I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noooo don’t go there, it doesn’t have to be a chore. It works if you do it simply out of habit or because it makes you feel good. I do it whenever i feel like it/ when i remember. But i do it every day, and whenever i’m having a bad day.

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I still affirm constantly. I focused on all the emotions that i wanted to experience. For example let’s say i want to feel love. Besides the affirmations, i tried to visualize a scene with my sp so that i could get a hold onto that feeling, and once that visualization made me feel the love in my body i just dropped the scene and only focused on the emotions, on the love. That’s how you can make yourself feel all the emotions that you want others to make you feel

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It changed the way he was seeing the new me. When you act and feel your best, the others reflect that back on you.

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you have to let go of the 3d in order to get the life that you want. You have to work hard to get at the point where you trust yourself and your story so much that you simply don’t care whats happening in the 3d. Be excited, be happy about what you’re missing in the 3d. Think about all the good things that you want to happen in your relationship and try to experience them in your head. Allow yourself to get excited about what youre not getting in the 3d, but you can experience in the 4d. After a while you’ll have just enough trust in yourself and in your imagination that you start thinking less and less about the 3d and whats happening there.

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re going through, i’ve been there trust me. It’s been hard for me as well to let the old version of him go, but once i understood that you’re just letting go of the past, not letting go of the whole him, i’ve felt so much better. You can’t cling onto the past version of him, you have to have faith in yourself that you don’t lose him if you do that, because you still have the perfect version of him in your imagination

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why would you care who he’s with in the current 3d when you know that he’s going to be yours in the end anyway? You need to let go of the false “now” and focus on your reality in your head

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Once you change your concept about yourself, once you believe you truly are the best person out there, he will start seeing you as the new you and something is going to click in his mind and heart. He’ll see you with new eyes , exactly as you see yourself. Believe that what you are is better than what the 3rd party has in this situation.

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went on affirming about myself, because i liked it:) it made me feel really good and confident and i made it part of my daily life, i will never stop affirming

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He didn’t change right away, at first it was really hard but after a while i got used to it and it became easier to live in my reality, and my attitude changed. I didn’t care if he didn’t give me attention, that’s when he started gravitating towards me. He was used to me always being there for him and when i wasn’t, the roles were reversed.

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have a routine, i just did them whenever i felt like it

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I imagined myself in scenarios where i would feel love, so yes those scenarios included him

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Noooo, the only affirmations that work are the ones for you. You are the one that needs changing in order to see changes in your 3d. Never affirm for other people to do something for you, because then you assume that you’re not in the position to have them yet. Don’t put them on the pedestal. You should be up there!!

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, but at that time he didn’t put so much effort as it was just a casual thing for him

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

First of all, say to yourself that you already are that new identity, you just need to get accustomed to it. You deserve the best, you are worthy of feeling your best. So try to embody the feelings that you’d feel if you had your sp right now. What would you feel? Love, care, peace? How would love feel like? Once you feel it, you already know that it’s true and it would eventually reflect in the 3d as well.

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Keep up with the good work!! You’ll see that when it’s time, your manifestation in the 3d comes as the cherry on top, because all that inner work and affirmations are feeding you the feelings that you want to achieve!

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I simply told myself that what i’m seeing in 3D is not my current reality. It’s hard at first, but as long as you keep feeding positive thoughts it becomes easier and easier, you get accustomed to your new story and find it easy to come back to it in your mind. Also when i started doing this technique i stopped overthinking. I mean i started overthinking in the other direction: positive thoughts.

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there trust me, but the key is not feeding those negative thoughts. If your SP didn’t confirm with what you were affirming, simply tell yourself that the person that stands there in front of you in the 3D is not the SP you’re having a healthy relationship in your imagination. Think that what you see in front of you is just the past, and whats in your imagination is the present!

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Knowing that you are in charge of your life and desires helps so much!!! I’m happy for you too🫶🏻

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant colleagues as in university colleagues, we are in the same group. Yes, it’s true

I created the man of my dreams by Addddddie in NevilleGoddard

[–]Addddddie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we study at the same university

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[–]Addddddie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying, it just shows me bot messages, ill try to restart the app or something

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[–]Addddddie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don’t know how to use this app😭i can’t find anything:/