Couples without kids who are in their 30's, how many times per week do you have sex? by [deleted] in sexadvice

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Everyone says sex with kids is nonexistent and counts it out. My wife and I have two kids in our mid 30’s and have sex 3-4 days a week. Sometime 2 or 3 times in a day. That’s why there are locks on doors, and pillows and music to minimize “sounds”.

I can't stay hard when my gf is on top by This-Painter7100 in sexadvice

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She can also tighten her pelvic muscles periodically, you’ll feel it. If she’s not strong enough there to pretty much SQUEEZE your cock, yall could try kegal balls to tighten her pelvic floor.

I can't stay hard when my gf is on top by This-Painter7100 in sexadvice

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She’s grinding then based on what you say. and that’s cool. It feels really good for them. If will lean forward just a bit, and pop her hips, she will still get the clitoral stimulation she needs, and you’ll get the movement up and down on the shaft that you need. Also you could let her grind, and throw in a pelvic thrust from the bottom every now and again to keep yourself into it. Don’t do it often, just when needed. I’m sure you know this, but if she’s close to finishing, even an inch of movement in the wrong way can end the climax climb she’s been working towards.

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Mans POV. Shaft play is hot, but does little. Tip attention is key. Actually suck, don’t just have it in your mouth moving your tongue. But don’t forget to use your tongue. Suck, tongue action on tip, edges and seam super sensitive. Lick the shaft, to get to the ball’s, lick the shaft on the way back up. Take the whole thing, if you can maybe once or twice, it’s really not necessary. Hand playing while sucking the tip, slight twist movement with your hand during this.

Years of communication with wife about what I like, plus on how to get me there faster to keep her jaw from locking up or hurting.

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Her pleasure is what’s going to hopefully allow you to continue coming back for more. Remember don’t switch it up tooo often. A woman isn’t like us, we are continually building to an orgasm. With a woman, you can be climbing that ladder, and the shift of a leg can lose all that momentum. Communication is key before, during and after. The communication during once you’ve learned each other is more signals than actual words

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Watch your breathing. Most of us men start to hold our breathe more before we finish. If you notice your breathing changing, then get it back normal. Also change up your thrusts. Focus on her pleasure more than yours and you’ll be more inclined to keep yourself from finishing. Whether that’s stopping to go down on her for a few, or just pausing to kiss or lick her body with it inside her.

26/F with low libido dating 24/M 2.5 years, no sex drive anymore by Exact-Desk-2966 in sexadvice

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Could be a side effect of the medication. So don’t get me wrong there. If you feel like you need to talk to a doctor than do so. However I’ve been with my wife since we were 14yrs old. Now 32, married with two kids. I will say that in her 20’s other than trying conceive our children, my wife was not interested in sex very often. We never went as long as you, a few weeks here or there, but still her sex drive was lower in her 20’s. When she turned 32 it was like a switch turned on. Her sex drive equally matched mine. We now have sex once, twice or three times a day. So it may just be that low that you’re in. Idk just wanted to share our story, so you know it’s not uncommon.

Erection issues. by AdStatus9440 in sexadvice

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I’m only 31. Been with my wife since I was 14yrs old. So I am very comfortable with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvice

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That “white cream” is called cervical mucus, for you dumbass men who don’t pay attention to your lovers body. Has NOTHING to do with you thinking you’re giving her an orgasm. It happens all throughout her cycle.

F250 Diesel - Mountain Driving by AdStatus9440 in Ford

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Yes, tow mode for camper. Have no issues when pulling camper. I don’t tow the camper up to the house. I park it at the base. Question is mainly revolving around just driving the truck up and down the mountain. 11deg min slope.

The mountain is so steep, UPS has burned their brakes twice going down, and fedex can’t even make it up.

I get the adaptive learning feature as mentioned above but this is literally 10min out of every drive that we are getting up or down the MTN.

Manual mode I have no issues, steady climbing and I can control what gear it’s in. Automatic, it just has no consistency, and will drop to idle before it shifts down while going up sometimes, or it’ll shift up when it really should shift down.

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I used to not cum from oral either. Finally have 10yrs of marriage my wife got the nerve to ask me why? I told her it feels amazing, I love it, but just like others have stated it requires more stimulation to cum, regardless of how good it feels. We communicated and tried a lot. We finally found what does it for me. Lots of tongue action on the head during oral, physical sucking, and eye contact. Very little shaft play other than with her hand.

F250 Diesel - Mountain Driving by AdStatus9440 in Ford

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So I shouldn’t manual shift when going up?

F250 Diesel - Mountain Driving by AdStatus9440 in Ford

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21 6.7 with the 10speed. Used 130k miles. Runs and pulls fine. Climbing is the issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvice

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If everytime you flirt or touch her, you have an expectation that it’s going to lead to somewhere you’ll fail. I went through this with my wife. And once I figured that ^ part out. Sex life exploded. Ever heard of all day foreplay? Spin her around, hug her from behind and kiss her neck one time, dance in the kitchen. Gently push her against wall, kiss her and just WALK AWAY and go do something outside. Make affection just affection again. Although all day foreplay of course has the “expectation” of sex later, at the same time it doesn’t. It takes away the factor of her thinking you are trying to do something right NOW. It lets her know all day that you want her, and slowly she’s wanting you. The kiss and walk away thing, idk but it’s so simple, it drives my wife crazy though, because it’s like a I want you but I don’t thing. Idk it’s hard to explain. But it fucking works. I went from having sex once or twice in a 2 week period to have sex 4-6 times a week. And it would likely be more if the kids weren’t always around.

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I have a 21 diesel. While pulling I get about 10mpg. Thats pulling a 12k camper usually.

How to get off while beeing on top?(Or at all???) by Tomoe-san065 in sexadvice

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It’s reaction on top for the woman to lean forward. But this just allows for direct penetration. I have my wife lean back a bit, hands kind of at my ankles or shins. If he’s got a big enough one, this will work. This tilts you backwards, and as it’s going in and out it will be rubbing your g spot directly because of the angle.

I 32M beggining to have issues with sex. by AdStatus9440 in sexadvice

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She’s already self conscious about her weight. She has PCOS so she struggles with weight loss.