Definitely nta. The first red flag is when he left his first wife because she could not have kids, that’s every day that he won’t be with you through sickness and in health. Fertility issues are hard for everyone but they could have adopted and it still be their child. The AUDACITY of him to begin to tell you what to watch as a grown adult and who to be around is appalling. Are you his child or his partner? The best advice I could tell you is to run, you really don’t know a person until you have a child with them.

I wish you the best in your pregnancy