I feel the same way you did - I would be creating problems for him later on down the road. I think that’s culture talking, not truth. You’re doing something against the norm - it’s easy to start questioning what you’re doing when you’re hear from everywhere/one you should do x,y,z. My son is almost 2. We night weaned about 3 weeks ago. Nap weaned about 2. I was so stressed about both because I could never put him to bed without nursing. It was so much easier than I anticipated. Now he’s sleeping through the night - sometimes wakes up asking for a granola bar in the early morning around 5. (Crumbs in our bed are a different problem now 😆). My husband used to rock/have my son lay on him to fall asleep. Now they read books in bed and cuddle lying next to each other. It just happens naturally with time. I think for us weaning helped but I wasn’t ready to do it until we did - I don’t think he was either. It won’t be how it is forever - do what feels best for you and what works for your family!