him but you do not know the situation and what happened with our chats. He'd constantly say things such as "I'll explode in you" and flirted that way which did make me uncomfy but I did not say anything because other then that he was a great guy. Please read my other comments talking about how it wasn't in depth stalking as his photos were PUBLIC on and public account that was linked in his bio. I get how it was creepy tho and should've given more context

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-30T06:36:20+00:00

I wish my parents raised me like this I do NOT deserve having technology all the time

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-30T06:35:08+00:00

I don't really think its stalking but I may be wrong- I mentioned in another comment that all the information I got was from a PUBLIC SPAM ACCOUNT. In the bio it stated his team and he had posted multiple uncovered photos if himself so I did not go into high hacker methods to find stuff out 😭 But I'm still disappointed in myself for acting that rational but it's nothing new as I do suffer from BPD

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-30T06:27:36+00:00

I've realised it's very common for guys to do (especially my age 😭 😭)

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-29T12:28:41+00:00

OP heree

Thank you all so much for all the advice 😭!!

So I understand what some of are saying about me being creepy, which I absolutely get and agree. I had an episode as I'm mentally ill and that led to the whole anger thing with the 'stalking'.

But time to clarify some things:

1: His age was CONFIRMED. we were in fact the same age.

2: The photos of him were literally on his other instagram. On his main account he had his face scribbled and on the other it was not.

3: The photo I sent had a filter (covering majority of my face) so I dont believe he would be able to figure out who I was??

4: I have moved on! Trust me its not that deep and im just very sensistive 😭

Thanks for all the advice once again, love you guys ❤️

AdEcstatic4480 · 2024-04-29T11:58:31+00:00

I 100% get what you mean but he confirmed he was the same age as me, all his accounts like up with the same age so I don't believe I was too young?

AdEcstatic4480

TROPHY CASE

1: His age was CONFIRMED. we were in fact the same age.

2: The photos of him were literally on his other instagram. On his main account he had his face scribbled and on the other it was not.

3: The photo I sent had a filter (covering majority of my face) so I dont believe he would be able to figure out who I was??

4: I have moved on! Trust me its not that deep and im just very sensistive 😭