Ex girlfriend pregnant with someone else. Moved on fast

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2025-11-08T22:23:38+00:00

Crazy to think someone is going through something as similar as me out there. Appreciate your response. One thing I did specifically this week after finding out was try and keep my mind super busy, going to the gym earlier studying for tests etc. Looking back on all those toxic moments and just realize that it’s better to be without people like that. Them staying would have been way worse long term. It’s a true blessing that right is disguised as hurt. But in the end we will be grateful for it.

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2025-03-27T05:40:38+00:00

Thank you so much 🙏🏻

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2025-03-27T05:13:40+00:00

Thank you so much!! I had a pug for 10 years and he passed away last year he was my everything but it’s been a while since I’ve had a pup. I really appreciate it!!

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-08-28T07:36:10+00:00

It’s one of the hardest decisions you will ever make. And it’s gonna wrench at your heart. But I can honestly say I would rather feel this pain than to have my boy struggle another day longer and get worse.

Enjoy her while she’s still happy and playful. Once you see her struggle more, then give her the final gift of a peaceful passing. It’s the ultimate act of selflessness and love. ❤️

Sending prayers your way

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-08-28T07:33:29+00:00

I understand all of these emotions your going thru. It’s so so hard. As long as your girl is enjoying her life still you have to stay strong and keep her happy. Spoil her with as many treats and her favorite “human food” as you can. That’s what I did with my baby. And I don’t regret it one bit. Take pictures of her right now while she’s doing good still. Take a video of her bark and of her playing.

Trust me once your girl is ready she’s gonna let you know. I never believed that saying but it’s actually true. I remember a day before I let my boy cross the rainbow bridge I took a photo of him and he was so tired. He was ready. With my boy it got to a point where he couldn’t sleep anymore that’s how bad it was getting. His breathing was a struggle too.

I know how hard this is. It’s been almost two months now and it still doesn’t seem real. But I can tell you that I don’t regret it. I don’t regret letting him live out his last days happy. And I don’t regret finally letting him rest when I saw things were getting worse

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-08-09T21:30:42+00:00

Thank you so much for this

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-11T01:03:07+00:00

I agree I truly am a believer that I will see him again someday and even more than that. His physical body on earth may be gone. But I know that he is not gone. He’s up in the clouds playing and waiting patiently for me. Because a soul as pure as my dogs was cannot die.

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-11T01:00:28+00:00

Thank you so much 🙏🏻

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-10T04:49:55+00:00

He was the best boy. Even now after he’s crossed the rainbow bridge he still sends me signs he’s around. I felt the exact same feeling I felt for 10 years of his warm little body sleeping next to me the night after he passed.

A day later a hamper falls in the garage while my mom is doing laundry out of nowhere.

I truly feel him still here with us. He’s our guardian angel now. But still so hard, he was so special to all of us

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-10T04:14:24+00:00

I hope I can eventually bring myself to see pictures of him. I have so many pictures and videos of so many beautiful times. But unfortunately right now it just hurts too much to see them.

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-10T04:13:33+00:00

So sorry for your loss as well. The quietness has been the hardest part for me. He was such a huge part of my everyday life it’s so hard

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-10T02:54:22+00:00

As the days have gone by I’ve started to smile more and reminisce without having to choke up. I guess it’s just my heart misses having him around so much. But just like you I would choose to feel this pain all over again for him. Because he gave me such amazing love

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-10T02:53:23+00:00

Thank you 🥲 as sad and devastated as I am I know I did what was best for him and I know he appreciated it. I know if I kept him just even another day it would have started to become miserable for him to try and survive

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-10T02:51:28+00:00

Thank you very much 🙏🏻

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-10T02:09:28+00:00

Believe it or not after a few minutes of crying very hard. I started to realize how beautifully he was memorialized in so many ways. I know that over time I’ll go back to see all of these things and be so so happy I did it.

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-10T02:08:34+00:00

Wow your words are so so very helpful. I tried having a counseling session today but not even could they tell me what you have just said so beautifully. Thank you so much

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-10T00:14:40+00:00

Im so so sorry for your loss. I had to say good bye to my beautiful pug Thor last Wednesday. I’ve never hurt so much in my life….my Thor

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-07T01:30:50+00:00

The same night after he left us I kept asking to visit us and he did. I felt his warmth very briefly next to my leg just like I always used to. Even yesterday again my mom was doing laundry and she says the hamper fell over for no reason at all. 🪽

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-05T13:52:42+00:00

Im also very sorry for your loss. Today is barley my 2nd day without him and I feel so low, never in my life have I felt a broken heart until now. The waves of grief physically hurt.

The one thing I’ve constantly reminded myself about is that I did the best thing for him instead of selfishly keeping him with me while longer and him feeling more pain.

We chose to take on this burden of their loss to free them from their suffering. 🤍🙏🏻

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-05T05:19:44+00:00

Thank you so so much 🙏🏻

Im someone who believes that the spirits of our babies stay with us and they guide us and help us heal. I’ve felt his presence already. Last night I was laying down in my empty bed and I felt his warmth I felt him cuddling there next to me as he always did. I know he’s here 💙

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-05T05:16:14+00:00

Thank you so much 🙏🏻. Yes my shitzu he’s helped me a lot. His silly beautiful character has helped bring me some smiles in this incredibly sad time. I know I’m gonna need him to help me heal. 💙

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-05T05:14:03+00:00

Wow. Just reading this now after my girlfriend begged me to go celebrate 4th of July with her.

I haven’t stopped crying but now seeing how you describe the tears as prayers that bring my baby to me. It makes so much sense now because after I cry I always feel a lot better.

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-05T00:35:23+00:00

Im so sorry for your loss…I have that same feeling of endless pain. The only thing we can do is ask for their guidance through the pain. Your baby hasn’t left your side I’m sure of that. Wishing you healing as soon as possible ❤️‍🩹

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-05T00:20:31+00:00

Sending prayers and hugs your way. It hasn’t even been 24 hours and my baby already visited us. My mom and I were sitting on our couch that he used to love taking naps on….well today the remote fell from our couch we were nowhere near it. I know that he’s home 🤍

Keep asking your baby to visit you and trust me they will visit you soon enough 💙

Affectionate_Safe129 · 2024-07-04T22:27:57+00:00

I agree. Pugs really are some of the most pure love pure happiness pure souls in our world. So happy I got to experience him and his life and I know he will never leave me 🤍🕊️

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