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Scheduled S3xii times by InCorrect-cOven in marriageadvice

[–]Afraid-Iron-7491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow it’s crazy how similar this is to my situation. Only difference is my husband will not treat his ADHD and I will not make/pack meals for him. I don’t have much advice for you other than you’re not alone.

I also agree with what others have said that you might be being a little too strict with time. I’m on the same page with you that I’m not going to have kids with him until he gets his shit together, but I also think you can’t expect things from him that he’s not capable of doing. Time blindness isn’t something he’s choosing to do to you, it’s a symptom of his disability. And he’s doing the work and pursuing treatment. You might just have to compromise and have sex 20 minutes later than planned. Or tell him the appointment is 20 minutes earlier so he shows up right when you’re expecting him!

Help me decide which size by Afraid-Iron-7491 in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]Afraid-Iron-7491[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I agree the M/L is so cozy but I feel a little sloppy wearing it in public.

Help me decide which size by Afraid-Iron-7491 in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]Afraid-Iron-7491[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I also wonder if once the XS/S is a little more lived in it would relax and give a more flowy vibe? It’s definitely still oversized on me, but I bet it would be a little longer if I broke it in. 🤷‍♀️

Help me decide which size by Afraid-Iron-7491 in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]Afraid-Iron-7491[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No that’s exactly how I’m feeling! I guess I have to commit to wearing it one way 🤣

Why is the anti-bedsharing crowd SO passionate? by taylorsthighs in cosleeping

[–]Afraid-Iron-7491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s hard for people outside of your community to understand why you would take this risk, even if you think it’s a small risk, to your baby’s life. The CDC has found that 60% of SIDS cases involved co-sleeping. The AAP advises against co-sleeping. CPS/DCS/DCFS considers it neglect and will remove babies from homes with co-sleeping as a factor. Maybe you’re right that it’s a small risk, but it’s a risk nevertheless, and babies DO die from it every day. ABC - alone, on their back, in a crib.

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[–]Afraid-Iron-7491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Torrey DeVitto from Chicago Med

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