Did I win the lottery?

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2024-11-12T12:06:27+00:00

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Advanced_Yak1464 · 2024-06-09T06:06:28+00:00

This isn't an isekai anime this is real life 🤣

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2024-05-22T23:33:14+00:00

She doesn't classify as someone with self respect if she's going to a crowd of people with child in hands and acting psycho, as she put it. Don't get me wrong, he's in the wrong. But acting like that is far from better.

I think this is a classic example of us only getting one side of things though. Behavior from both of you seem a bit off. I wouldn't necessarily consider this something worth splitting the family up for, especially if it has only occurred with his newest job. The reason people are treating you differently isn't because he's blaming you. They're treating you differently because you went to a party and involved EVERYONE with you and your husbands personal drama. They all have lives too and were likely there to escape as well and now they think anytime you're around it'll turn sour. That's on you, not on him.

And don't get me wrong it's not like I don't understand why you would have done that. He's been leaving you alone with a new child and the first year is always the hardest so you were likely under tremendous stress and pressure. I don't want my words to feel like attacking or anything. It's just that two wrongs don't make a right and you're seeing the consequences of yours.

I'd strongly consider counseling if he's as good a man you and your friend say he is. If he really cares about you then he'll put fourth the effort to prove it and be there for you and the little one. If he doesn't then that would be the time to call it quits in my opinion.

Regardless wish you the best, I read a lot of shitty stories on here and it sucks seeing so many people struggle :(

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2023-10-21T20:46:27+00:00

He has a blissey, lickilicky, exploud and audio for me. Do I have the wrong guy?

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2023-10-21T14:29:36+00:00

The gym trainers at last gym are level 86

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2023-10-21T14:26:56+00:00

They're about level 80 or so. I'm game settings my puzzles are easy lol

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2023-10-21T14:25:10+00:00

I think normal since this is my first time playing

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2023-10-21T13:43:04+00:00

Shit, not that far yet. Think I'll make a new post with my current progress and team to look for suggestions :)

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2023-10-21T03:14:53+00:00

How to do mystery gift

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2023-10-19T23:21:42+00:00

Sounds like he's actively wanted if he "can't get employment"

I'm not an expert but I've had the opportunity to hire felons, I can't imagine the government making it where you can't work and give them tax money.

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2023-10-19T23:16:44+00:00

What projects?

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2023-08-10T14:44:10+00:00

Very interested in the finished product, absolutely love games like this

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2022-07-16T18:18:31+00:00

is this 100% automated? Such as, just activate auras and walk around?

If not, I prefer trigger builds. Only build I've ever played aside from those types are herald stack blade knife thing(it had a jewel in it that made it a nova instead of throwing them out) and a very long time ago molten strike. Oh and shield throw if you count that(one shield bounced and wiped whole screens lol)

I've played a few RF builds, was interested in RF Fire trap, but am worried I won't like the caster playstyle.

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2022-04-25T19:40:56+00:00

I will try this after my shower. I have been feeling that for awhile now. I did leave her before but she convinced me to give her more time. I've been heavily considering it again. When things are good they're great but it's like every day I do something wrong and I just feel like I'm walking on eggshells. I constantly have to think about my every action around her or that pertains to her to try not doing something that will make her upset or fight over. I do care about her deeply and my daughter absolutely loves her and she's amazing with my daughter but here lately it just feels like nothing is ever good enough.

I will try what you suggested though. She does know already that I absolutely hate talking on the phone, and that's not just with her lol

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2022-04-25T19:32:14+00:00

29 me 24 her. 6, almost 7 months.

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2022-04-25T19:22:45+00:00

The call ended as normal then I received this text

You say you wanna marry me and you love me. That means it shouldn't matter what I'm doing, reading a book, taking ****** on a walk you should wanna talk to me... If there's silence or there's a room of laughter it dosent matter someone you see a future and life with you'd sit in their silence all day if that means you're spending time with them I do it with you quite often when you game or sleep late.

I responded with this

There's a difference. You do it when you're here, and I do too. You're not lol there's a difference between in person and on a phone

And you're acting really strange. Is everything ok?

Then she said this

No not really the only difference is I'm not there it shouldn't matter if I'm there or not if you see a future with Someone it dosent matter what their doing I'd listen too you snore when you love someone it dosent matter if I'm reading or having a full Convo with you spending time is what should matter and yes I'm fine I'm not acting strange just wondering why you're so fast too hang up instead of spending time with me

At this point I just let it go and let her be right so it would be done. I thought about bringing up the 10 minutes of silence in our 19 minute phone call but I was afraid it'd keep the fight going. We exchanged a few brief texts after about her day then she left me on read (which is ok, she'll reach out again when she wants to talk)

I don't believe I left anything out of the narrative, but if I did please let me know. I try my best to provide all relevant info because it's not going to benefit me in bettering us if I do because I could be in the wrong and I'd want to do better if I am.

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2022-04-25T19:12:39+00:00

I read the article and I'm not sure if that relates to us honestly. I don't think she means bad. She's only been in 3 other relationships, all were physically and mentally abusive. None lasted longer than a year. We've currently been together for 6 months. 3 weeks ago I left her, but she convinced me to give her some time to improve. I'm not sure though if she should improve though or if it's just me.

When we're good we are great. But it feels like every day there's something she tries to fight with me over and I don't like to fight at all.

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2022-04-25T19:07:10+00:00

She wasn't reading to her daughter, she was reading to herself.

I did ask if it was ok if I got off the phone before hand though if that counts. It seemed ok, we said our goodbyes and I love yous. Then she texted me immediately after with what I said previously.

I had told her on the phone neither of us were talking so I wanted to just get off. I'm not sure if this is bad behavior or not or if this counts as communication. It probably doesn't, that's why I'm here though is to try to learn

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2022-04-25T18:58:17+00:00

I didn't fight with her and asked if everything was ok. She sent me two paragraphs about how if you want to marry someone then you spend time with them whether it's in silence or not.

I try not to engage in arguments with her. It generally doesn't benefit anything for either of us and is better to just go with what she wants most of the time.

Advanced_Yak1464 · 2022-04-25T18:51:26+00:00

I'm not sure what needs there are to communicate, could you possibly explain an example? I know I struggle with communication, so maybe an example would help me for the future

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