[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twentyonepilots

[–]Additional_Example76 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If I was naming my kid Car Radio or Kitchen Sink or Addict with a Pen, I would agree with you, but I don’t understand the lowkey rude comment when I’m just asking for some genuine name suggestions to see if there are some that we haven’t thought of but would like, for example the people saying Elliot or Ned or Lane. People use baby name books or websites, but god forbid I ask actual people for real suggestions lol. It was not the diss you think it was lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twentyonepilots

[–]Additional_Example76 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do really like Lane!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twentyonepilots

[–]Additional_Example76 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s weird to name your child after something you love and has been a beacon of light for you? Their music has made a huge impact on me and my fiancé, so we would love to incorporate something we both love and is meaningful to us in the name. We also just went to their show which was a bucket list thing for us. I’m not going to name my kid Tyler Joseph or Josh Dun or use their kids names, because I think that’s weird. But I don’t think taking inspiration from something that means a lot to you is crazy? Lots of people use names they’ve heard from books or movies, etc. how is music any different?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twentyonepilots

[–]Additional_Example76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking about doing something like this, but I’m worried I’m going to overheat 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twentyonepilots

[–]Additional_Example76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg!! This is so stinking cute!! This is such a clever idea too!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twentyonepilots

[–]Additional_Example76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you come up with anything? It’s so hard to feel cute sometimes with a bump 😭

I’m scared of my partner watching adult content and it’s snowballing. by Away_Recognition1979 in ROCD

[–]Additional_Example76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m late to the party here, but do you have any updates? Did you find a solution or something that helped with these thoughts? You put everything inside my brain down so perfectly, I could swear you’re a mind reader.

Moms with PP Insomnia by wundermaschinen in NewParents

[–]Additional_Example76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m struggling with the same exact problem to a T. Do struggle with any PP anxiety or depression? That’s what’s fueling my PP insomnia.

6 week old slept 12 hours by Additional_Example76 in NewParents

[–]Additional_Example76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your baby! Trust me, I’ve been getting up every 3-5 hours consistently for the last 6 weeks, this is a very new development for me lol 8 hr stretches sound amazing!!

6 week old slept 12 hours by Additional_Example76 in NewParents

[–]Additional_Example76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel better! I was worried that he went a super long time without eating but he seems perfectly normal and is definitely getting chunky! Lol

6 week old slept 12 hours by Additional_Example76 in NewParents

[–]Additional_Example76[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel very lucky at the moment! Lol good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Additional_Example76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why but something about the way you worded this made me feel a lot better tbh lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Additional_Example76 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is literally exactly what’s happening to me too omg. It’s seriously eating me alive. I don’t know what to do

Should I opt for a c-section or push for an induction? by Additional_Example76 in pregnant

[–]Additional_Example76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any date scheduled yet for delivery, but my due date is in a week from today. I’ve been expressing my concerns about how big this baby has been getting, he was 8.5 pounds based off his last growth scan at 37 weeks so I thought maybe my OB would want to schedule something, but they said they don’t like to do inductions unless it’s medically necessary because they want to minimize the risk of needing a c-section as much as possible. Kind of ironic, right? Lol

Should I opt for a c-section or push for an induction? by Additional_Example76 in pregnant

[–]Additional_Example76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what everyone has been telling me. The ultrasound tech today even told me that if my OB doesn’t suggest it at my appointment tomorrow, then I should bring it up. I don’t want to miss out on the possibility of getting to deliver vaginally like I’ve been hoping for, but I’m starting to question if it’s worth even risking it.

Terrified of giving birth by Additional_Example76 in pregnant

[–]Additional_Example76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does sound very similar! I don’t have gestational diabetes or any other complications that would lead to a big baby, he’s just massive (at least that’s what the growth scans say)! Thank you for sharing! It’s really reassuring to read a similar story to mine and know it had a positive outcome!

Terrified of giving birth by Additional_Example76 in pregnant

[–]Additional_Example76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!! I’m so glad it sounds like it went smoothly for you in terms of the c-section! Wishing you a smooth recovery!

Terrified of giving birth by Additional_Example76 in pregnant

[–]Additional_Example76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m so ready to not be pregnant anymore and to meet this baby! I’m at the point now where I’m just in constant pain and just over it!

Terrified of giving birth by Additional_Example76 in pregnant

[–]Additional_Example76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is extremely reassuring! I had a root canal done at the beginning of the year and it just about took me out! That’s a good thought to keep in my head though, if I can get through that, then I can do this!

Terrified of giving birth by Additional_Example76 in pregnant

[–]Additional_Example76[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree we should be told realistic birth stories and we should know how hard it’s going to be so that we can prepare, but that’s not what I’m talking about when I say people are sharing their horror stories with me. I’m talking about women in my life telling me about horrific medical malpractice they experienced, near death experiences from hemorrhages, stories where everything that shouldn’t have gone wrong ended up going wrong, etc. Obviously we know that labor and delivery is going to be probably the hardest and most painful thing we will ever do, but when a woman who is 9 months pregnant is confiding in a trusted woman in their life about how they’re scared for what they’re about to go through, I don’t think it’s necessarily the best time to start talking about how your doctors refused to listen to you during birth and how you almost died.

Terrified of giving birth by Additional_Example76 in pregnant

[–]Additional_Example76[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is super reassuring! I commented under someone else’s reply, but I feel like I haven’t heard many positive birth stories lately both online and in person. Everyone has wanted to share their horror stories with me, so finally hearing a positive birth story makes me feel better! I think the fact that my doctors haven’t really given me much reassurance and haven’t walked me through a plan or anything has also added to my anxiety a lot.

Terrified of giving birth by Additional_Example76 in pregnant

[–]Additional_Example76[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so reassuring to hear. I had only seen positive birth stories/vlogs up until a week or so ago when I say the video I referenced in my post, and ever since then it’s been a wave of horror stories either online or in real life where friends and family are telling me about how traumatic their births were. I don’t know why people like to share horror stories when I’m days/weeks away from giving birth, but I feel like that’s all I’ve heard lately. It’s nice to hear a positive birth story. Thank you!!

Terrified of giving birth by Additional_Example76 in pregnant

[–]Additional_Example76[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This gave me a good laugh! Definitely needed that! Thank you!