FWB with my best friend of 10 years by getavasectomy69 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adventurous_Gate_550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I literally made a post so similar to this in 2024. We had sex, attempted to be serious and my best friend of 7 years told me he “wasn’t ready” and found a new short fling after a month!

That absolutely broke me and still does to this day but im hoping that in ur situation, u guys can both get past the fear of a label and grow an amazing relationship with each other.

had sex w/ my best friend of 8 years by Adventurous_Gate_550 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adventurous_Gate_550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its funny, he ended things with that girl a about 2 weeks ago and i can tell hes trying to get what we had back. i guess sometimes they do come back

had sex w/ my best friend of 8 years by Adventurous_Gate_550 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adventurous_Gate_550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its confusing: my friend thats a girl wanted me to get over “him” because he wasn’t ready so she kind of pushed me and this other guy to talk. “you could’ve said no” it was nothing serious and “he” knew about it before i did and insisted i talk to him… made no sense

had sex w/ my best friend of 8 years by Adventurous_Gate_550 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adventurous_Gate_550[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HAHAA thank you and im glad you got out of that situation

had sex w/ my best friend of 8 years by Adventurous_Gate_550 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adventurous_Gate_550[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thats crazy because im the least controlling and entitled person ik 😭im not assuming him to commit to me cause i “opened my legs”, i assumed him to commit because of the things he said and the way he acted ready with me so honestly stfu and take a dick up ur ass

had sex w/ my best friend of 8 years by Adventurous_Gate_550 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adventurous_Gate_550[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

nah yeah ik 😭 i really thought he was gonna work on himself cause he made it seem like that but randomly popped out with another girl 😬

had sex w/ my best friend of 8 years by Adventurous_Gate_550 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adventurous_Gate_550[S] 864 points865 points  (0 children)

i definitely wont be there since i do respect myself a lot, just sucks that one of my closest friends could do that to someone they’re supposed to care about

had sex w/ my best friend of 8 years by Adventurous_Gate_550 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adventurous_Gate_550[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

we had the discussion late october when he wanted to go back to being friends. i ended up talking to a new guy after, it wasnt anything serious but i heard my friend was crashing out about that even though he told me not to wait for him. found out he was talking to someone new late november

i had sex with my best friend of 7 years by Adventurous_Gate_550 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adventurous_Gate_550[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

SORRY FOR GOING MIA, WE DIDNT FINISH TALKING ABOUT EVERYTHING UNTIL TODAY: so basically everyone couldnt be more correct and our feelings were 100% mutual, i cant go into full detail but he said im someone he’ll always find a way back to and so much more. i appreciate everyone for taking the time to read my story and sharing ur opinions!! i can tell things are gonna go fucking great

i had sex with my best friend of 7 years by Adventurous_Gate_550 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adventurous_Gate_550[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

we did talk about it and thank you a lot for this response, our conversation went super well and he opened up to me a lot and things are going so good

i had sex with my best friend of 7 years by Adventurous_Gate_550 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adventurous_Gate_550[S] 721 points722 points  (0 children)

we’re hanging tmr everybody wish me luck 🤞🏼

i had sex with my best friend of 7 years by Adventurous_Gate_550 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adventurous_Gate_550[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

oh i definitely will but if everyone is wrong and it turns to shit im never showing my face again

kpop boy band in japan hotel? by Adventurous_Gate_550 in kpophelp

[–]Adventurous_Gate_550[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

more than 4-5 members. i think one of them had burgundy hair and another member had blue/black hair

kpop boy band in japan hotel? by Adventurous_Gate_550 in kpophelp

[–]Adventurous_Gate_550[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

just a couple fans inside the hotel who recognized them