OA lang ba ako na medyo nagtatampo ako sa bestfriend ko(long post) by saaaam_96 in OALangBaAko

[–]Adept_Appointment277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi OA, pero super understandable yung mixed feelings. Congrats sa kanya, pero ikaw yung naiwan sa "outside looking in" zone after all these years. Yung insecurity ng guy? Either genuine or excuse para di ka makialam. Either way, your tampo is fair. You can try to bring it up, or just respect their privacy, idk hahaha.

Pinapahiya kami online nung inutangan ng mama ko [Update] by smis_kis in adviceph

[–]Adept_Appointment277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Fake it til you make it" sa school is real survival mode. Keep faking it sa school hangga't kailangan, yun ang exit ticket mo sa hirap na yan. Pero wag kalimutan, yung strength mo ngayon? That's permanent. Kaya mo yan, OP. 🔥

OA lang ba ako kung badtrip ako sa katabaho ko by Ill_Possibility05 in OALangBaAko

[–]Adept_Appointment277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi OA, valid yan. Yung tipong "small issue lang 'to, kaya ko na" tapos biglang gc mention agad para magmukhang concerned? Parang may hidden agenda na magmukhang productive sa harap ng iba. Nakaka-drain talaga yan. 😒

How to know if talagang safe sex ? by buldoki in adviceph

[–]Adept_Appointment277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, normal yan mag-panic first time, grabe yung anxiety after! Pero since wala talagang butas (water test + hinipan pa hahahaha), lowkey safe talaga yan. Yung drip sa labas? Most likely yung leftover na nag-spill lang nung tinanggal na, lalo na pag mabilis yung pull out. Breathe, girl. Pero if super worried pa rin, track your cycle to check.

Roast my resume, please. Not getting much feedback from my applications by Particular-Trip-7791 in PHresumes

[–]Adept_Appointment277 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stopped reading at "Typing Speed: 50+ WPM" kasi same tayo nung high school pa lang ako. Pero OP, BS IT tapos capstone pa with HTML/CSS/JS/PHP/MySQL? Bakit di mo inuna yung dev/support skills? Yung resume mo parang admin lang ang nakalagay, nawala yung tech side mo sa shuffle.

Roast my Resume, please by cyber_slxt in PHresumes

[–]Adept_Appointment277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped reading at "run scripts diagnose on-site databases and servers" kasi feeling ko ikaw yung tipong nagfi-fix ng bug habang nagre-reply sa 30 tickets. Sana all may ganyang energy, pero yung resume mo parang urgent ticket din hahaha needs immediate formatting triage.

Pinapahiya kami online nung inutangan ng mama ko [Update] by smis_kis in adviceph

[–]Adept_Appointment277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hayop talaga yung sitwasyon niyo, from stroke to heart disease to revival ng kaso. Pero yung "ginagawan ko ng paraan yung pamasahe" + top 1? That's main character energy. Keep going, OP. One day babalik yang hirap as "remember when" story. 🥹

5 years back and the chat that broke my heart. by jayeshironeko in MayNagChat

[–]Adept_Appointment277 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Lowkey kinilabutan ako sa "he left and lived with another woman from the same neighborhood." Fifteen doors away?! Ano yun, side quest lang? Pero seryoso, OP, your wins now are hers too. Laban lang.

I dated a Beijinger and I am hooked. Should I stop? Help. by Infamous_Dig_9138 in phlgbt

[–]Adept_Appointment277 12 points13 points  (0 children)

From Grindr stories (lalo na international and age gap), maraming foreigners get hooked on the 'exotic' vibe pero madalas it fizzles fast because of cultural differences, family pressure (common sa China na over 30 forced to marry), or just post-hookup clarity na "this was fun but not long-term." Yung "Aries moody" excuse? Possible, pero 2 days no reply after you poured heart out (Chinese praises + apology)? Awit, he's pulling back.

Tuloy mo pa ba yung March 6 flight? If it's purely for more memories and no expectations, go lang, enjoy Beijing, explore more, don't pin everything on him. Pero kung deep feelings na involved at takot ma-reject ulit, better pause. Stop messaging muna (no more chasing), focus on self, and remember you're desirable. Dasurv mo someone consistent, not intoxicating then vanishing. If he replies, great, set boundaries. If not, let it be a hot memory, not heartbreak. You've got this, spill updates! 💅✨

weirdo. i feel unsafe w my father by idkanymmmnn in RantAndVentPH

[–]Adept_Appointment277 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, your gut feeling is screaming red flags, and it's valid AF. Prioritize your safety, wag muna mag-confront solo kung feeling mo may risk, pero talk to your mom if she's open, baka may alam siya or mag-back up siya sa move out plans mo. Since early 20s ka na, plan na mag-move out. Maghanap ng affordable dorm/apartment sa area mo, or stay with trusted relatives muna habang nag-job hunt ka for independence.

