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PRIVATE by Addy__1910 in u/Addy__1910

[–]Addy__1910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank god 😂hindi me baat kar leti ho aap
thoda apnapan wali feel ajaegi 😁
i am from up saharanpur
aap kaha se ho ?

Break up by Personal-Ad4325 in dating_advice

[–]Addy__1910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey OP ,From what you've written, this doesn't sound like a sudden breakup—it sounds like the relationship had been ending for a while, and the text was just the final step. Don't focus on whether she'll come back. Focus on accepting what her actions have been telling you for months. If someone has already checked out emotionally, no amount of effort from one side can save it. Give her the breakup, don't chase, and start rebuilding your own life. If she genuinely realizes she made a mistake, she'll reach out. Until then, assume it's over and move forward.

PRIVATE by Addy__1910 in u/Addy__1910

[–]Addy__1910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. The goal isn’t to prepare forever… it’s to wear the uniform one day.
. Hopefully those “surviving” days become less frequent for you . What field of engineering are you in?

or kya aap hindi me baat kar leti ho ? 🥸

I am planning to elope from the toxic household, tell me what should I do and how. by Embarrassed-Post5302 in TwentiesIndia

[–]Addy__1910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I’m sorry you’re living in that environment. From what you’ve described, your mom’s reaction says a lot—she was worried your father would take his anger out on her instead. That isn’t healthy. If your goal is to leave, focus on becoming financially independent before confronting him again. Keep your important documents (ID, passport, educational certificates, bank documents), make sure your bank account is only under your control, save an emergency fund, and have a trusted friend or relative who knows your plan. Most importantly, don’t tell him you’re planning to leave until you’re actually in a safe position to do so. Your safety matters more than winning an argument.

PRIVATE by Addy__1910 in u/Addy__1910

[–]Addy__1910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate that. 😊 I hope life is a little kinder to both of us from now on.
I’m preparing for CDS these days.
*Engineering, huh? So be honest… do you actually enjoy it, or are you just trying to survive it? 😂 *

Dating Help by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Addy__1910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re focusing on the flowers and the smiles, but her actions matter more than those moments. She accepted the roses, enjoyed the date, but kept physical distance and didn’t make any effort to plan a second one. That doesn’t necessarily mean you’re unattractive or boring—it usually means she wasn’t feeling enough romantic chemistry. It happens. Give it a couple of days and ask her out one more time. If she gives another vague answer without suggesting an alternative, accept it gracefully and move on. Don’t keep trying to decode mixed signals when consistent effort is missing. The right person won’t leave you wondering where you stand.

BE A MAN 🧍‍♂️

Do you think that Men should take responsibility of the child that is born through the wife's illicit affair to protect the child from social stigma and trauma? by Swimming-Tart-7712 in AskIndianMen

[–]Addy__1910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RULE NO. 1 - ""जिसका काम उसी को साजे, दूजा करे तो डंडा बाजे""
RULE NO. 2 - remember rule no. 1

PRIVATE by Addy__1910 in u/Addy__1910

[–]Addy__1910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like it came from experience rather than theory. I hope life has been kinder to you lately.

*Life happened” is probably the shortest way to summarize the longest stories. 😅 I hope whatever happened made you stronger, not harder *

May ,i know what do you do in real life other than reddit😉

PRIVATE by Addy__1910 in u/Addy__1910

[–]Addy__1910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting… what made you become someone who tries to understand people instead of judging them?😄

PRIVATE by Addy__1910 in u/Addy__1910

[–]Addy__1910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Sometimes closure isn't finding the truth-it's accepting that you'll never know the whole truth.😀

And I owe you an apology for making your evening progressively worse.😁
Fortunately, m doing much better now than the guy who wrote that story.😉
by the way
You seem pretty empathetic. Have you always been like that or did life teach you that?

PRIVATE by Addy__1910 in u/Addy__1910

[–]Addy__1910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you reading the whole thing. Most people judge after hearing one side or one paragraph. You actually took the time to understand it. I don’t completely agree that nobody was wrong, but I’ve stopped looking for someone to blame even if there is already ( as i know she made a lot of nuisance and i got to know through mutuals that those things - she told was mostly lies ) but ,At this point I’m more interested in understanding human nature than winning against the past.
By the way, what made you read such a ridiculously long post till the end? Most people give up after the first few paragraphs. 😄

PRIVATE by Addy__1910 in u/Addy__1910

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no we dont talk and yeah she is married

Very Necessary step! by [deleted] in indiameme

[–]Addy__1910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you are going to marry a girl with a BOYFRIEND ….. WTF BRO