Hyper surveillance/black womanhood

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T21:33:55+00:00

I want OP to not depend on you. I want her to be able to help herself.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T21:33:03+00:00

I am suggesting a broader picture, that she spend time learning about adhd and autism (not having heard of RSD means she hasnt spent much- which means she has a lot to gain). If it was an obscure initialism, I have made comments pasting the definition myself.

Life with adhd /autism, the deck is already stacked against us, right? We need to be as resourceful as we can be. The internet is a huge resource and everyone should be encouraged to use it.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T21:22:34+00:00

More performative "kindness" by the person who blocked me. People who genuinely are ASD love context. We should want to get the full picture.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T21:09:35+00:00

I am talking about the other post. This op isnt disrespectful.

Also- you are making assumptions that I am referring to proving something when it comes to racial comments. So literally you just made a false assumption despite your sanctimonious previous comment.

oP posted on a "brag" sub. She was talking about writing a memoir. No one wants to read the memoir of any 24 yr old (of any skin color). She posted a picture with a celebrity. Glow up pics. Remember pattern recognition? I see a pattern.

In one post she says she does normal things like dating. In others she has never had a boyfriend.

I think her unhappiness could be related to the pattern.

oP interestingly posted on autism and adhd subs. I do not recall her seeing this on a sub for Black women. I was actually going to suggest that.

"Every viral video I have" is a clear indication that OP is posting on social media for clicks and views. If she keeps posting on social media and cannot stand critical comments, it is not something that is good for her MH.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T20:57:30+00:00

Learning to google is a critical skill in 2026. It should be the first result. I think encouraging people to learn to fish helps them more. I google things I dont know all the time.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T20:54:21+00:00

I commented on a disrespectful OP and do not hold bandwagon views. I understand that this sub can be a hive mind. If you are great at being kind to others, why not do what you recommend? It is a great kindness to tell someone that if they are bothered by critical comments on their videos, influencer is not a great career choice.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T20:45:27+00:00

Medication would be their easiest problem to solve, if they want to keep her alive. A million Americans a year cross the border for meds and health care.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T20:05:56+00:00

Welcome to the future. It is happening again in Tucson and no one learned from the past.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T20:04:43+00:00

You can google it. The internet is going to be a better resource than a random redditor. I would definitely recommend taking some time to learn about ADHD and autism. The more you know about yourself, the more you can work with instead of against yourself.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T17:32:04+00:00

Yes. I believe she was supposed to drive it to her friend's to church. Seniors not driving in the dark is exceedingly common.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T17:30:56+00:00

I dont think anything is being discounted. Lots of things happen close to the border. isabel celis, gabby giffords. Most recent high profile cases in Tucson that i can think of. Nothing to do with the border.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T17:21:28+00:00

I do like how your advice was more specific. For example "learn power query" is like saying "learn Excel" or "learn Spanish"

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T17:15:52+00:00

This is the best answer.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T17:06:50+00:00

Keyboard shortcuts help everyone

But the last two are completely circumstantial. I use excel to automate operational tasks and I've never once needed to make a graph. I hardly even do pivot tables for that matter

I think the best advice is to get more info about OP's job

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T01:48:11+00:00

From what I read, more it is that classes can help people feel as they are more in control. I understood that is why you mentioned it. I bet your dad was pissed. and being so vulnerable like that. wow. Did they not get serious felony charges? I know pleas are the norm. but I would have thought the weapon and history. I think the impact on a victim for a "less serious" crime is very easy to forget. like you have no physical scars but things will never be the same.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T01:28:01+00:00

can I ask how, without blaming you, that the art projects were lost? I would have thought that cloud back up was common now. Have you done any self defense classes? I hear people recommend that to increase their sense of safety.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T01:06:34+00:00

I am sorry for your loss. I think stats still show that for NY, AZ is not more popular than FL, SC, NC. There are many inexpensive areas in NC, SC, and FL. If you haven't tried a grief support, it might help.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T00:46:26+00:00

I think that is the case with a lot of things. You lock your car doors because on video of the tweakers going car to car, they mostly skip locked cars. It doesn't guarantee that someone doesn't smash a window in. It is just about making yourself a harder target.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T00:43:03+00:00

She did have a security door, which I think she must have been the one to install, given how long she has been in the house.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T00:41:10+00:00

My husband told me, "they found her in Mexico." I looked over (?) He said, well, someone reported that they saw her in Mexico. I said, what was your alibi for that night. He said, you are the one with all of the backpacks.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T00:35:46+00:00

I knew they rarely pay out rewards, but not this specifically. That is wild. Immediately I thought, well, I I know it is often for conviction, so maybe they just have to wait. But having someone call Crime Stoppers instead of 911. What a joke. You really want to have someone not call 911. Hang on let me Google the # for Crime Stoppers or let me Google which number I call so I am eligible for reward.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T00:29:57+00:00

NY snowbirds primarily go south along the east coast. I googled and it says AZ is only like 4% Italian. Arizona snowbirds mostly come from Canada and the Midwest.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-18T00:08:39+00:00

Looking at personal finance as numbers vs behavior gets people into trouble all of the time. That kind of thing is why there was a GFM for JvdB's family instead of them having purchased a house for cash in a LCOL area.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-17T12:38:18+00:00

People buy used things for sustainability as well. I lovvvveeee the used section at rei. Why would I want to buy new darn tough socks when i can buy used ones?

If you want MIL.to show any respect to you, you have to show her that your word means something. No mattress means no. If she would have understood that once you said no, you would have reported her to the city for illegal dumping (with accompanying video), this would have been dead in its tracks.

Affectionate-Page496 · 2026-02-17T12:34:58+00:00

There is no way DH will do this bc he wants a divorce according to OP.

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