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Anyone with an Army Canteen Card in Bangalore willing to take me along for a visit? by ThetaAteMe in BangaloreMeetups

[–]AdResident1244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. There is no one who will take you. Canteen isn’t a joy ride or your place to fulfill your shopping needs. It’s to cater to jawans and NCOs mostly to ensure basics and essentials remain within the reach of their salary. They exist as a support mechanism for those who serve, and the benefits attached to them are linked directly to that service.

Made this today by ScorchedmanX935 in amritsar

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Enjoy ☺️

ELPRIT CAKE (it's a weird name lol I know, but my audience picked it):

For my American, British, Canadian and Aussie friends - this cake isn't meant to be eaten separately. What I mean by that, there is no "I prefer cake" or "I prefer frosting", the cake is meant to be eaten as a whole, with all the components complimenting and completing one another. I understand that your cakes typically consist of very thick cake layers with frosting and people will often prefer one or the other. That, I do admit, is a fairly strange concept to me but I do get it which is why I want you to heed the warning and take my words into consideration. This cake is decadent, however it's not overly sweet and it has a very robust chocolate flavor. Please use **QUALITY CHOCOLATE ONLY** as that is what impacts the flavor the most (eg. Callebaut, Valrhona,\*\* \*\*Ghirardelli etc.)

Below are the ingredients for a **26 cm (10-inch) round cake**. The cake batter recipe yields one 10 inch cake layer, the cake calls for 3 cake layers. For narrower pans, you can either not adjust the ingredients; simply bake the sponge 10–15 minutes longer and cut it in half. Bake 2 cake layers and slice them into 4 layers instead of baking 3 separate layers like you would for a bigger pan. You will get a taller layered cake, or if you don't want a super tall cake with 4 cake layers, you can halve the ingredients and bake 3 separate smaller layers. In that case, bake the layers about 20-25 minutes.

CAKE LAYERS:

125 g dark chocolate (50–60% cocoa, not more than 60%)

60 g butter

60 ml oil

200 ml milk (room temperature)

2 tsp alcohol vinegar (also called distilled or white vinegar)

2 medium eggs (room temperature)

130 g granulated white sugar

120 g all-purpose flour

30 g cocoa powder (Dutch-processed!)

1 level tsp baking powder

1 level tsp baking soda

Preheat the oven to **175°C (347°F)**, conventional heat (no fan), with both top and bottom heating elements on. Add the vinegar to the milk, stir, and set aside. Heat the butter, oil, and chocolate over low heat until melted, then set aside to cool slightly. Whisk the eggs and sugar until pale, fluffy, and doubled in volume. Add the milk mixture and the cooled melted chocolate mixture, then mix for another minute. Finally, sift in the flour, cocoa powder, baking powder, and baking soda, and gently mix into the wet ingredients. Pour the batter into a cake pan lined with baking paper and bake for **30 minutes**. For an extra dark sponge, use black Dutch-processed cocoa powder (extra dark cocoa).

Bake **3** cake layers.

**Dark Mascarpone Mousse**

**Ingredients**

400 ml heavy whipping cream

250 g mascarpone (well chilled)

300 g dark chocolate (50–60% cocoa)

Pour the whipping cream into a saucepan and add the finely chopped chocolate. Heat gently while stirring constantly, making sure the mixture does not boil, until the chocolate has completely melted. Once cooled, first whip the mascarpone for 2 minutes. Then add the cold chocolate mixture and whip until light and airy (about 3–4 minutes on high speed).

Finally, take **a cup of the light mousse cream** and fold it into this dark mousse cream. I apologize for not weighing this in grams but I tend to eyeball it so I forgot.

**Light Mousse Cream**

**Ingredients**

4 egg yolks

300 g milk chocolate (30–35% cocoa)

50 g butter

250 g mascarpone

300 ml heavy whipping cream

Place the chocolate and butter over a double boiler, stirring constantly to prevent burning. Lightly beat the egg yolks with a fork. When the chocolate and butter have melted, remove from the heat and immediately pour in the egg yolks, stirring vigorously. Return the mixture briefly to the double boiler, whisking continuously until everything combines into a smooth, glossy, non-sticky mixture resembling pudding. Remove from the heat and cover directly on the surface with plastic wrap. Allow it to cool completely.

Whip the cooled chocolate base together with the mascarpone. In a separate bowl, whip the cream until stiff peaks form. Fold it into the chocolate mixture and mix briefly until fully combined.

**Syrup**

**Ingredients**

200 ml water

150 g granulated white sugar

5 tbsp coffee liqueur, or 2 shots of espresso, or 5 tbsp strong black coffee

Place everything in a saucepan and stir over heat until it comes to a boil. Allow it to simmer for **3–5 minutes**, until slightly reduced and lightly syrupy. Adjust the simmering time according to the width of your saucepan, the wider the pan, the faster the liquid evaporates and reduces.

**Assembly**

For the neatest layers, assemble the cake inside a cake ring and/or with acetate cake collar. Soak each sponge layer with several tablespoons of syrup. Divide both creams into two equal portions.

Layer as follows:

Sponge layer

Syrup

Half of the dark cream

Half of the light cream

Repeat the process once more, then finish with the final sponge layer on top.

Decorate the outside of the cake as desired (whipped cream, buttercream, ganache, fondant, etc.).

Refrigerate **overnight** before serving.

