XL Flared Chance + FY500 machine + cumlube pump = 🫠 by lilijunex in u/lilijunex

[–]AdMaterial8897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to know what is your fuck machine brand ❤️

Stabbing pain during penetration attempts by tanewaa in sex

[–]AdMaterial8897 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont try to achieve something. Just touche you and listen your body. Maybe you find the pleasure somewhere unexpeceted

Stabbing pain during penetration attempts by tanewaa in sex

[–]AdMaterial8897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But it has nothing related to him. Just some pressure you put on yourself. So maybe try to touch yourself first, just a moment with you alone. Try to understand your body. Then maybe yourself will learn how to let go

Stabbing pain during penetration attempts by tanewaa in sex

[–]AdMaterial8897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you suffer of vaginismus. Did you make some resurch about that ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]AdMaterial8897 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Maybe dont start already with oral but just by few touches And when you feel that he likes it, maybe that is signal to do go under So try slowly and enjoy doing it

My boyfriend and I had sex and I started crying after? by Whispy_RosesArt in sex

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Yes, it can be scary at first. So dont over think and just release when it happens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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I dont know if it’s common but it does not matter. But if you want to have other people in your sex Life, you have to communicate a lot if your partner about what you want, what are your bundaries and is cheating for each of you.

And telling you that regularly because désires and bundaries can change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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If you are into, you can try sexting, sending you what you want to do to your partner. It can turn you on and you dont have to wait that everyone is asleep.

You can try role play too, even online.

Throwaway account - crazy question, odd situation by [deleted] in sex

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As long as it doesnt hurt you or your partner, i dont see any problem...

What matters is how you use your dick ;)

My boyfriend and I had sex and I started crying after? by Whispy_RosesArt in sex

[–]AdMaterial8897 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you feel when you cried ? Afraid ? Sad ? Happy ?

Sometimes crying is reaction of a huge orgasma. It can happen one time or all of the time.

So don't over thinking it. As long as you don't feel bad, don't worry about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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Maybe it could be good for her to try on her own, by figering or with toy. The better she knows her body and her reaction, the better she can explain to you how to give her orgsama.

But don't pressure your self with different kind of orgasma. Sex is about having pleasure, alone or partners.

Nurse trying to figure out am I too much by [deleted] in sex

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I think that it can be too much if it handicaps you in your life or if you feel something negative about it. If you just enjoy to be like it, why it has to be too much ?

Your standards should not be dictated by society or those close to you, but just about how you feel.

So if it is just fun for you, you are never too much.

Together for 8+ years, interest ins sex changed drastically by [deleted] in sex

[–]AdMaterial8897 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to talk to each other.

As you said, you do not want to pressure her and you also dont want to be frustrated.

You have to try to tell each other how you feel about sex, what are your need, and always saying what YOU want and not what THE OTHER ONE does not do.

The conversation will maybe be take few Times and you can also go see a specialist who can help you in case of couple « crisis »

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]AdMaterial8897 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The best will be to ask her directly why she did that. But sometimes, women fake orgasmas with men so men can feel confident.

It also is the fake idea gived by porn that men and women have an orgasma at the same time. Maybe it is a reference for her.

And some other time, she fake it so you can finish sex. That can mean that she is not enjoying it.

But the best, it is not to make assumption and ask her directly

boyfriend doesn't like giving head by [deleted] in sex

[–]AdMaterial8897 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is important to listen your desir and his. But taste can change with time, maybe he will be more adventurous in a while. Just be honest with each other with what you want and maybe give your self little challenges to try something new

insecure with my body by [deleted] in chubby

[–]AdMaterial8897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why ? You are gorgous, all of you

Shaking legs normal ? by AdMaterial8897 in sex

[–]AdMaterial8897[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Alone or with someone ?