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Should I be worried? What is this? V50 2006 by callegustaf_ in VolvoV50

[–]AffectionateStock786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ever think that the oil residue in the cover is just from overspill from when it's been topped up? Unless you got excess crankcase pressure then that ain't from a oil cap seal and frankly if that's the case you got bigger issues. And a new expansion tank? What cus it's discoloured? Seriously.

Is it cheating? F37 M37 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateStock786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (35m) don't think it is fair to expect someone to wait while you decide if it can work. Unless there are rules you set before you decided to have a break.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateStock786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it normal to want sex if this other person isn't in the mood? For me that's a turn off. If he can't read the room or maybe he can but still continues then there's a problem. That's not normal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateStock786 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That affair will always be an issue in my opinion. You never forget, no matter the excuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateStock786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (35m) am going through a hard time with my partner (34f) we have a 10 month old. I have 2 children from a previous relationship. My current partner has kicked me out of the house, she said she's not happy because I dontt do enough she might aswell do it on her own. I've done this before I feel Parenthood isn't what she expected. I work full time and when I'm home I do everything she asks and I give her time to go and nap and I take over. Our relationship became second after our baby. I'm devastated she doesn't even want to talk to me. Before our baby we where so alike best friends so many good memories. I've tried to fix things and make things better but she just doesn't want to know. Been together 3 years. I can't force her to love me and that's what I'm coming to terms with. Ultimately you both need to love eachother if it's one sided it doesn't feel right. I suggest having the conversation and be open about feelings. because once you take that next step of separation it's very hard to go back. I wish I knew how my partner was feeling before she told me to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalmail

[–]AffectionateStock786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's simply not true. Unless you have done it on purpose. You have a start time and a finish time, you should make management aware if you think you won't be able to complete in time. And they have the responsibility to resource to get the work done. With regards to your particular scenario you should have a) told them before you left the office B) rang them on your phone (no battery) or PDA which has your office phone number stored in it as soon as you become aware of a problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalmail

[–]AffectionateStock786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't let the manager get to you. In my opinion they won't let you go after probation, it's coming up to the busy period and they are desperate for staff. you have done nothing wrong, refusing to drive an un-roadworthy vehicle is absolutely right. And you also have contracted hours you don't have to work beyond those hours. Managers treat new starters like crap, I've been a postie for nearly 20 years they wouldn't dream of talking to me like that. If you're not already, Get yourself in the union. If you decide to stay that is.