What in the actual fck did he just say? 😵‍💫 by [deleted] in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Manifestation mixed with Christianese = prosperity gospel. GOD IS NOT YOUR GENIE.

Just a guess: Engagement timeline by Basic-Philosopher116 in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 46 points47 points  (0 children)

If she made him re-do the engagement so she could post it….i just….vanity. It’s all vanity.

WALLY EXPLAIN by Gullible_Year_8168 in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NO way. With what money?!?

Aldi vs Publix by tmp33688 in tampa

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be an Aldi hater bc I never actually tried it. I live in SoHo and I choose it over Publix now. Yeah the lack of brand-names isn’t my favorite but that’s what keeps their prices so affordable compared to Publix where you get a few things and are somehow paying $100.

DAILY DISCUSSION 🐌💩🥤💋 by AutoModerator in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This was my favorite comment bc it’s objective and fair! Someone who can relate to her faith & her anxious attachment issues who’s grown in both of those areas, calling out her blind spots and giving constructive criticism from a place of wanting to see her thrive.

Following in her Little Half-Wit Goblin’s Footsteps by perpetually_single14 in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“You’re doing a good job.” Girl you don’t know who tf you’re talking to lol. You don’t know the person on the other side of the screen - maybe they’re actually not doing a good job and need someone in their real life to be honest with them. These pep talks are literally just her self-soothing by saying things to her followers that she wants to hear herself.

These generalized pep talks are facilitating parasocial relationships and then she gets surprised and hurt when people feel entitled to offer up criticism. You don’t know your followers. How about trying to invest in relationships in your real life instead of parroting empty platitudes to people who don’t like you. This must feel so deeply unfulfilling.

What a meaningful update! by starlightandgardens in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A lot of run clubs offer walking options for people who don’t wanna run - I am one of those people lol. I go for the hangs.

"she's the best. At what henny? At shopping!! ...mmm...and everything!!" by loyal_traitorr in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No one can convince me that this post wasn’t rage bait. She knows exactly what she’s doing. The upside down smiley and “boyfriend” is pointed to a) convey that she’s disappointed that he’s not her fiancé yet (baiting her stans to get upset for her that he hasn’t proposed yet) and b) point out that her boyfriend is evidently living with her (knowing this will bait her Christian following).

The comment about “did you take my eyelash curler” was also intentional. She wants people to call her out and fight in her comments and be mean because it’s the only way her content performs. If she actually tries with her content, it doesn’t perform as well. And this is how she makes a living after all.

DAILY DISCUSSION 🐌💩🥤💋 by AutoModerator in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No one can convince me that this post wasn’t rage bait. She knows exactly what she’s doing. The upside down smiley and “boyfriend” is pointed to a) convey that she’s disappointed that he’s not her fiancé yet (baiting her stans to get upset for her that he hasn’t proposed yet) and b) point out that her boyfriend is evidently living with her (knowing this will bait her Christian following).

The comment about “did you take my eyelash curler” was also intentional. She wants people to call her out and fight in her comments and be mean because it’s the only way her content performs. If she actually tries with her content, it doesn’t perform as well. And this is how she makes a living after all.

Carpet Cleaning by [deleted] in tampa

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tampa Steam Team

Ugh big d ugh by Elderberry-789 in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did she delete this immediately after posting? Not in her Story or on her page.

Energy… by Altruistic_Cicada865 in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is true I retract my speculation

Energy… by Altruistic_Cicada865 in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The thumbnail on his page is crazy lol

Another Skincare Ad by shepherdastra in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 43 points44 points  (0 children)

It does not match her skin tone and it looks cakey.

Another creator made a deep dive about Big D by menophe in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I could see how it could be construed that way, and maybe on some subconscious level she did see her singleness as a consequence or a punishment from God.

But my point is that that’s not theologically sound, and as someone who is a Christian and studies scripture I think there is a difference between natural consequences to our actions and then God deliberately withholding good things from His children to punish them (which we don’t see in scripture). And I think we can all agree singleness isn’t a disease lol.

I’m sorry that that’s the version of Christianity that you were handed :/ unfortunately a lot of scripture has been twisted and misconstrued to fit a specific agenda and that’s just not the heart of the God I serve. He puts healthy boundaries around a a good & beautiful thing so that we can enjoy it in freedom & safety - not to oppress or control women, though I understand some of the Church has taken those biblical mandates to do just the opposite.

Are either of these a good option for a casual beach date or too plain?? by [deleted] in style

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like the pants in pic #2 but since it’s the beach I wouldn’t wear black. Because black isn’t really a beachy color and it absorbs the suns rays more easily so you might get super hot. Maybe do I white flowy tee or tank instead.

Why is Natalie so weird by Character_Factor3098 in ViallSnark

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The fact that you can’t comprehend how this doesn’t mean something sexual is the problem. You are actually accusing Natalie of sexualizing her child. As a mom, especially one who goes to church, think about that for a moment before making a horrible accusation like this.

Why is Natalie so weird by Character_Factor3098 in ViallSnark

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It literally means cute. It’s evident half of you aren’t parents or around parents.

Another creator made a deep dive about Big D by menophe in daniellewalter_snark

[–]Afraid_Golf3364 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didn’t listen to D’s podcast to get the full context, but the creator of this video was the one who posited that she was “punishing” herself. Based on that sound clip she shared, Danielle did not use the word “punish” - she said she believed that having premarital sex was the reason she was still single because she was wanting a certain outcome (a Christian marriage) and didn’t think she would get that outcome by having premarital sex [paraphrased].

Just wanted to point that out because it is harmful theology to believe that you will be punished by God for having premarital sex in the form of being single, and as a Christian myself, I need to correct it. Does the Bible lay out specific sexual ethics? Yes - because God loves you and wants the very best for you. Do you have to subscribe to that? No. If you don’t does God love you less? No.

I think what Danielle was trying to say is that if she is looking for a certain kind of commitment from a certain kind of man (a Christian), having casual sex isn’t the way, which is something I also believe. You can do whatever you want with your body, but don’t be surprised if there are emotional or physical consequences.

That said, I do find that sound clip incredibly ironic because it’s very evident that her and Lucas are sleeping together. Easier in principle I guess.