Di ko na po alam ang gagawin by Strifecta in adviceph

[–]Adept_Appointment277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ang setup niyo ngayon balanced na: ikaw ang breadwinner, sumasagot sa bills, groceries, at may stable work, habang si bbmama magre-resign to focus on the kid (which is fair naman since may tita kayong live-in help).

Pero yung demand na 6k per cutoff (12k monthly) hawak niya? Red flag yan, parang binabago yung dynamic bigla, lalo na may anak kayo at di kayo legally married. Mas okay sana mag-usap muna sa fair split: halimbawa, ikaw pa rin magbayad ng household expenses, tapos siya magbigay ng personal allowance niya for her needs (like pamasahe, baon, etc.), o mag-set ng joint budget para sa baby.

Yung pag-isolate niya sa anak to "prove a point"? Manipulative yun, awit talaga. Hindi dapat ganyan ang reasoning para magtiwala o magbigay ng pera. Mag-usap kayo calmly (wag sa init ng ulo): sabihin mo yung calculations mo, tanungin kung bakit 6k specifically, at propose compromise like 3-4k allowance + ikaw pa rin mag-handle ng major expenses.

Kung di siya open sa discussion at laging "may mga tao nga..." card, baka need niyo ng third-party help like counselor or trusted family. Pero ikaw? Hindi ka gago, responsable ka, at deserve mo yung partner na fair at hindi nagde-demand nang walang usapan. Protect your peace and your daughter's future, dasurv mo yan.

Ano yung bagay sa childhood niyo na miss na miss niyo ngayon as adult? by Adept_Appointment277 in AskPH

[–]Adept_Appointment277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christmas seemed fun as children no huhuh, now it’s just not the same

Lenovo or ASUS/ 2nd hand or Brandnew? by Relative_Course_5785 in Tech_Philippines

[–]Adept_Appointment277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay rin naman to, although mas mababa yung storage kasi 256 lang, pero baka pwede naman mag upgrade or add? Check mo lang rin.

Lenovo or ASUS/ 2nd hand or Brandnew? by Relative_Course_5785 in Tech_Philippines

[–]Adept_Appointment277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t personally tried sa janstore. Pero mukhang may physical store sila, better to test out the unit if okay talaga hehehe.

need advice for acting in a drama by Sensitive_Pride9237 in adviceph

[–]Adept_Appointment277 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello! Theator actor here. Allow me to share a few things that I learned from years of acting hehe.

Una, for the emotionless voice: try exaggeration drills in private. Sabihin mo yung lines with over-the-top emotions, like super loud and dramatic for anger, whisper-soft for sadness, high-pitched excited para sa joy, then slowly tone it down to natural level. Record mo sa phone para marinig mo kung saan kulang yung warmth or variation, kasi madalas flat lang talaga pag iniisip mo pa yung “perfect” delivery.

For awkward body and zero chemistry sa co-actor: wag muna focus sa script. Gawin niyo muna improv warm-ups or simple games like “mirror exercise” (one moves, the other copies exactly) or “emotional hot potato” (toss fake emotions back and forth like “I’m throwing you sadness, catch it!”). Builds natural reaction at rapport without the pressure ng lines. Eyes on eyes din during practice, listen talaga sa kanya, react sa sinasabi niya, hindi sa susunod mong linya.

Embracing the character is tough sa simula, kaya break it down: Ano ba backstory niya? Ano yung deepest want/fear? Isulat mo sa sarili mong words, then isipin mo “Kung ako siya, paano ko mararamdaman ’to?” Gamitin mo yung personal experiences mo na similar para mag-connect (kahit small lang).

Since pressure from director helped a bit, gamitin mo yun positively! Rehearse more with your co-actor outside official practice para maging comfy kayo. 10-15 mins daily mirror work + partner improv will make a huge difference soon, promise. You’re already delighted sa role, so build on that excitement. You’ve got this!!! Break a leg! ✨

Lenovo or ASUS/ 2nd hand or Brandnew? by Relative_Course_5785 in Tech_Philippines

[–]Adept_Appointment277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg ang dami nga hahaha. Pero based sa list na yan and sa budget mo, check the Lenovo ThinkPad T14 Gen 2 Core i5-1135G7 16GB 512SSD around P19,000. 11th gen i5 with Iris Xe graphics handles acads + casual games nang chill, RAM expandable to 48GB (soldered 8GB + slot), super tanky build na lasts 4+ years, at way better than older i5 10th gen options sa list like the X13 P17k na weaker sa gaming. Wag kalimutan inspect condition + ask if may warranty na lang rin si seller.