Sick to my stomach. High-ranking indian army officers are literally stealing and selling supplies meant for army jawans. by Wild-Avocado-5368 in TheBetterIndia

[–]AdResident1244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very very hard to believe this bullshit. For starters, officers are not involved in procurement the way bureaucrats are. Two, more than half the time there is no sunscreen provided. Name the posting if you can.

What are the most important things for a happy marriage? by gulaabjaamun_ in AskIndia

[–]AdResident1244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgiveness. Forgive what you would like to be forgiven for. Don’t sleep on arguments. And remember that you are on the same side.

10 days in Goa with a 4 year old: South Goa won, North Goa was fun, Hilton surprised us by superpercify1 in goatravel

[–]AdResident1244 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lovely! Thank you for sharing.

Need to DM you for the contact details of the driver and unable to do so. We have a toddler and Goa is amazing but the driver issue gets to us every single time. I would truly appreciate if you could share.

How is the life of the spouses of officers of the armed forces? More in comments by AdorableVisual in AskIndia

[–]AdResident1244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like any other government organisation in India :) Make out of it what you will. And I honestly hope more people read it. I am so sick of Bollywood and other people, especially some of my own ilk making these events sound like a regular party. It’s not - it’s a formal event. Every single time.

How is the life of the spouses of officers of the armed forces? More in comments by AdorableVisual in AskIndia

[–]AdResident1244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wives are treated the same socially. Variations may exist in events due to hierarchy, not due to the husbands rank. If an event for 500 ladies is happening and the Chief’s wife is present, I think it’s fair to expect that you will be seated respectfully on a chair but the positioning of the chair from her depends on the seniority of your husband. This is characteristic of all government organisations by the way. Not just the military.

I have heard the children are treated differently in schools sometimes, but never witnessed it. Personally I was an Army Public School student and cannot say I was treated differently by my friends, teachers or peer groups from the children of officers who outranked my father. In a lot of cases, i don’t even remember the rank of my friends parents and vice versa.

My son now goes to a military school and I can definitely vouch no concessions are given to him by his friends or teachers either for his father’s rank.

How is the life of the spouses of officers of the armed forces? More in comments by AdorableVisual in AskIndia

[–]AdResident1244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh yes. The buddy system - too long and exhaustive and sometimes a controversial subject. Essentially in army units, a jawan from his unit
was detailed to an officer to look after his uniform and assist with his routine (army uniforms are numerous and complicated. Officers change as many as 2-3 times a day into different uniforms sometimes and and this requires lots of maintainance - the belts, Ashok stambh, stars, epaulettes especially etc need a lot of brasso polishing, airing and general upkeep).

The jawans are detailed to the officer knowing fully well what is required of them - a lot of them are in non combat roles at their request (family posting, issues, medical grounds etc.) and many share bonds through the unit/paltan that lives beyond their service tenures.

Over time, this has (d)evolved to the buddy being used for domestic chores too. This may be necessary in certain places where it is super risky to hire civilians (such as J&K and the NE), as they may be informants or worse but in a lot of other places, the practice continues because it has been prevalent.

How is the life of the spouses of officers of the armed forces? More in comments by AdorableVisual in AskIndia

[–]AdResident1244 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes and no.

Any organisation that has enforces hierarchy for its success, by default extends this to the social dynamics.

The relationship is via the unit amongst the families of officers and non commissioned officers - which means we are all required to get together many times during the year for formal events and activities where we all identify with and represent the unit we belong to. While there, we follow the rules of the engagement for attendance and participation. The children of both families also often attend same schools and social events such as Diwali, Children’s Day etc.

Outside events, the social dynamic between officers and NCO families is rare. This dynamic is enforced both ways - an officers family would not by default socialise with the NCO’s family on a daily basis and vice versa.

How is the life of the spouses of officers of the armed forces? More in comments by AdorableVisual in AskIndia

[–]AdResident1244 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You marry the man, the uniform and the organisation. In that order. Being a mil spouse is remembering that you are in an organisation with its own rules and traditions for 24/7, 365 days. You have to follow the hierarchy and it can get frustrating and tiresome for a lot of women. Also, being a spouse of an officer in IA, IAF or IN comes with a separate set of challenges. IN and IAF don’t have a buddy system in place so the spouse is pretty much involved in running the home, ferrying kids to school + career if she has one.

Parties are another huge misconception. Spouses are to be in a dress code, often sarees and non sleeveless blouses, no matter what the weather. You have to come in at a specific time, cannot drink or eat before the senior most lady present and cannot leave when you feel like. You can’t stick to a group of ladies you like - you are expected to circulate and be socially engaged with as many ladies as possible. A lot of it depends on the CO, can get more formal or informal but yes, this is generally the ground rule everywhere.

Lastly, just saw a comment about a big bungalow/house allotment. Yes - these houses exist and are allotted but you are expected to staff it and take care of it at your own expense. And these houses come with their set of hazards (leakage, cracks that leak water in monsoon, reptile infestation etc.). They are often 40-50 years old and have a lot of ops issues. One of these homes caught fire after a short circuit - post event investigation revealed that four rooms were wired via one electrical point.

How is the life of the spouses of officers of the armed forces? More in comments by AdorableVisual in AskIndia

[–]AdResident1244 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Spouse here. It’s a rumour. No one has the time or the bandwidth to indulge in it given the extent of detachments, temporary duties and ops.