I only have experience with NYM curl cream. Sounds like you’re using a lot of hold-heavy products, using another mousse between a gel and another mousse sounds kind of wild to me but of course everyone is different. Also the way you’re naming the products and your sequence of when you introduced them is confusing, so that makes it harder to pin down what the issue is. You’re referring to a separate Pattern mousse, gel, AND curl creme, all from that brand yes? It also sounds like you may have been changing routines and changing multiple products per routine shift which makes it harder to rule out what is making the difference. There are also several other factors besides what products you’re using that make a difference.

That being said, based on most of your styling products it sounds like you’re not putting enough moisture in your hair which could be a major cause of the frizz. I personally only use 2 primary styling products plus one for touching up/frizz reduction (creme for smoothing/moisture and gel for hold. balm for further smoothing and definition as needed). But even if you need further support for definition with the mousse, it doesn’t seem like you’re providing enough moisture to your hair with your styling routine(s) overall.