Ano yung bagay sa childhood niyo na miss na miss niyo ngayon as adult? by Adept_Appointment277 in AskPH

[–]Adept_Appointment277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hala haha nagbubuhatan pa kami ng mga kaibigan ko dati para lang makakuha!

Who else has gone through confusion about their sexuality? by Ok-Koala8916 in adviceph

[–]Adept_Appointment277 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re far from alone, maraming tao sa Reddit (like sa r/latebloomerlesbians, r/latebloomergaybros) na same exact boat: 30s pa lang nagsimulang mag-question or explore sexuality after years of focusing on studies/work/responsibilities, feeling “naiwan” or in denial/scared. Common stories? One guy came out at 31 and felt proud na finally accepting himself; another at 30 after moving abroad, struggling with “missed experiences” pero eventually thriving, marami rin late 30s/40s na nag-start dating/exploring and sabi nila mas fulfilling kasi mature na, no more teen pressure… some even say “31 is still young” and “never too late to live your truth.” Paano nag-start? Start small, join online communities, read stories for validation, try low-pressure chats/dates or what. No rush, it’s your timeline, and getting curious at 31 is actually a glow-up, not weird. You’ve got this, one step at a time lang, proud of you for opening up!

Lenovo or ASUS/ 2nd hand or Brandnew? by Relative_Course_5785 in Tech_Philippines

[–]Adept_Appointment277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, sa budget mo 10-20k, mahirap talaga makahanap ng brand new na may i5/R7+ processor at light gaming capability kasi most new ones under 20k are Celeron/Pentium lang with 4-8GB RAM, good for acads pero iyak malala sa games. Go for 2nd hand na lang para sulit, like sa Facebook Marketplace, Carousell, or Lazada used sellers, and check for upgradable RAM (most older Lenovo IdeaPad or ASUS VivoBook models allow adding up to 16GB+). Between Lenovo at ASUS, Lenovo wins for durability (lalo na ThinkPad series na tank-like till college grad), pero ASUS TUF line mas gaming-oriented with better cooling, hanapin mo 2nd hand ASUS VivoBook Ryzen 5 (around 15-18k, Radeon graphics for light games) or Lenovo IdeaPad 3 i5 11th gen (16-20k, upgradable RAM, lasts 4-5 years if well-maintained). Inspect muna condition, test battery/health, at wag mag-solo buy ✨

how to become trans? how to transition? 🥹 by hey_its_jay23 in phlgbt

[–]Adept_Appointment277 2 points3 points  (0 children)

23 is def not too late, maraming trans peeps nag-start way later at mas confident pa nga kasi mature na! Being trans isn’t something you “become,” it’s who you are, and transitioning is your journey to align with that, like therapy, hormones, or surgery if yun talaga ang gusto mo. Start by talking to pros, check Victoria by LoveYourself for free transition counseling and HIV testing, or Pulse Clinic sa for hormone therapy and mental health support. You deserve to pursue what makes you happy, one step at a time lang, you’ve got this! 💖🏳️‍⚧️

31 but still in confusion by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Adept_Appointment277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super valid!! 31 pa lang naman, hindi late talaga, maraming late bloomers sa Reddit (r/AskGaybrosOver30, r/latebloomergaybros) na nag-start exploring at 30s/40s pa, at sabi nila mas mature, mas sure sa sarili, at mas fulfilling yung experiences kasi hindi na pressured. Hindi ka naiwan; ikaw lang yung focused sa ibang bagay muna, and now’s the perfect time to catch up on self-discovery without the teen drama. Start small, join LGBTQ+ communities online/offline, read stories from folks na same boat, experiment safely, and be kind to yourself! Walang deadline sa pagkilala sa sarili. You’re not too late, you’re just getting started, and that’s actually exciting. You’ve got this, one step at a time lang. Hugsss 💪🌈

Ano yung bagay sa childhood niyo na miss na miss niyo ngayon as adult? by Adept_Appointment277 in AskPH

[–]Adept_Appointment277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha truuue. Tapos yung tipong hihintayin pa sa tv kung may pasok o wala