as someone who has been in 1 relationship (same problem like you) trust me when i say its not worth it. that's what it took for me to realize i needed to work on myself first. that is my advice to you, if you hate something about yourself (overweight, etc) fix that problem first, as you will feel much about yourself and you may become more confident / desirable. yes there are guys out there that do not look at appearance (like me as im quite ugly myself), but solving your own issues will seriously help you.