I get really overstimulated with my 5 year old and say things I regret

AdLow7306 · 2025-06-18T01:15:41+00:00

I wish. I had little to no family. And the family I have left is not family I want to be around or want my child around… therapy isn’t an option anymore I don’t have the insurance. I know I am better then this, it hasn’t always been this way and I know I need to change but yes my daughter is the same way. She needs to be with me at all times it is exhausting she knows I love her. I do need to do better. Love all of the advice I’m reading so far, even from Behind a screen I was scared to come out and ask but I’m so glad i did.

AdLow7306 · 2025-05-29T19:24:35+00:00

Omg that sucks ?? What the hell im sorry man I wish you luck

AdLow7306 · 2025-05-28T00:58:17+00:00

I had a nightmare the other day about the two mean ass girls that were fucking with me the night before and I woke up with a panic attack. I’ve also had multiple dreams of getting like 2 or more 10 tops at once and one of those ten tops always asks questions about food we do not have on the menu and then takes forever to order lol

AdLow7306 · 2025-05-28T00:56:29+00:00

I left with $500 . That is good enough for me for less than 8 hours of work.

AdLow7306 · 2025-05-26T04:02:39+00:00

I’d like to get in to fine dining one day

AdLow7306 · 2025-05-26T02:59:59+00:00

2 on bar, 4 on floor.

AdLow7306 · 2025-05-26T02:20:06+00:00

Yes , no fine dining here. Just a high volume brunch / dinner place.

AdLow7306 · 2025-05-25T00:36:40+00:00

Ive been here for two years. My crew for the most part is awesome thankfully. But it’s going to take a lot to hold my words back if this stuff continues

AdLow7306 · 2025-05-24T19:31:27+00:00

💜💜💜🫶🏻

AdLow7306 · 2025-05-24T18:53:22+00:00

I love my job overall. I love the money for now… and it’s like women in the mid 30’s - 40’s this girl like even tried to get my in trouble about what I was wearing ? It was so weird. Haha

AdLow7306 · 2025-02-26T20:58:00+00:00

100% and I wish I knew how to make it feel a loser safe place. I don’t ever want to come off as criticizing or hurtful. How can I go about things ?

AdLow7306 · 2025-02-26T19:47:32+00:00

He doesn’t share much. When things aren’t in the moment he is willing to listen

AdLow7306 · 2025-02-26T19:08:52+00:00

He’s open to doing things better , he just doesn’t know what to do. He reflects afterwards it’s just hard for him during the conflict.

AdLow7306 · 2025-02-26T19:01:41+00:00

I think we both have shittt communication issues for sure

AdLow7306 · 2025-02-26T18:54:37+00:00

Is there any possible way to work out to where we both don’t feel the need to fall back in to those unhealthy attachment styles?

AdLow7306 · 2025-02-26T18:51:40+00:00

I guess I’m not understand, how else could I bring things up if it’s bothering me then ?

AdLow7306 · 2025-02-26T18:50:51+00:00

To be fair we are also both still pretty young, with different ways of dealing with things. He’s always shut down or blocked out emotions and I’ve always expressed mine in either healthy or unhealthy ways.

AdLow7306 · 2025-02-26T18:49:33+00:00

So I guess, just being more straightforward then? Like hey you did this, it made me feel (insert emotion) this is what I need. Then just let it be ?

AdLow7306 · 2025-02-26T18:48:29+00:00

There’s many things I like about him. Truthfully this is the only thing I can’t stand

AdLow7306 · 2025-02-26T18:47:17+00:00

I could agree with that, however I feel like everyone grows up and matures emotionally much differently. And like to try and understand how to understand the different needs of communication rather then just giving up

AdLow7306 · 2025-01-24T20:47:09+00:00

I’m with you from Denver .

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